Wow! Our first ON-Premise club! Utopia!

[Joe_Ang]

Angie and I just got home from a visit to our first On-Premise club. It is Club Utopia out of Fort Wayne, Indiana, and may we just say.. WWOWW!!! We went on what they coined their "slowest weekend of the year", being Independence Day weekend. That did not stop the wonder, the excitement, nor the fun.
Have to admit, we were somewhat nervous going to an on-site club, having limited experiences in off-premise clubs. From the moment we stepped through the doors till the time we left we felt like welcomed friends. We went with another couple who we have recently become good friends with... We were briefly "interviewed" and told about their theories, rules and expectations. The tour we received was so warm, inviting, and top notch that we were locked from the get-go. The emphasis was on how this was "our" club, and it clearly showed.
There are many "themed" rooms that were not advertised on their website - klubutopia DOT com! Those rooms that were shown far exceeded our expectations! We have heard many horrific stories of closer on-premise clubs, so cleanliness and behavior were a major concern. These priorities were foremost on their minds and expectations too! They truely emphasized how non-pushy, open-minded and thoughtful an environment it was. Throughout our experience, we were never led to think otherwise.
While we had gone with another couple we wanted to play with, the possibility of further enjoyment was evident. The club brought out an unexpected new sexuality in both Angela and myself. Mind you we have been a "Same-Room, Full swap couple". I never imagined being an exhibitionist, but it did not take long before I decided to longingly throw my partner down in the couch room to entertain her orally. I don't want to say people gathered, but there were some who noticebly watched and admired our enjoyment. Shortly thereafter (or rather during), I saw my wife walking by with her partner and a naughty lil bag of attachments for the Sybian... Was somewhat sorry to miss out on her experience, but the girls kinda exchanged moans through the thin walls. We had talked beforehand and decided we were comfortable playing "seperately" during the night.
The rooms allowed for total privacy, open window and shut door, or simply a chain for interested parties to view and inquire about joining. I found myself oddly leaving the window open. I so wanted others to enjoy what I was! Angie exclamed she had the same desire, but more often than not her partner opted for privacy which was, of course, fine.
We both ended up experiencing everything we were comfortable with for the night, but left with many future ideas, fantasies and experiences we wanted to try. We will definately be going back!!! Angie even comented she'd like to live closer because she enjoyed it so much!
We have not always found our expectations met in this lifestyle, but this truely exceeded and fired up our fantasies! I cannot wait to share this with her again! I hope everyone in this lifestyle finds something as pleasing!

Joe (just an average Joe...)

[Randalls_angel]

Originally Posted by Joe_Ang

Angie even comented she'd like to live closer because she enjoyed it so much!

First let me say---Uh uh, ya just can't move that far away from us!!
Secondly, after your's and Ang's raving reviews I'm still more upset that we couldn't join you! Next time for sure!!

Love and hugs,
~angel~

[Joe_Ang]

Hehe, you were invited... You chose to spend "quality time" with family you rarely see..... Hehe, like we could blame ya! That just makes future visits that much better, knowing we can "break ya in"! And boy did my mind wonder thinking about all the things you'd enjoy. Especially the bed with bars, and cuffs... The Harley room.... <sigh>

Unka Joey

[Randalls_angel]

Originally Posted by Joe_Ang

And boy did my mind wonder thinking about all the things you'd enjoy. Especially the bed with bars, and cuffs... The Harley room.... <sigh>

Unka Joey

You are such a tease!! Ang told me about the bondage room and the Harley room. <sigh> And here I sat with dad. Ah well, we will be all the more ready now when we can go with you. And, we'll have seasoned pros to show us around!! What more could a girl ask for?

~angel~

[ALilOEverything]

That sounds like a fabulous time! I'm so envious... we would like to go to an on-premise club for my 30th birthday in September. There isn't anything near us at all. How far was it to drive to this club? I wouldn't want to drive much more than 4 hours and we're already 2 hours from Lansing. I know there is one about 2 hours from here in K-zoo but the reveiws have been so bad I'm leary of it. Would you recommend going with someone else? I think this couple we've been playing with wouldn't mind tagging along but I didn't know if that made it complicated if you found others you wanted to play with too.

[BradAndJanet]

Wow, thanks for sharing your good time with us! Ft. Wayne's pretty close to us and we happen to know a couple who live there too. Perhaps a visit to Club Utopia is in order for us...

-B

[J&T Indiana]

Welcome to Utopia! We've been members for almost a year now (in August). We've been to 2 clubs in Vegas and one in Indianapolis and Utopia is better than all of them. I think we are spoiled.

We almost went last Friday but something came up at the last minute.

ALilOEverything: If you are in Kalamazoo you aren't far from Utopia really.. take 131 south to Indiana, to I-80/90 and then east to I-69, south on 69 (LOL) to Ft Wayne. It's only about 10 minutes off of the highway. Alternatively you could take 94 to 69 but you go a little too far north.

It's actually less than 2 hours from K-zoo to Ft. Wayne. We drive from Elkhart IN and it's about the same amount of driving. We go once a month usually!

[readyat45]

I got to say that we too enjoyed the night at Utopia, and look forward to the (very soon) "next" trip! While our prior swing experiences have paled in comparision to Joe Ang's, we couldn't have picked better people to share this one with. The people there, while a "slow" night were very enjoyable and friendly to us northerners, that came to visit. Not having seen the variety of themed rooms before, this opened our eyes, we couldn't take advantage of all of them, though some of us wanted to try real hard !!
The club has gone out of its way to accomidate it's guests to make it a comfortable time for all. I have to say that the hostess had a brilliant way to convey the "rules" of the club to us, that kept us laughing and thinking about the meanings all at the same time. How many of us can be told what not to do, and why, and laugh about it all at the same time. That woman is a charm!
As for our experiences, I will only say that we both came home with (big) smiles on our faces. And some private discussions of what we will do for the next time!! Be forwarned and be prepared, it will only be better. ) B&S

[ALilOEverything]

Originally Posted by J&T Indiana

Welcome to Utopia! We've been members for almost a year now (in August). We've been to 2 clubs in Vegas and one in Indianapolis and Utopia is better than all of them. I think we are spoiled.

We almost went last Friday but something came up at the last minute.

ALilOEverything: If you are in Kalamazoo you aren't far from Utopia really.. take 131 south to Indiana, to I-80/90 and then east to I-69, south on 69 (LOL) to Ft Wayne. It's only about 10 minutes off of the highway. Alternatively you could take 94 to 69 but you go a little too far north.

It's actually less than 2 hours from K-zoo to Ft. Wayne. We drive from Elkhart IN and it's about the same amount of driving. We go once a month usually!

Thank you! We are about 1.5 hours from K-Zoo, It sounds like the same drive time wise as it would be for us to go to Detroit. We'll have to look into it. I really want our first time in a cool place.

[Joe_Ang]

You will not be dissapointed! We had no idea what to expect, but we quickly felt welcomed and befriended! Not to mention the erotic fun we had!!!

[readyat45]

We had so much fun the first time, that we are dying to get back as soon as we can My wife has opened up so much in such a short time, and while I would like to pin it all on the trip to Utopia, of course I have to admit it is the people we went with. I'm sure it is the people that you go with, that set the mood for the night. But on the other hand the desire to go back is for the additional prospects that the club has shown us. I joked with my wife who has been called "insatiable" since this trip, that she has just touched the tip of the iceberg in the lifestyle. She is looking forward to broadening her experience, and of course who am I to hold her back
I too would encourage others to visit Utopia, take some friends, or plan on meeting someone there. The braver couples could do well there as well, we are just a little too shy to walk up to people we don't know and get things started that quickly. (though it may not be long before we are )
There were several couples there that night that we have talked about since then. And the thoughts come back to why didn't we say/do something about it!
Does that sound funny to anyone?
For those like us, that are getting all worked up just thinking about Utopia, we are planning on going back on 7-17-04 . Drop us a line!
P.S. It's themed "Itsy Bitsy Teeny Weenie Bikini Pary" night

[JustAskJulie]

Hey Joe_Ang, glad you had a good time. Be sure to also post your review of the club at http://www.swingersboard.com/clubreview.html to be added to the listings and reviews section of the site.

[Randalls_angel]

Originally Posted by readyat45

For those like us, that are getting all worked up just thinking about Utopia, we are planning on going back on 7-17-04 . Drop us a line!
P.S. It's themed "Itsy Bitsy Teeny Weenie Bikini Pary" night

We're gonna be there this time!! (Though I'm not gonna be in a bikini ) I think Sir is planning on a school girl theme cuz I just got an awesome new outfit!
See ya on the 17th!!
~angel~

[stangme]

Hey Joe and Angie! Glad you had a great time. We have often wondered what an on premise would be like but had decided it probably wasn't for us. Maybe someday......

Stang