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[Nlove4ever]

Hi Everybody!

Hope I'm posting this in the right place! LOL. I was just trying to create our SwingLifestyles account, but it keeps telling me that it doesn't understand the information sent to the server.....Has anyone else had problems lately? We are new and just wanted to start an account there to look around and maybe discuss some options etc. And from what I understand reading everything on here, building a good profile takes a good bit of time.

Thanks for any help you can lend!

C&S

[fun4Ds]

Oh my god, what the hell did you just do ? I was approving a few profiles over on Swing Lifestyle and you shut down half of the USA with a black out



















Just kidding, Try it again, and make sure you click the agreement, then proceed

fun4ds

[Nlove4ever]

Thanks, hon! I must have missed that! LOL.

[Nlove4ever]

We finally got a profile going on there. Thanks for telling me what we were doing wrong! LOL

[fun4Ds]

You could post your new profile for a review from some of our community HERE

On that note, if I may say a little something. Not that its wrong, and I did want to address this in your previous thread. But by giving out the information about Hubby being away at times, some people may interpret this the wrong way..... Maybe even attract the wrong potential playmates.....

You see, we also only play together and for what its worth I mean close proximity. We enjoy kissing each other as well while playing with others, although that might involve a few steps over to the next bed...or pool side.... lol

But what I'm getting at, is many have tried to encourage Mrsfun's attention "solo" knowing I'm away at times.

I say that because she had to learn to be a bit more "affirmative" while apart. Not just potential playmates on the network, but our close friends as well.

Like I say, you might find the exact right couple in the same situation (I think thats what your after ?) but then again try to see it from the general public point of view. Your putting yourself out there in a way.


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[Nlove4ever]

This is Mr.C
Thanks for pointing that out. We had not though about it that way. We just had not wanted people to think we are ignoring them if we didnt get right back to them. We definetly do not want to attract the wrong attention, as we will only play together. Out of curiosity is there a way to have an automatic response if we are not on (on sites like SwingLifestyle, etc) so that people would know we are not ignoring them? We don't want to offend anyone or lose potential playmates. again!

Oh, and wasn't sure the profile would be worth posting here yet, it's pretty minimal and no pics yet. We don't want to post face pics, but not really sure what to post for pics.... There wouldn't be alot to evaluate. . Still not really sure how much to say on a profile.

[fun4Ds]

Originally Posted by Nlove4ever

Out of curiosity is there a way to have an automatic response if we are not on (on sites like SwingLifestyle, etc) so that people would know we are not ignoring them? We don't want to offend anyone or lose potential playmates. thankyou again!

I don't know of any auto responses other than the generic no thanks ? I guess I should pay more attention though, as I have to check myself now

I would think a comment in your profile that states your preoccupied with "life" at times, the same as most are, would suffice...say it in a way that it may take a week or so to respond, or however your time-line works best. Most in the lifestyle will likely understand

Oh, and wasn't sure the profile would be worth posting here yet, it's pretty minimal and no pics yet. We don't want to post face pics, but not really sure what to post for pics.... There wouldn't be allot to evaluate. Still not really sure how much to say on a profile.

You should be able to post face pics in the private folder (at least on Swing Lifestyle). Use your imagination or something sexy and see how it goes in the public folder. Remember, your profile is a test run at this point, it's always subject to change


fun4ds

[Nlove4ever]

Thanks hon!
So do you think I should post it for review on here anyway? Without pics? If you want to look at it, the link is on our profile Inlove4ever is the username. Thanks so much for your input. You have been so great!!!
C&S

[fun4Ds]

Either way is fine

I perved ya from the link under your screen name here, on the left.

I do it allot when people leave a connecting link here

It helps understanding people a little more.... and well, Im a perv for pictures anyhow

[Nlove4ever]

Don't feel alone. I've pulled up alot of people that way too. What can we do to improve it besides pics? Honestly? LOL. And if we post pics, isn't perving them kind of the point LOL???

[Nlove4ever]

Was just going to tell you we finally took your advice and posted our Swing Lifestyle profile for review. Finally filled out all the info LOL. Still have to post pics. Thanks for being so helpful and supportive since we've started out here.