How do YOU find potential swing partners?

[SluttyWife]

We like parties...they're an easier way to meet many, many people at once but as others have said in this thread, they are mainly heavy flirting opps. Not too bad a situation I say as Sir Mike and I like to meet like minds and do not consider an evening that does not result in sex a let down in any way.

I do however notice that "heavy hitters" tend to get frustrated in this particular setting. For them...I recommend hitting an on-premise club with a pack of playfriends they know and looove so the evening doesn't end in disappointments...perhaps an unexpected surprise if they meet sexy new ones.




Slutty Wife

[tazzie_n_truck]

With us, the people we have met to swing with, we met on-line, talked on-line, then met in person. There is a couple that we have been swinging with for almost a year now, we met them through the internet. Talked with them for almost 4 months before we met in person, and now they are our best friends, as well as swinging friends. With us, if we wanted to go to a swingers club, we would have quite a drive to get to one, and us personally feel more comfortable meeting another couple 1 on 1 just the 4 of us. But your question is certainly not a dumb one. We asked the same questions ourselves when we first got started. We remember back when we first got started yahoo personals was free and we met alot of couples through it. Mainly anymore the couples we meet are though sites like this, or through yahoo or msn groups for swingers in our area.

We want to wish you good luck in your search for a couple to swing with, may seem like it may take a while, but when you find the right couple, you will enjoy it. Our friends who we have been swinging with for almost a year now, we have felt that they are the perfect couple for us. And we enjoy alot of activities with them away from swinging. Us personally, when we look for couples, we look for people we can be friends with first, and then bring sex into the picture when we all feel comfortable with each other. Because when we first got started in swinging, we would talk with people on-line for a while, then we would meet, and then swap that first night, and then they would never talk with us again, and we ended up feeling used. So good luck with your search.

[fun_pairTX]

Are we just friendlier here or what? None of your circumstances struck me as off the wall. Our best is we turned a 6 couple bowling date into an orgy without the benefit of alcohol. I guess we are just plain speakers down in this part of the USA.

[jsnps]

Must be the same here in Kansas, maybe it's just a midwest thing?

Hubby and I took a German class at the uni - he wanted to get back into school (test the waters). I'd already graduated with the MA but love languages so we decided it'd be fun to do it together.

There was a lady we both found attractive so the last night hubby asked her if she'd like to get a drink and maybe come home with us. To our surprise she said yes...

As they say, the rest is history...