Any luck swinging with people hundreds of miles away?

[nckittycpl29]

After only 2 days on SLS we got our first reply. This potential bi-fem we emailed is pretty hot, however she does live over 300 mi. away. Has anyone here found a potential male/female for their experiences that lived over 100 mi. away? Even if she can't travel that far we could just have fun emailing each other, so I guess either way we can't lose. What do y'all think?

[Vespertine]

I hate to burst your bubble, but she could be a 'he' looking to collect pics. It's a common thing on SLS and AFF, especially if she gives an excuse as to why she can't meet.

Be cautious as to what kind of pics you send her, just in case.

[biblonde]

Just a little note...if she goes by celests..and says she is a traveling nurse...she is a HE...just beware!

[BradAndJanet]

Sweet!

Now, if I were you, I'd try to set up a phone call with her ASAP. The ones who are just faking it will run away pretty fast at that point.

Best of luck and let us know what happens!

-B

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by BradAndJanet

Sweet!

Now, if I were you, I'd try to set up a phone call with her ASAP. The ones who are just faking it will run away pretty fast at that point.

Best of luck and let us know what happens!

-B

That's a great idea, Brad!

[looking2swing]

Due to the fact that we are also relatively new, I am interested to see if she really is a she. It wasn't until I bagan reading on this site, that I learned that people actually do things like that.

[Just_us49]

Brad is right. The phone call will weed out almost all imposters. We included in our profile that folks need to be prepared to talk via phone or they won't get far with us. We don't get near as many responses now but they have been real when we do. With couples we always require the ladies talk on the phone to (hopefully) weed out any hubby's taking the wife along for a ride or her not even knowing about it.

[BradAndJanet]

Originally Posted by Just_us49

Brad is right. ...

I gotta be honest...I learned that one from the very wise Mr. Alura.

-B

Originally Posted by biblonde

Just a little note...if she goes by celests..and says she is a traveling nurse...she is a HE...just beware!

You know what...
We have gotten a few messages from "Her".

She leaves (or left) the same exact message everytime. Cut & paste I am sure.

"I read your profile and it sounds like we have alot in common. I am a traveling nurse and I come thru your area about once a month......etc"

We had "No single females" selected in our profile. The first time we sent "Her" a response saying we were not interested. Then about 2 months later we got the same message again. After that one we blocked her.

How do you know "She" is a "He"?

As for the answer to the original thread topic:

When we first signed on to SLS that damn bird was always flying up in the corner. 8-10 messages a day for the first few weeks.

As far as distance..
Every single male we met, except for one, through SLS lived AT LEAST 100 miles away.

The furthest lived about 250 miles from us. But he drove all the way here.

[biblonde]

Naughty....I chatted with IT on Yahoo for a bit then figuring it was a he..asked IT to call me. I gave her my number and in 3 days i got calls from all sorts of guys asking for me and telling me I promised them all sorts of things....not good had to change my number since they didnt care if it was me or my kids on the phone. Then I found out that I wasnt the first one IT duped! some of my friends and some others on sls had the same problem with her...not the giving of the phone number but other things...we all concluded it was a HE!!

"I read your profile and it sounds like we have alot in common. I am a traveling nurse and I come thru your area about once a month......etc"

Is that pretty much how it went?

If I remember right "She" told us she was from Huston.

I wonder if it is the same person?

Did you report "It" to SLS??

[parcarcaliente]

HI KittyCouple, handling contacts is something that you learn in the process, right now my wife says I almost "smell" the fakes haha but it's just practice, the same old motto and just they way of contacting you.

The women we have met, are all not that "flashy" with her posts, even if they're hot, they don't promise you the take you to the next level in orgasm, since they already know they can haha they don't need to say it, if you get that kind of messages, it's most certainly a guy.

I think if you all had the same problem, try to figure out their nick and report it, we have several banned "couples" in our area, and we comment to the new people about them so they won't be fooled by them.

Take care

[biblonde]

Originally Posted by Mr&Mrs-naughty

Is that pretty much how it went?

If I remember right "She" told us she was from Huston.

I wonder if it is the same person?

Did you report "It" to SLS??

Yup it went like that....When we chatted on yahoo it sounded like a man chatting and that is why i told her to call me right then...since i was home alone and could talk without my kids bugging me...yup she was reported by me and a couple others on sls from different states although the last i looked she was still on there..go figure. I blocked her from yahoo and sls.

[nckittycpl29]

Thanks to everyone for the replies..... we never thought about that before. If indeed she is interested, we'd have to have a phone conversation if she is really a "She".... and see what happens from there. Thanks again y'all.