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    Default What's the deal with these people?

    We met this couple online and arranged a meeting with them at their place. Played with them and it was really fun for all. About a month later I (Mr) got a text from the girl saying how they've been thinking about us and they'd like to meet us again. I replied saying it would be fun and to let us know when would be a good time for them.

    Heard nothing until a week later when we got a message online saying how they were super interested in getting together in November. We replied to that message as well. Again heard nothing. Sent them another message inviting them to a sex show, to which we were going with a bunch of people. Again heard nothing. Finally after the sex show, sent them a message that if they were still interested in seeing us to let us know. Silence.

    They still continue to check out at our profile, but we never hear from them. So what's the deal with them? I guess it's just a matter of them cooling off, or maybe one of them wasn't really into it?

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    Default Re: What's the deal with these people?

    You can't read anything into silence. Whatever it is probably has nothing to do with You. Forget about it. If they pop up later, great. If not, no big deal.

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    Default Re: What's the deal with these people?

    Has happened to us more than once. Swing lifestyle contacts are like streetcars; if you miss one, there's always another coming right around the corner.

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    Default Re: What's the deal with these people?

    Quote Originally Posted by lustylearning View Post
    You can't read anything into silence. Whatever it is probably has nothing to do with You. Forget about it. If they pop up later, great. If not, no big deal.
    100% this. It happens, sometimes more often than others, and it's part of the the swinging scene.
    You can tell how much a woman likes you by her feet. If they're behind her ears, she REALLY likes you.

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    Default Re: What's the deal with these people?

    As the others noted, you can't read too much into it. Perhaps they got cold feet about playing again, perhaps they're interested but just too busy to make plans. Could be so many things!

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    Default Re: What's the deal with these people?

    Finding couples that are reliable is very, very...did I mention very hard.

    In three years we have met three couples that do exactly what they say. You would think that we are all adults

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    Default Re: What's the deal with these people?

    We are that couple lol. We have 4 kids between 14 -5 and tend to get tied up with the day to day stuff that happens in life. Plus with the economy in the shape its been, its really hit us hard financially and we haven't had the extra money to do swingers activities. We will touch base occasionally with our swinger friends and say hi, along with a we'd like to get together one day soon message. It's probably not anything personal towards you, its more than likely real life.
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    Default Re: What's the deal with these people?

    We can also be that couple on occasion - flakes. One minute everything is great and we really want to get together with our swinger friends. The next minute Life breaks loose and we can't do anything fun for weeks. That could be the case with them.

    OR....

    more likely... one of them is more interested than the other and they are still trying to convince the other to go along for the ride.
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