Separate accounts for playing separate?

NotSorry · 06-01-2009, 09:37 PM

Mr NotSorry is looking to play separate. We have a Lifetime membership on Swing Lifestyle, and we're not looking to pay for a second one...

Will he be more successful emailing females / couples from our couple account (and update the profile accordingly), or from a second username?

He definitely wouldn't hide his marriage - anyone who wants to speak to Mrs NotSorry certainly can.

Thoughts? What do you guys who do both together and separate do?

**LFM2** · 06-02-2009, 02:03 PM

We don't swing separately, but I would just tweak our couples account in the profile to say what you've told us. I would certainly put in a sentence or two about prospects being able to contact Mrs. Not Sorry for confirmation.

N8ture Girl · 06-02-2009, 07:53 PM

Have him set up a free account so he can say what he wants to say about himself, about being married ect, then maybe put your couple's screen name in there so prospective ladies can go see it if they feel the desire. And like the above poster, put a little something about it in your couple's profile but keep your couple's profile primarily a "couple's profile" while just adding a little tid bit of seperate play somewhere at the bottom.

**LFM2** · 06-03-2009, 12:08 AM

excellent advice, N8ture Girl.

Spoomonkey · 06-03-2009, 01:01 PM

I agree with LFM2.

Whenever we have come across the guy playing alone with married listed in his profile, we think that he is either a single guy hoping to get traffic by listing himself married, or he is a married guy who is cheating.

I think our suspicions would likely be eased with N8ture Girl's approach.

Spoomonkey

femnewb4u2 · 06-03-2009, 03:44 PM

with N8ture, LFM2, spoonmonkey.

As a single female this approach would get my attention in a positive manner.

NotSorry · 06-03-2009, 07:23 PM

Thanks!

***JustAskJulie*** · 06-12-2009, 03:08 PM

Are you both available to play separately? Or just him?

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06-01-2009, 09:37 PM	#1 (permalink)
NotSorry Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 123 Location: Philadelphia area Status: married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:vegcouple954	Separate accounts for playing separate? Mr NotSorry is looking to play separate. We have a Lifetime membership on Swing Lifestyle, and we're not looking to pay for a second one... Will he be more successful emailing females / couples from our couple account (and update the profile accordingly), or from a second username? He definitely wouldn't hide his marriage - anyone who wants to speak to Mrs NotSorry certainly can. Thoughts? What do you guys who do both together and separate do?

06-02-2009, 02:03 PM	#2 (permalink)
LFM2 ~This space for rent~ Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 4,750 Location: across the tracks Status: Couple	Re: Separate accounts for playing separate? We don't swing separately, but I would just tweak our couples account in the profile to say what you've told us. I would certainly put in a sentence or two about prospects being able to contact Mrs. Not Sorry for confirmation.
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06-02-2009, 07:53 PM	#3 (permalink)
N8ture Girl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 293 Location: Virginia Status: Female half of a couple Swing Lifestyle Name:prometheius	Re: Separate accounts for playing separate? Have him set up a free account so he can say what he wants to say about himself, about being married ect, then maybe put your couple's screen name in there so prospective ladies can go see it if they feel the desire. And like the above poster, put a little something about it in your couple's profile but keep your couple's profile primarily a "couple's profile" while just adding a little tid bit of seperate play somewhere at the bottom.
	__________________ ~You only get out of it what you put into it~

06-03-2009, 12:08 AM	#4 (permalink)
LFM2 ~This space for rent~ Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 4,750 Location: across the tracks Status: Couple	Re: Separate accounts for playing separate? excellent advice, N8ture Girl.
	__________________ Dave & Holly

06-03-2009, 01:01 PM	#5 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Separate accounts for playing separate? I agree with LFM2. Whenever we have come across the guy playing alone with married listed in his profile, we think that he is either a single guy hoping to get traffic by listing himself married, or he is a married guy who is cheating. I think our suspicions would likely be eased with N8ture Girl's approach. Spoomonkey
	__________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

06-03-2009, 03:44 PM	#6 (permalink)
femnewb4u2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 176 Location: Indiana/Ohio Status: Single Female in relationship Swing Lifestyle Name:femnewb4u	Re: Separate accounts for playing separate? with N8ture, LFM2, spoonmonkey. As a single female this approach would get my attention in a positive manner.

06-03-2009, 07:23 PM	#7 (permalink)
NotSorry Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 123 Location: Philadelphia area Status: married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:vegcouple954	Re: Separate accounts for playing separate? Thanks!

06-12-2009, 03:08 PM	#8 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,288 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Separate accounts for playing separate? Are you both available to play separately? Or just him?

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