I got to have SEX with a REALLY HOT woman!

[J&T Indiana]

Last Friday at a new club... it was only my wife and I, and one other couple... we actualy hit it off!

Understand I (male half) am "average" looking... and she (my wife) is very cute but even she admits she's a little "soft" bodied. Most men in the lifestyle really like her body... large natural breasts, cute face, curly blonde hair, etc.

I love my wife (of course) AND her body is EXTREMELY SEXY to me, everything about it. I'm not out looking for "miss perfect" body, T satisfies me very well!

However never in my life have I had the opportunity to have sex with the typical "hot chick"... (at least the definition made by society... 5'4", 115, etc.). Not even dating... I had no confidence and never tried.

Well last Friday I did... and it wasn't too darn bad. I did find out I do prefer a little meat on the bones, and I am very fond of larger breasts... and I was nervous and almost felt a bit "underqualified" for her. But she enjoyed it and made me feel REALLY good (she was a "talker", "oh it's sooo deep", "oh you fuck so good", etc.). Whether it was true or not I don't care, because it was a real ego-stroker.

Don't get me wrong I'm not in this for an ego stroke, but everyone has to admit on that occasion when you are able to be with a couple who you consider "out of your league", it's an ego stroke.

So, what's the purpose of this post? I dunno... but this is about the only place I can post of the experience... being a man, of course I'd love to brag to my friends but that's impossible....

So, who here (male or female) have ever wanted to "shout from the hilltops" after doing something like this? Even if it was just with an "average" person... and know that you really can't tell EVERYONE?!?

[fun_pairTX]

It reminds me of the story of the guy that is shipwrecked in a deserted island with Cindy Crawford. The cool night air comes in and they huddle together for warmth and after one thing leads to another they have passionate sex. When they awaken the next morning he is speechless. She notices his odd mood and asks "is there something you want to say?". He replies, "yes, but put on this coat and hat" and he hands her a man's parka and cap. He then hands her a small clump of seaweed and says "put this on your lip like a moustache." He then looks at her excitedly and says "He buddy, last night I did Cindy Crawford".

It is a male thing....................

[midnight hour]

It is a male thing....................
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Well...I dont' know..I have never made it with the buff muscle type..if I ever do..ya betcha I am going to tell someone...

midnight hour

[twoloves]

i know the feeling exactly, J. played with a "10" once. looked like a playboy model. seriously. and a nice personality to match. 18 years younger to boot! oh my gosh, i was in heaven...i never would have had the chance to be with someone like this outside of swinging since my looks are only fair also. i, too, wanted to share the exp with my buddies. i did with a coupla racquetball budds, one didn't believe me and the other one wanted to go to the club next weekend (wife wouldn't go for it).

there have been a few more "wowsers" since but none like that one.

good question, good thread....

mr twoloves

[curious24]

ya know kinda off topic here.. but i don't think it's so much about looks as it's about displaying or coming off as a cofident and out going person... i really think that personality plays a lot in finding a mate.. but the thing is getting the nerve to talk to a "10" is the tough part and then keeping your cool cofident and out going personality ta boot is a whole other ball game

oh and glad you scored with a sexy woman *high five*! heh

[Sonja&Brett]

I know exactly what you're saying. My wife and I love our adventures at the club we go to.But, there's no one we know that we can tell them about the fun we had last weekend. Yeah, so I think the board is a good place to do it. And, the high level of intelligence and sensitivity I see here is just awesome.

[deeptouch]

17 years ago, while on vacation, we meet a couple that later we found lived in the same State and within 100 miles of us. She was an absolute 10, and like you, I am average looking and 18 years older than she. My wife got along vey well with her hubby and we all fucked the whole vaction time.

Since then, I have been fucking her for 17 years and her hubby and my wife have done the same. She is still damb great looking, now has two kids, and I still am overwhelmed that I am fucking her. She says she loves the way I fuck and that its different from her hubby ... that she finds herself fantasizing about it and needs it. I don't question any of it, I just enjoy it. She will phone me every so often and ask me to drive to thier home and fuck her ... I always do that. Sometimes its done without even metioning it to our spouses. We are not in love, but we sure as hell are in lust.

She could have anyone she wanted, but for some reason I got selected, and I'm not looking back. I can't tell anyone either.

[inbeachcouple]

Fun Pair, LMFAO

[Spoomonkey]

I have felt the same way after a few of our club nights...

But I also feel the same way every morning when I go to work

People see me walking in, holding hands with Mrs Spoomonkey and I make sure that my grin says "Oh yeah - I got me some o' dat!"

But - I know exactly what you mean. I was with this delicious blond once and couldn't talk about it... It was horrible...

And the time I had a threesome at my house on my bed... Yeah - I had to keep quiet about that too...

Guys are like that, though...

Everyday is an exercise in keeping my mouth shut - but as anyone who knows me in the lifestyle, I am almost rediculously discreet. Better to be that way and get to play again

*sigh*

But it does suck sometime...

Spoomonkey

[xxoticangel]

I don't know why but this reminds me of a couple we met and ended up having a FFM with. We had a meet and greet at a bar on a Sunday afternoon so we could chat. Everyone was mutually attractive (he was better than average and she was gorgeous) and it seemed that things were going to work out but something just didn't seem right about the other guy. At one point the girls went to the the ladies room and outside to smoke leaving him and I alone. He and I began to talk like guys do and he admitted that he did not like swinging. He hated sharing his wife with other men and was only able to perform with other women because they were always hotties and his wife enjoyed it so much. He went on to say that he had never seen his wife with another man but had always used seperate rooms because he could not bear watching his wife with someone else. His attitude was that since he was able to have sex with women that he would never have had a chance with in the vanilla world and his wife was going to do it anyway he consented to swinging. His wife was a swinger when they met he knew that she was not going to change once they got married. The one FFM we had with them was the second meeting. The girls had really hit it off and arranged a play date. We met them in the bar and after chatting and dancing for awhile he kissed his wife, told her to have a good time, and left. After another drink she asked for a ride home and the three of us played. Turned out that his wife had wanted to play with us and since our rule is always same room he had consented to her playing with us while he was not present. I felt bad after knowing that he had done something he had not wanted to but God it was fun.

[WA_Cple]

I feel like shouting from the mountain top every single time we swing...

But I have to agree with midnight... if I ever got with a perfect male 10... I think I would take out a full page ad somewhere... hehe j/k of course *wink*

Isn't life grand?



Mrs WA

[booboo13]

deep touch are you telling me you have sex with this other woman and not tell your other halfs. or you go do it then tell your mate. because if you do it and not tell your mate. i thinkl that is call cheating if you don't tell your mate......what you did while their are not there.

[crestviewcpl2]

Loved this thread. It made me feel more confident about the fact that MFF swap will not happen unless I feel totally unthreatened by the female. You are very lucky to have a wife who feels secure. Being as I'd always be the dog in a foursome I'm pretty sure there won't be one unless its soft swap. Threesomes, maybe but only MMF is sounding better. I can understand the high five of getting laid by someone considered hot. For those of us who will never be called hot except by men who are trying to stroke our egos to get lucky or that love us so they feel they ought to say it.....it makes me think I ought to invest in a very pretty bag to wear that looks like a 10 and then whomever I'm with could fantasize he got to be with someone special. Would I brag about a hard bodied guy. Naw, cuz there's no way my b/f would want me to sleep with that either. And since I'm taking the "you both have to be comfortable" rule to heart, I'd respect his wishes. I'll just read the posts of the others who meet these people. Party on, write about it, and I'll read.

[deeptouch]

booboo,

The very best part is telling your spouse, or having your spouse tell you. I love having my spouse tell me about being naughty and mostly when she is still wet inside. I guess you could call that cheating, but some of us like to meet2cheat and then later share it.

Did that answer your question?