First Experience

[JustAskJulie]

Everyone gets started in different ways. Some fall in with a soft-swing or same room only purely by accident, others purposefully jump in head first and go to an on-premise club for a full-swap experience.

With me and my ex it was a same room sex experience that got us started. So what was your first experience? How did you get started with swinging? Or have you yet?

[HotCoupleGnS]

Our first time started with friends of ours. We were playing poker & drinking a little. As we all got a little more tipsy, we decided to play strip poker. Next thing we knew, we were all playing with each other. We had a few more experiences with them, but sadly we are no longer friends any longer. Then we had a few mfm experiences. About a year later we were in a yahoo chat room, talking to some couples & they gave us a link to SLS. We never really knew until then that there was a whole "lifestyle!" But we sure know now!

[xxoticangel]

Our first was with friends too. The four of us were on a long weekend at the beach and due to a reservation error we had to share a room. We started with us having sex in our bed and them in theirs. At one point we were doggie style when he orgasmed and pulled out. He stood up and turned toward us with his penis at face level to Angel. For some reason she reached out, grabbed it, and started sucking. She and I had discussed swinging and she knew I was open to it. The weekend turned out to be a rainy mess outside and a sexual free for all inside.

[Rockon]

Someone left an issue of Looking glass magazine in a hotel room and in the back there was a list of swing clubs by state.
I was entriqued and visited an area club and had an excellent time on my first visit.
That was enough to get me hooked!!

[Spoomonkey]

We searched the internet - found some friends through AFF and then watched things SLOWLY develop over the next few months. It took five months of friendship building to have our first sleep over.

Once we crossed that threshhold, though, we thought maybe things would speed up...

They didn't...

They practically died...

So - we found another couple - who introduced us to a local club, despite our incredible fear of the club scene... We went the very next weekend by ourselves - came away with the material for the two short stories that I have submitted here (Emergence Part 1 & 2) and haven't looked back since.

We really look at that club night as our first experience. I know you can't really write off the other ones, but they were very "lite" compared to our other adventures.

Spoomonkey

[HotCoupleGnS]

Spoomonkey, I read the first story, GOOD story! But I couldn't find the second. I would really like to read it. Is it archived or something?

[JustAskJulie]

The second one isn't posted yet, but it will be soon.

[DandS]

Our first experience was at a club. I had read an article about swinging and was so naive... I did not believe that places like that actually existed in our community. I did a google search on adult clubs in our area and found not 1 but 3 local on premise clubs!

We initially went to visit one out of curiosity. After several months of continuing to visit the club, flirting, dancing, loads of conversation between hubby and myself we had our first soft swing at the club. That lead to several more soft swing or same room experiences and me realizing I enjoyed F/F play. Eventually we invited a couple we had met at the club to the house for dinner and ended up doing a full swap. Now we even have a profile on SN. We still consider ourselves fairly new and inexperienced after a year and a half though, but we're still having fun and have come a long way from the couple who went to the club out of curiosity Just had our 3rd full swap experience this past weekend.

D

[JustAskJulie]

^bump^

[Vjklander]

Our first was with a couple we know who threw the bait out there and reeled us in. Gees, looking back we were such guppies.

[des1re06]

Our first experience was for a bi-female. I setup 4 "dates" in one day: breakfast, lunch, dinner, and drinks at a swing club.

Breakfast won! She was an experienced bi lady and they made us laugh, and we felt at ease with them.

We met at their house the next day, and she eased me into the bi play. It was great!

Our first full swap was with 2 couples at our house for a house party. The 6 of us hit it off and we had a great time.

We feel very lucky that both of our "first experiences" went so well. They are all still close friends

Mrs. D

[sexcupid]

Our first experience was accidental.

We were at the lake, we went looking for our normal 'spot' to spread our stuff out and get some sun. Someone was already there...so were were looking around for other suitable flat spots to be able to lay the blankets down. (We were at Lake Travis in Austin at Hippie Hollow...the 'shore' is basically a bunch of rocks...sometimes hard to find a good spot)

Anyway, the place we stopped at, there was a couple sitting about 10 feet below us. We started chatting with them, they were an older couple, just married (she was in her 30s he was late 40s?). According to him, she was new to the nudist thing. But still nice folks to talk to. We sat and chatted, started getting touchy feely, and we ended up swapping. The other Mr. and I were already playing when my SO and his wife got going...he was so hard core into watching her, he stopped what we were doing and floated over to them, and was up making a running commentary for her (you like that? how does he feel? etc.). Maybe this is why I would prefer separate room play? Focus!

Her and Jeff finished and we were ok with things aftewards. So...let us count all the mistakes: 1. out of state strangers....check! 2. public place....check! 3. possibility to be arrested...check! 4. lots of onlookers...check! lmao

Mercifully, things have gotten much better since that time. It was fun, but it would have been nice to have my partner actually pay attention to me instead of being so distracted by what was happening to his wife. You want to use my sweetie for your enjoyment, ok....just let us know what the expectation is...I could have been on the rocks getting my twins more tan..

Maria

[Sico_tiko]

our first was Soft onw with my G/F and a couplr of our friends at their home, we went there and started

[Jim&Shelley]

Our first two expierences have been with the same couple...a friend of mine and her husband. We have been hanging out a couple friends for over ten years. We have always made little "swinging jokes" especially on vacation.
About a month ago we rented a cabin in the Smoky Mountains of East Tennessee. Leaving the kids at home we planned a great weekend.

Our first night after dinner and wine our friends suggested some hot tub time to relax and enjoy the lights of the city below. I forgot mine and hubby swimsuits, then he (friends husband) suggested skinny dipping - even offered to let the ladies get in first before the guys came outside. Well we were game, all friends - right? So we skinny dipped in the hottub. Aftereards we went to our bedrooms.

Second day we shopped etc. After eating that night we returned, fixed drinks and stripped down and returned to the hot tub. Well after a while (and some drinks) in the tub, snuggeld up with our spouse...my friends husband started asking "when are we gonna swap"...well I spoke up and said I would snuggle with him and let my hubby snuggle his wife...well everone shifted around and we did. Well the conversation progressed...there was alot of kissing each other partner then ALOT of touching...

We ended up inside each couple having sex (not-swapped) in the living room.
Well last weekend we went to thier house, no kids again. Well Saturday night we swapped in the same room for oral only, then had intercourse with our usual partner. Sunday after brunch, we swapped for oral again before we left.

My hubby and I are extremly turned on and want to fully swap...Im even thinking different rooms.

[sweet_tna]

Our good friends had confided in us that they were swingers during a family camping trip. The idea intrigued me, and Mr. Sweet and I decided that once our schedule slowed down some, we'd give it a try.

A few months later, our friends invited us to a meet & greet. We agreed to share a hotel room with no intention to play. The meet & greet was only so-so, and we were beginning to doubt if the swinging thing was for us.

We all crashed in our repective beds at the end of the night. Mr. Sweet woke me up in the most pleasant of ways, and I guess we woke up our friends. Mr. Friend joined us, and that was my first MFM. Then Mr. Sweet helped him "take care" of Mrs. Friend . . . who then helped me take care of Mr. Sweet, then we went for the whole enchilada.

=)