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How do we find other swingers?

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  1. Is having a good personal ad or profile a key to finding people to swing with?

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  2. What are swinger clubs, parties, and resort really like? What is expected, and what should we expect from other swingers?

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  3. How to make swingers out of non-swinging friends, or even should we?

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  1. Getting These Couples to Swing

    Started by sahajacpl, 10-07-2013 10:39 AM
    swinging with vanillas, vanillas
    • Replies: 9
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    10-15-2013, 02:18 PM Go to last post
  2. Attraction/chemistry and its importance

    Started by 36tncouple, 03-15-2013 01:22 PM
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    attraction, chemistry
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 1,374
    07-17-2013, 08:36 PM Go to last post
  3. Stood Up ???

    Started by -jb-, 10-07-2011 11:36 AM
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    no shows
    • Replies: 25
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    09-06-2012, 11:08 AM Go to last post
  4. Can't decide

    Started by corynlaine, 07-03-2012 08:08 AM
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    finding others online, red flags
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 1,870
    07-16-2012, 05:16 PM Go to last post
  5. Take it or leave it

    Started by funcoupledayton, 01-17-2012 10:49 PM
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    attraction
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 2,128
    06-30-2012, 06:33 PM Go to last post
  6. Am I Being Too Picky?

    Started by sunbuckus, 01-19-2012 03:08 PM
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    choosy, picky
    • Replies: 31
    • Views: 1,830
    04-26-2012, 10:05 PM Go to last post
  7. Is this being naive or possibly a bad idea?

    Started by Unicorn101, 03-23-2012 04:18 PM
    police, professional couples, safety, trust
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 1,582
    04-21-2012, 11:39 AM Go to last post
  8. Some Advice on what to do.

    Started by candycane3, 02-23-2012 05:50 PM
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    doubts
    • Replies: 25
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    04-02-2012, 11:30 PM Go to last post
  9. Assessing the connection/interest

    Started by exploringRM, 01-29-2012 10:28 AM
    connecting, interest, signs and symbols
    • Replies: 12
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    02-22-2012, 11:04 PM Go to last post
  10. Are We Too Choosy?

    Started by Katharinablomst, 12-26-2011 03:03 AM
    choosy, picky
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    01-19-2012, 07:00 PM Go to last post
  11. Long-time friend of fiancee wants to join in.

    Started by Cra1g, 10-16-2011 11:54 PM
    friendship and swinging, getting started, swing-curious
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 1,486
    01-02-2012, 04:11 AM Go to last post
  12. Advice on making a good first impression

    Started by ludwig, 11-29-2011 08:20 AM
    first impression
    • Replies: 7
    • Views: 939
    12-25-2011, 04:35 PM Go to last post
  13. FFM needs another M

    Started by Bluebell22, 11-04-2011 02:56 AM
    convincing partner, ffm, finding others, voyeurism
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 978
    11-22-2011, 03:36 PM Go to last post
  14. Rural swinging?

    Started by Danielle87, 10-20-2011 03:57 PM
    where to play
    • Replies: 14
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    11-04-2011, 05:38 PM Go to last post
  15. Would you be willing to wait?

    Started by Ed & Bunny, 10-23-2011 11:40 PM
    waiting
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    10-26-2011, 12:41 PM Go to last post
  16. Oh... Were BRAND NEW with NO EXPERIENCE…need LOTS of Advise

    Started by Aladyandhim, 10-20-2011 08:40 PM
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    getting started
    • Replies: 21
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    10-26-2011, 12:10 PM Go to last post
  17. It's a small world

    Started by rainbowskye, 10-06-2011 05:14 PM
    • Replies: 6
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    10-10-2011, 02:50 PM Go to last post
  18. Birthday surprise

    Started by cnd_couple, 08-28-2011 08:58 PM
    gangbangs, group sex, surprise
    • Replies: 6
    • Views: 1,580
    09-09-2011, 07:59 PM Go to last post
  19. Would you meet them?

    Started by funcoupledayton, 06-24-2011 01:40 PM
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    interesting questions, oral sex
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 1,471
    07-02-2011, 06:08 AM Go to last post
  20. Words or phrases to determine if others are swingers

    Started by newbicuriouscpl, 06-18-2011 01:24 PM
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    are they swingers, signs and symbols, swingdar
    • Replies: 16
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    06-23-2011, 06:26 PM Go to last post
  21. Are we too picky?

    Started by lilitalian, 06-30-2010 04:02 PM
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    discouraged, finding others, picky, preferences
    • Replies: 19
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    06-05-2011, 11:13 PM Go to last post
  22. Single Straight Female.

    Started by Gorgegon, 12-03-2010 03:40 PM
    commitment, dating, meeting others, straight female
    • Replies: 13
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    06-01-2011, 12:08 PM Go to last post
  23. Swinging just for sex OK?

    Started by kennyg, 04-26-2011 07:32 PM
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    no strings attached, swing-curious
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    05-16-2011, 11:17 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 91
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    05-03-2011, 09:29 PM Go to last post
  24. singles finding love in the lifestyle?

    Started by gnb4u, 11-14-2008 10:13 PM
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    love, relationships, swinging single
    • Replies: 33
    • Views: 3,768
    02-16-2011, 01:25 PM Go to last post
  25. Are we being blown off?

    Started by Let's Play, 01-12-2011 02:47 PM
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    discouraged, response time, single males, waiting
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 2,755
    01-28-2011, 06:00 PM Go to last post
  26. Finding Swinging Spouse?

    Started by MajorQuestion, 08-04-2009 09:46 PM
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    dating, meeting others, swinging single
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 3,111
    01-20-2011, 03:16 PM Go to last post
  27. Post Felt used by FWB couple at club...

    Started by sherpa56, 01-06-2011 01:56 PM
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    unmarried couples
    • Replies: 15
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    01-10-2011, 06:38 PM Go to last post
  28. Smile maybe want a swinger companion

    Started by jodi, 07-28-2010 05:38 PM
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    dating, single women, swing partners
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 3,804
    01-02-2011, 07:57 AM Go to last post
  29. Advice for Meeting Couples

    Started by bbc4barebackinm, 12-21-2010 06:02 PM
    common questions, couples, finding others online, meeting others
    • Replies: 8
    • Views: 2,024
    12-24-2010, 09:21 AM Go to last post
  30. They see my picture and seem to lose interest...

    Started by ruggedteddybear, 03-20-2010 01:20 PM
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    finding others online, photos, profile photos, self esteem
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 3,390
    12-08-2010, 07:46 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 1,416
    11-22-2010, 10:45 PM Go to last post
  31. New and Taking it Slow - Suggestions

    Started by PHXCouple, 11-03-2010 06:24 PM
    swinger clubs, the next step
    • Replies: 12
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    11-06-2010, 10:15 PM Go to last post
  32. Swinger traits (good and bad) to watch for?

    Started by funcouple8482, 08-31-2010 08:09 PM
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    characteristics, red flags
    • Replies: 18
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    10-16-2010, 03:08 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 2,173
    09-21-2010, 05:42 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 1,923
    07-31-2010, 01:34 AM Go to last post
  33. Looking for some advice and wisdom about newbies

    Started by Newpants, 04-29-2010 09:57 PM
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    helping newbies, new swingers, playing with newbies
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 2,497
    06-17-2010, 12:32 PM Go to last post
  34. me my wife and my nephew

    Started by marcuss, 05-07-2010 04:59 PM
    family
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 3,177
    05-10-2010, 09:48 AM Go to last post
  35. Why does this bring of a red flag?

    Started by Obliquity, 02-10-2010 04:52 PM
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    1 2
    finding others
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 1,992
    02-21-2010, 12:12 PM Go to last post
  36. Going through one couple to get to another

    Started by Spoomonkey, 12-22-2009 05:43 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    finding others
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 1,642
    01-02-2010, 04:45 PM Go to last post
  37. Poll Poll: Female bisexuality is a pain in the butt!

    Started by IrishCouple, 12-08-2009 02:51 PM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    attraction, bi female, left out
    • Replies: 32
    • Views: 3,121
    12-28-2009, 07:01 PM Go to last post
  38. How do I bring up swinging to women I date without getting dumped?

    Started by Boyd72, 02-24-2005 07:29 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    convincing, dating
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 2,713
    12-15-2009, 10:39 PM Go to last post
  39. Question Are hookups better at clubs or on sites?

    Started by phreakykouple, 11-30-2009 10:40 PM
    ad sites, swinger clubs, swinger profiles
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 1,679
    12-06-2009, 01:33 PM Go to last post
  40. Unhappy Newbees: Eager to start but getting tired of fakes and letdowns!

    Started by EagerCouple, 09-23-2009 10:29 PM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    fakes, frustration
    • Replies: 36
    • Views: 3,020
    10-08-2009, 09:59 PM Go to last post
  41. Bed Hoppers & Post Notchers...

    Started by JustAskJulie, 03-11-2008 10:34 PM
    4 Pages
    1 2 3 4
    active swingers, anonymity, one night stand
    • Replies: 46
    • Views: 4,508
    08-23-2009, 07:22 AM Go to last post
  42. Finding the right mix

    Started by **Macbeth**, 08-10-2009 03:13 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    friendship and swinging, preferences
    • Replies: 28
    • Views: 2,201
    08-16-2009, 03:10 PM Go to last post
  43. Things just not going the way we wanted with single males.

    Started by C/S, 07-18-2009 10:27 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    finding others, finding others online, single males
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 2,354
    08-13-2009, 11:55 PM Go to last post

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