First Experience

[tittietwister]

Ours was with a couple we met on Swing Lifestyle - a very nice couple who spent a lot of time answering our questions and offering advice. After a vertical meeting we all agreed (or so I thought) to play. I had a wonderful time but as it turned out my wife wasn't as ready as she thought for the first giant step. She did not handle it well so the relationship with the other couple is politely tense now. I really regret them being our first as I truly enjoyed the lady on many levels and would have liked if we all could have become friends and lovers. I haven't had an experience that comes close to matching that first time.

[largdad]

I went to a college party with a few couples. After drinking a few hours people started getting undressed and playing a new version of spin the bottle I never played before. My first spin was with, what became my husband, mr larg. We been doing it ever since and enjoying it.

[Tia Vampire]

Our first experience was with his best friend.We had a threesome that did not go that well because his friend could not keep it up. 1 on 1 he was fine, but soon as my fiance step through the door, down it went. We still love him and are still friends til this day, but no more trying to talk him into it again.

[steve as is]

ours was with a single male friend and turned out to be one of our best nights ever with him eating her out and pumpinhg her pussy while i got great head then swapped places after blowing and recovering she suggested double vaginal which she had seen on a video and wanted to try after a bit of wrangling she had andrew on his back and squatted on his penis giving me a great view of her full of cock then she leant back so i could enter with a few moans it was great once we got the rhythn together and both blew happily ever after we promised ourselves that night that this was not a one off and more was to come

[vixxenms]

We were at a popular swing club in Miami. It was our first time ever in
a lifestyle club or situation. We saw a couple in the shower along with
other people and decided to jump in and join and it has been a fun ride
every since.

[ohbaby]

My first time was very very different. He had asked me if I be interested in trying it back in August of 99. I at first asked him, “if he was fucking nuts”. That I wouldn’t think of doing that in a million years. But it played on my mind, so I bought a few books about it did some web research and found out it wasn’t about love but about sex and feeling good. When I told him I wanted to try swinging he almost fell off his chair. He didn’t think I was ready and was looking for an idea or a way to test me.

I keep a journal, this is the opening words of my entry of my first time:

My heart is galloping right now. Paul will be here in 15 minutes to half an hour or so, and he might be bringing home a friend or two. I am going to suck them off while Paul watches me. All this came up yesterday when Paul suggested it to me half joking, never really believing that I might say yes. But as soon as he mentioned it, my heart started pounding and my pussy started to flood, and I knew I really wanted to do it. It’s suppose to be a “surprise” so I don’t know which day this week it will happen

This was my test, and I passed !!!

[ViSexual]

OK, this might be a bit long but it's very true.

We'd only been married a year when we met Booker and
Sheryl.

Booker was about 6' 4" and very muscular. When I first met
him I figured he'd been a college jock but found out later
that he just enjoyed working out.

Sheryl was tiny in comparison, maybe 5' and probably didn't
weigh 90 pounds but, like Booker, very muscular and in
shape. Not that it mattered but they were black and Sheryl
had just enough Cherokee in her to give her skin a gorgeous
copper tone.

At that time I was 25 and, just getting out of the
military's special forces, in perfect condition. I'm 6'2"
at that time weighed around 205. I have blondish hair and
blue eyes and was about as different from Booker as could
be.

My wife is about 5'' 7" and weighed only 115 then. But, her
small frame carried a couple of perfect 36 C's that hung
just right.

Booker and I worked together and the four of us attended
all the work 'after hours' parties. Nobody had much money
back then so instead of going out 'clubbing' we'd just meet
most weekends at a different home. There were about 10 or
fifteen couples who met regularly.

It became obvious to everyone that whenever there was slow
song that Booker and my wife were going to be dancing. And
they soon were dancing very, very closely. It didn't bother
me at all and I think Sheryl enjoyed watching them about as
much as me. They enjoyed each other's feel and we enjoyed
watching...,. no harm, no foul.

Well, I finally quit that job but still kept in contact
with Booker and Sheryl and a couple of the other couples. I
was in sales and one of the salesmen the
8mm tape of 'Deepthroat' with Linda Lovelace. When I
mentioned this to friends Booker and Sheryl and another
couple wanted to see it so my wife and I invited the two
couples to join us that Saturday evening.

During the film everyone was pretty quiet. There just
wasn't that much porn around back in the mid seventies and
it was a bit of an overload on everyone I think. But as
soon as it ended the third couple left pretty quickly and
it was obvious that they were in a hurry to get home and
take care of matters.

The four of us laughed about that after the couple left and
we sat, drank, and talked about the movie and sex in
general for an hour or so.

My wife was the first to call it a night and when she said
she needed to go to bed Booker said he was ready to go home
too.

Sheryl asked me if I, too, was ready for sleep and I fixed
another drink for her and me both. We told Booker that I'd
give Sheryl a ride home later since they only lived a few
blocks away.

Sheryl and I drank and talked about Booker and my wife and
both agreed that their having the hots for each other was
sort of fun and cool with both of us. Then, on the way to
Sheryl's house she admitted that she'd seen Booker with
another woman before and was fine with it. In fact she said
it was really a turn on for her.

I told Sheryl that I thought I'd enjoy seeing my wife with
a guy too, and that if my wife and Booker were together that
I'd be OK with it. Well, turns out that Booker and Sheryl
were hoping I'd say something just like that because as
soon as we got to their house Sheryl went straight to the
bedroom and told Booker what I'd said.

OK, we'd all been drinking a lot. But Booker seemed sober
as a judge as he looked me straight in the eyes and asked
if I was sure. I assured him I was and we decided that it
would be up to my wife if things went anywhere at all.

Booker took my house key and left Sheryl and me in his
house to wait for his return, or call, if everything went as
planned. That was one long ass wait and I wondered if I'd
really messed up by getting into this.

But after an hour or so Booker called and I could tell by
Sheryl's smile that it was OK. She told me that 'they'd'
done it and they wanted us to come back over. Sheryl was so
excited that she jumped into my arms as she was talking and
gave me the juiciest kiss ever immediately after she told
me.

When we got to my place Booker was wearing my robe and my
wife was in her negligee sitting at the dining room take
drinking coffee.

There was an awkward moment but when I went straight to her
and kissed her, telling her I loved her, everything seemed
to be fine.

My wife and Booker asked if Sheryl and I had 'already' and
we both said no. We'd decided to wait and make sure before
we did anything. So they said that the bedroom was now ours.

Sheryl and I didn't hesitate and were in the bedroom naked
in seconds. We really did enjoy each other but we both were
eager to see our spouses together. Odd how we were on the
same wave length in that respect. So, after we had some
exploring, oral and a nice intercourse we called our
spouses into the bedroom.

To this day what happened the next hour or so is still the
most erotic memories of my life. We wound up exploring
these fun things with five other couples over the next few
years but it's that first memory that's my favorite ever.

While fondling my cute little new playmate I watched as
Booker and my wife made out. Both totally naked, both
totally turned on and both almost performing for me and
Sheryl.

I especially remember when Booker finally rolled on top of
my wife to have intercourse that I was the one who guided him in. Now
that was a hot moment.

After watching my wife and Booker having sex in just about
every way imaginable for an hour or so Sheryl and I finally
had to satisfy our own needs and ignored our spouses for a
very incredible half hour of our own pleasure with each
other.

They spent the night with us that night, what was left of
it, and the next morning we all had breakfast together and
talked about everything in the world except what we'd
shared the night before. We were young, I guess, but we
never talked about it again. Now my wife and I did, but
just a little, and she said that she had remorse about it
and denied having much pleasure. Which, I knew was untrue.

We remained friends for a while but, nothing to do with our
sexual experience, soon drifted apart. That was over thirty
years ago. I'd love to see them again and see how they're
doing and how they aged. And, if things were to work
out..., well, sure, I'd love to!!

[bahwah]

When I was in college I had a FMF experience with a girl I was dating and her room mate and later, after my college career was over I had a MFM experience with another girl I was dating and one of my best friends from school (we went to High School & College together). That girl from the latter experience is now my wife!
Oddly, the two of us didn't do anything else like that again until last year (2007). We went to hang out with some good friends of ours whom we have known for about 12 years. The wife of this couple had had a boob job the year before and so we were anxious to see her new boobs. Well she pulled up her shirt and showed them off for us and then we (the men) jokingly suggested that we play strip poker.
Several hands later we were all sitting around naked then we all moved into the living room where we put on a porno and we all started playing and having sex with our respective partners.
Since then we have gotten together more often and each time we do a little more and a little more. The last time we got together with them my wife gave him a blow job while we all watched and then his wife gave me a blow job while they all watched. Then we had sex with our spouses together in the same room.
My wife is ready and willing for a full on swap but the other wife isn't as ready yet but is warming up to the idea. I think we will get to that point eventually but it's just going to take some time and patience. It's no good trying to force these things. In the meantime we are enjoying our soft swap adventures.

[radiojohnny]

Originally Posted by HotCoupleGnS

Spoomonkey, I read the first story, GOOD story! But I couldn't find the second. I would really like to read it. Is it archived or something?

hi...iam so happy that my girl talked to about her past...she was a call girl...and had my cousins pussy..shes bi but whats really cool is i got to suck my best friends cock while 20 friends had to guess who i was...
i came 8 times and have been into watching and playing with myself ..cuming in my cousins face...

[midkas]

wonderfull experiences...

[oakridgecouple]

Ours was totally out of the blue. We had talked about it for some time, but did not have the opportunity We were working a fund raiser nd she said to me, there's your guy. Pointed to a mutual "friend" of ours. I approached him at the bar later that night, I think he almost fell over. We hung out for a bit, went to a local hotel and the rest as they say is "history".....to be continued

[tallnsexy405]

Originally Posted by largdad

I went to a college party with a few couples. After drinking a few hours people started getting undressed and playing a new version of spin the bottle I never played before. My first spin was with, what became my husband, mr larg. We been doing it ever since and enjoying it.

Do you mind sharing the rules with us.

[jjtrindc]

Our first "experience" was really just to go to an off-premise club. We planned it like "d-day" lol. What happens if this, what happens if that. Turns out we had a great night dancing, full of sexual energy, and met some nice couples. We turned to Swing Lifestyle where we met a really nice couple. After two "dates" we went back to our place and had simultaneous sex. It was really hot for both of us, my wife especially as it really pushed her "boundaries". We kept it slow like that for a long time and are easing into soft swap. But thankfully we had such good experiences early on to make this all that much easier. Of course, in general we find Lifestyle folks so nice!

[NaughtyGirl]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Everyone gets started in different ways. Some fall in with a soft-swing or same room only purely by accident, others purposefully jump in head first and go to an on-premise club for a full-swap experience.

With me and my ex it was a same room sex experience that got us started. So what was your first experience? How did you get started with swinging? Or have you yet?

How do I find a same-room opportunity if my spouse and i dont know anyone who swings? we live in st. louis.

[bbarnsworth]

Originally Posted by NaughtyGirl

How do I find a same-room opportunity if my spouse and i dont know anyone who swings? we live in st. louis.

Put up a profile on swinglifestyle.com or some other similar board. Be clear in your profile about what it is you want; same room sex with another couple. Also, find clubs in your area (there's a list of clubs on swinglifestyle.com and also on here) and attend a club or three.