Discouraged or Frustrated with swinging: Not sure where to go from here

[JTcamp05]

So true we really didn't have any excitement this summer, with busy schedules, work kids ect.... Could never get schedules straight with a couple we were close with, have no time/patience for computer chat........... I was really ready to give up when out of the blue we meet a wonderful couple and had a great weekend. So you never know what around the bend.

Keep your hope up and still be best way we have meet people is in person, so ya have to get yourself out there.

[Tia Vampire]

So far we are taking it slow and just trying to get to know people better, but one thing you said is true. We have had couple write us and then when it is time to meet, they don't show up or they don't have the time. I quickly delete these people from my friend list. I don't have the time to chase behind anyone who really is'nt interested or are'nt sure if they want to be in the life - style. Atleast if something comes up, have the decentsy to call or e- mail to let us know what is going on. I must admit though if it happens three or more time. I'm finished with them.