MFM with a really good friend?

[jimnjan]

If you never plan on talking to him, or anyone that he knows. Otherwise, our own rule is no playing with vanilla friends EVER. That can cause SO MANY problems!

[hoistsail]

If I am with a couple for a while I get to be good friends with them. I am not sure, but for me it is nicer to like the person that I'm with. It is not that a one time thing is not fun, but I truely enjoy the passion/lust of someone that I know and like. Plus the sex gets better and better because you know what pleases them.

So talk a lot about it and let no be an acceptable answer to your request, but I suggest you make the request.

[nhcpl1968]

We have done MFM with a friend and it ended the friendship

[jimnjan]

Originally Posted by nhcpl1968

We have done MFM with a friend and it ended the friendship

Our first experience was with a couple (good friends), same outcome, hence our rule. The main reason we're not friends anymore? The husband of the other couple OUTED us to mutual friends (vanilla) and we lost THEM as friends as well.

[funky]

thanks for the input......we havent made up our minds yet

[theboy]

Originally Posted by funky

thanks for the input......we havent made up our minds yet

We tried to have a MFM with a good friend of ours, and to be honest it didn't go as far as thegirl would have liked. He's just not made for group things, I don't think - it was a little bit of a weird situation for him.

Despite that, we all still remain friends and everything is cool.

[steve as is]

our first couple of 3somes were with friends and all went well and continued for a while until we moved too far away

[realcplub2]

In our situation we chose a close friend as well, sat down over coffee early in the day, and made the arraingments.. The evening started and everything went great, was one of the nights that the Mrs actually passed out from cumming so much/so long..

Our problems however were that, because of the "new" extension in his relationship with her, at any given private moment, he stepped over the lines.. grabbing ass or tit.. and making not too subtle hints.. including around vanilla friends.. we drifted apart, renewing the friendship over the course of ten years twice, and unfortunately, he would pick times were he and she were alone and bring it up again, after being told that it wasnt happening..

Choosing a friend might work out if they understand the dynamics of it, but from personal experience, its better to find a new "friend" and go from there.. someone that understands yes this is whats happening.. be cool with it or , Sorry...

[oakridgecouple]

We have been playing with a friend of ours. He not what you would consider a "good friend", but a friend non the less. Advantage is he knows us, we know him and limits and boundaries are well defined and followed. Down side is he knows us & we know him. But we have played with hime 5 times now and eveything seems to be going along quite well. We also knew e was attracted to her before we approached him. Nothing hotter than seeing her being pleased by someone else that has wanted to do so for so long.

Just curious, where you guys going?