Chatting and Meeting New Playmate

[Atilla]

I give you so much credit girl. I don't think I could've done that, letting my husband go with another woman and sit at home knowing he's having fun and I'm not. I would want to be there. After all, what's good for the goose is good for the gander right? Or in my case, that's the other way around.

When's Club Utopia happening?

[hytril]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Laura-Kay,

From the way you've been writing this thread there were times it sounded like Andy was going to swing alone, but I thought this couldn't be they are a couple getting into this together, it must me my misunderstanding, but now you clearly say Andy played alone with this woman.

Why didn't you go?

I obviously missed your message here. I thought Andy met her initially by himself to check her out as a playmate for both of you. That seemed unusual, but since you had seen her on Webcam I figured maybe that was appropriate in this case.

Don't you feel you missed out tonight?

LM

Actually this kinda thing porbably happens all the time. I know we were planing on something similar to this. It did not happen, but who knows it still might. I think it all has to do with the level of trust with everyone involved and as long as everyone is ok with it. I perosnally dont see anything wrong with she plays now, I play later. Some people they might have a sorta free for all aproach. Others might have an only while all people are present approach. Or some mixture of. Personally we would probly never do the web cam thing. With Newbies46514 they perfer webcam. Thats what makes the lifestyle so great. You can find people that have the same ideas, desires and wants as you. At least in my opinion as long as everyone is in the know and everyone is ok to what they agree to, Go for it! Sometimes the thrill of it all is just stepping outside of your comfort zone and doing something new. It's all about everyone having fun.

[Newbies46514]

I give you so much credit girl. I don't think I could've done that, letting my husband go with another woman and sit at home knowing he's having fun and I'm not. I would want to be there. After all, what's good for the goose is good for the gander right? Or in my case, that's the other way around.

That was what was so hot about it! What are they doing now? There were a couple of times I asked myself that question and I would just get this feeling that while I didn't know...I definately knew it was something very good and they were really enjoying each other! The strongest that feeling got was around 8:30, I found out later that it was around that time that things were getting serious for them, that was when she started blowing him. <g>

Actually this kinda thing porbably happens all the time. I know we were planing on something similar to this. It did not happen, but who knows it still might. I think it all has to do with the level of trust with everyone involved and as long as everyone is ok with it. I perosnally dont see anything wrong with she plays now, I play later. Some people they might have a sorta free for all aproach. Others might have an only while all people are present approach. Or some mixture of. Personally we would probly never do the web cam thing. With Newbies46514 they perfer webcam. Thats what makes the lifestyle so great. You can find people that have the same ideas, desires and wants as you. At least in my opinion as long as everyone is in the know and everyone is ok to what they agree to, Go for it! Sometimes the thrill of it all is just stepping outside of your comfort zone and doing something new. It's all about everyone having fun.

You hit the nail on the head! That's exactly it, thank you for stating that, I've had trouble putting those thoughts into words.

When's Club Utopia happening?

Well, we were supposed to go last night...but first the alternator in our car went. Andy and our neighbor across the street fixed it up, but it seriously ate into our club funds. Then just when we thought we'd be able to go anyway, our babysitter called and cancelled. We were not happy! So now it's been pushed back three weeks. But I will definately let y'all know how it goes when we finally get there. Instead of going to the club last night, we had a quiet night in...after we put the kids to bed, we relaxed, listened to music and worshiped ever inch of each other's bodies...it was a very good night.

[Atilla]

Awww darn, I was so hoping to hear of your wonderful night at the club but stuff happens. Oh well.

You'll have to keep us posted at your happenings in 3 weeks when you do go. 3 weeks, OMG, I wouldn't be able to stand the excitement. That's a long time.

[akamgaxoxo]

Wow guys, it sounds like you have had alot of fun with his solo experience, I am planning on doing this very soon, and by reading what you have written, I have gotten a good grasp on what I might expect when I come back home to hubby! VERY COOL!