Yay! We finally did it!!

[tina78]

We went to our first on-site party last night and it was FANTASTIC!! We had such an amazing time just talking and laughing, absorbing everything around us and getting to know everyone! Things went pretty innocently, like a normal party I'd say, until around 11pm when more and more people started walking around topless or naked. We spotted a woman who was topless with a great rack and called her over...her husband was "ok", do-able but definitely not my first choice, however, she was definitely hot! We all talked (including one other couple that we had already met at our orientation meeting) and then someone showed-up with a can of whipped cream and that's when the fun began! We first did nipple shots on all the girls, with both the guys and the girls taking turns on everyone, then a few shots on the men...then, somehow, I was picked to be the one to get on top of a table (maybe it's b/c I was the only one in the circle with a skirt on?) and let everyone take turns going down on me....it was totally WILD! The look on my partner's face was priceless, he was SO thrilled to be seeing what he saw, it was so fun! After that, the three of us couples decided to head upstairs and have some fun, and we all started out just with our own partners, then soft-swapped a bit, and by the end of it my partner and I full-swapped with the topless girl and her hubby. I felt a little jipped only b/c my partner is very well-endowed, and he hubby was...well, small...and not very good at what he was doing (oh, and he LICKED facelick my face, which I'm not into, so that was a little bit of a mood-killer), but I still really enjoyed watching my guy with the other girl. At one point, my face was right next to my partner while he was going down on the girl, and I was being done from behind, and it was so fun b/c I was able to talk dirty to my partner while he was going down on the girl, and I think that really got him going good. Surprisingly, he was reluctant to have sex with her, but was okay with me having sex with her hubby.... until I told him to go for it, then he did. The ONLY issue I found within myself was at the very end of the night when we were saying our goodbyes and he and the girl he had swapped with kissed - passionately - goodbye. I mean, she kissed me the same way, but this was the first time I had seen him kiss another girl and it felt a little uneasy, to which I did mention to him and he simply said, "A kiss is a kiss and that's all it was....not to worry, Tina, I prefer you over that girl anyday"...so that made me feel a little bit better. Guess that was an unforeseen feeling for me but I think it was good I mentioned it to him right away and cleared it up. Anyways...we are thrilled and feel so good about our first experience! It's so exciting and we can't wait for the next time!

WOW!!!!


Sounds Like GREAT fun!!!

Glad your first experience turned out so great!

Them clubs sure can be fun can't they!!

[sepacouple]

Congratualations, glad your first time was a great experience. Welcome to the club. "wink"

[stoutgatte]

Sounds like a very successful first time

Don't worry too much about the little jealousy pangs... It happens to us all, little moments like those are common, but the way you handle them are the key. And I think you did great!!!

[Candy&Cane]

Wow! Congratulations! That really sounds like a great experience (especially the part were you found yourself next to hir face.. and the table thing ofcourse... facelick ). Whipped cream.. what a great way to start a party (have to remember that!).

In our (very innocent) experience this girl wanted to kiss my hubby... and I felt fine with everything else.. but this really gave me the creeps.. brrrrr. It felt wrong to me, and thank got my bf noticed it right in time .. (but felt like the 'wrong' couple too)
We talked about this too, quite a lot actually because I really don't want to feel this way about kissing.. (sometimes feelings can be so frustrating ). We decided not to kiss others untill we're 'settled' into the lifestyle

By the way Tina; I love your subtext

[good times]

Congratulations on a great first time.

At our regular club, myself and the host are the masters of the whipcream nipple shot, it is a great ice breaker for sure. It's times like those that it is good to be me.

[MA24Fun]

Congrats on your first time....sounds like it wont be your last!

-J&M

[tina78]

Thanks everybody! I'm so thrilled to have finally experienced this after years of being on the sidelines!! Just wish I had more people I could tell!

[JustAskJulie]

Glad it went so well for you, despite the face licking (I'm going to have that picture in my head for the rest of the night).

Just saw your signature line - have you seen the previews yet for his (John Waters) latest movie?

[desert_dwellers]

COOL!

I hope our first time at a club goes as well. Thanks for sharing. This is really inspirational for us "wannabes".

-J

[JustAskJulie]

Had to return to this thread after coming across another of your threads and connecting some dots that left me confused.

In another thread you said that you and the guy you swing with aren't so much a couple as just FB's, but here you talked about getting a bit jealous when he kissed the other woman in front of you. This leads me to wonder if there isn't more to your relationship than you are willing to admit or accept?

[tina78]

You're right, that was an issue between us, and we discussed it, and after talking about it, I feel much better. We agreed that as any sort of a couple, intimate relations, such as kissing, hugging, holding hands (things, by the way, that even as FB's we still do with each other on a daily basis) would be saved for one another, and not shared with our playmate.

He and I are very close - we talk everyday, see each other almost everyday, and share everything with each other....but neither one of us are interested in a truly committed, steady relationship at this time, so we've chosen the FB route. I definitely have emotions invested in him, but right now, we're simply a casual couple...we enjoy each other's company, but aren't exclusive, but that doesn't mean we don't have rules in our relationship. I think it's human nature to feel insecurity or jealousy when you have any kind of a relationship with someone - casual or serious - and we still have true emotions for one another and they surface in many forms, just as they do for committed couples.