No men swing in our area.

Chicup · 09-06-2009, 11:03 PM

For the first time in a few years, the Chicups have been looking at profile adds on a limited basis. The idea was if we see a couple that seems to be a 100% fit, we will contact them, but thats about it.

Sadly out of 100's in our area, apparently only one such couple exists, because they are one of the only ones where there is apparently a man who swings.

There seem to be 100's of women, who proudly show their bodies in various poses, but nary a man to be seen.

At first I thought this must be an oversite, but I think I figured it out. These are all single females pretending to be couples in order to contact swinging couples! This is the only think that makes sense. There is no reason not to have some sort of shot of the male UNLESS THERE ISN'T REALLY A MALE INVOLVED!

Its elementary!

I have taken it upon myself to report these...charlatans to the various webmasters to deal with them!

xxxboxy · 09-06-2009, 11:07 PM

Naw....it's that they're all anchors..

BamaRide · 09-06-2009, 11:59 PM

I think you're right on target with that observeration!

Why don't you set up a FMF meet with one and when the guy shows up ask him 'Who invited you?' LOL

BamaRide

Tia Vampire · 09-07-2009, 12:00 AM

I agree with you Chicup. If you are a couple, then represent yourselves as a couple. There should be pictures of both in the profile. Even if the couple has to take pictures of each other because they don't want others to know they are in the life-style. Still there has to be times when the couple can get someone else to take a pic of them together. No one has to know what the pic is going to be used for. We have met many couples that have pics of only the female half on thier profile. Sometimes we see why that is. LOL

Some couples are both attractive, but because there are only pics of the female half, we will not get into contact with them because we seek out couples that we are both attracted to.

BamaRide · 09-07-2009, 12:23 AM

We always stuck to face pics and both of us were always in the profile... course now that she's out of it...

BamaRide

xxxboxy · 09-07-2009, 12:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xxxboxy

Naw....it's that they're all anchors..

I meant to add...that I know I'm the anchor of the couple. I married way out of my league simply because I'm a silver tongued devil...something that just doesn't show in a profile pic if you know what I mean...

BamaRide · 09-07-2009, 12:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xxxboxy

I meant to add...that I know I'm the anchor of the couple. I married way out of my league simply because I'm a silver tongued devil...something that just doesn't show in a profile pic if you know what I mean...

Then stick out your tongue and take a pic!
That may attract the ladies!

(going to hide now)
BamaRide

Ed & Bunny · 09-07-2009, 04:31 AM

This is a pet peeve for us also. As bunny is the pickier of the two of us, not having pics of the guys is a problem. Me I just want them breathing.

**fun4Ds** · 09-07-2009, 05:27 AM

So your saying just because I'm not in our public profile picture and yet... you haven't contacted us and we agree to open our pics where you would clearly see me, solo and with Mrs fun at my side....

We're not a swinging couple ?

Report us to the website owners then.... Go ahead..... make my day

**SW_PA_Couple** · 09-07-2009, 06:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chicup

. . . There seem to be 100's of women, who proudly show their bodies in various poses, but nary a man to be seen.

At first I thought this must be an oversite, but I think I figured it out. These are all single females pretending to be couples in order to contact swinging couples! . . .

You're going to get a lot of exercise if you are leaping to conclusion like this. It is true, none the less, that a very large proportion of on-line profiles contain pictures of only one of the two who supposedly comprise a couple. This definitely influences any decision we might make about sending an invitation or making a reply-in-the-affirmative. But it has not ever prompted us to make a report to a Webmaster.

~Michael

Chicup · 09-07-2009, 09:24 AM

I think perhaps this link will help out.

**SW_PA_Couple** · 09-07-2009, 09:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chicup

I think perhaps this link will help out.

You apparently forgot to put the "

" emoticon into your original posting.

Ed & Bunny · 09-07-2009, 02:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chicup

I think perhaps this link will help out.

Quote:

Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple

You apparently forgot to put the "

" emoticon into your original posting.

Chicup I got what you were up to.

SW_PA, I have found that even with big grins and other smileys some people are just too literal. But hey if we were all alike the world would be boring.

Chicup · 09-07-2009, 04:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ed & Bunny

Chicup I got what you were up to.

I know

**fun4Ds** · 09-08-2009, 06:24 AM

I knew also....

I have to ask, as I know you are very observant.

Do you see a difference in the amount of profiles (after a couple years) that do have pictures of the men now ?

I think the numbers are higher by about 20%.

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09-06-2009, 11:03 PM	#1 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,093 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	No men swing in our area. For the first time in a few years, the Chicups have been looking at profile adds on a limited basis. The idea was if we see a couple that seems to be a 100% fit, we will contact them, but thats about it. Sadly out of 100's in our area, apparently only one such couple exists, because they are one of the only ones where there is apparently a man who swings. There seem to be 100's of women, who proudly show their bodies in various poses, but nary a man to be seen. At first I thought this must be an oversite, but I think I figured it out. These are all single females pretending to be couples in order to contact swinging couples! This is the only think that makes sense. There is no reason not to have some sort of shot of the male UNLESS THERE ISN'T REALLY A MALE INVOLVED! Its elementary! I have taken it upon myself to report these...charlatans to the various webmasters to deal with them!

09-06-2009, 11:07 PM	#2 (permalink)
xxxboxy Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 360 Location: Near Seattle Status: Male half of couple Swing Lifestyle Name:xxxboxy	Re: No men swing in our area. Naw....it's that they're all anchors..

09-06-2009, 11:59 PM	#3 (permalink)
BamaRide Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 162 Location: Alabaster, AL Status: M.Male	Re: No men swing in our area. I think you're right on target with that observeration! Why don't you set up a FMF meet with one and when the guy shows up ask him 'Who invited you?' LOL BamaRide
	__________________ If you think you can... or you think you can't... you are likely correct either way!

09-07-2009, 12:00 AM	#4 (permalink)
Tia Vampire Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,059 Location: Florida Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:tiavampire	Re: No men swing in our area. I agree with you Chicup. If you are a couple, then represent yourselves as a couple. There should be pictures of both in the profile. Even if the couple has to take pictures of each other because they don't want others to know they are in the life-style. Still there has to be times when the couple can get someone else to take a pic of them together. No one has to know what the pic is going to be used for. We have met many couples that have pics of only the female half on thier profile. Sometimes we see why that is. LOL Some couples are both attractive, but because there are only pics of the female half, we will not get into contact with them because we seek out couples that we are both attracted to.
	Last edited by Tia Vampire; 09-07-2009 at 12:31 AM.

09-07-2009, 12:23 AM	#5 (permalink)
BamaRide Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 162 Location: Alabaster, AL Status: M.Male	Re: No men swing in our area. We always stuck to face pics and both of us were always in the profile... course now that she's out of it... BamaRide
	__________________ If you think you can... or you think you can't... you are likely correct either way!

09-07-2009, 04:31 AM	#8 (permalink)
Ed & Bunny Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 357 Location: Southern Mi Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:edandbunny	Re: No men swing in our area. This is a pet peeve for us also. As bunny is the pickier of the two of us, not having pics of the guys is a problem. Me I just want them breathing.

09-07-2009, 05:27 AM	#9 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,487 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun	Re: No men swing in our area. So your saying just because I'm not in our public profile picture and yet... you haven't contacted us and we agree to open our pics where you would clearly see me, solo and with Mrs fun at my side.... We're not a swinging couple ? Report us to the website owners then.... Go ahead..... make my day

09-07-2009, 09:24 AM	#11 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,093 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: No men swing in our area. I think perhaps this link will help out.

09-08-2009, 06:24 AM	#15 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,487 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun	Re: No men swing in our area. I knew also.... I have to ask, as I know you are very observant. Do you see a difference in the amount of profiles (after a couple years) that do have pictures of the men now ? I think the numbers are higher by about 20%.

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