Lucky on Craigslist?

jdavisauto · 12-22-2008, 01:09 PM

About 3 weeks ago we was just screwing around and looking through some adds on Craigslist and ran across an add of this very cute looking Asian lady who we will call Becky. She had long black hair down to the middle of her back, Nice breasts and just a very beautiful lady. So just to see what will happen we sent her a response to her add. I be damn if she did not answer our e-mail and we meet up at one of the local hang outs. We had a few drinks and hit it off great. About 4 weeks latter after going out to dinner, movies and the normal stuff we told Becky that we was swingers and she had no ideal what we was talking about. She ask for us to explain this to her and we did in great detail. Becky was amaze by what we told her and she said that she wish she could experience, how did she put it: “the freedom of life’s pleasures”. My lady half then told her that she could and then invited her back to our home for the night. She accepted. I was dumbfounded and speechless. Our friendship took a turn in a new direction and damn what a ride it was. Now our question to you is this. Did anyone ever have luck on answering an add on sites like Craigslist and did it turn out good or a nightmare?

SecretAsianMan · 12-22-2008, 05:51 PM

I've never gotten any responses from any ads I've replied to on Craigs List (yes, I've replied to a few here & there over the years)

LikeMinds321 · 12-22-2008, 06:21 PM

What was Becky's ad requesting that made you contact her?

LM

Menage_a_Trois · 12-22-2008, 07:41 PM

We've tried posting and replying both on Craigslist. We never got any response to our ad's we posted and as for the one's we have replied to and met.........well they haven't been the "quality" of people we prefer to hook up with.............

jdavisauto · 12-22-2008, 10:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

What was Becky's ad requesting that made you contact her?

LM

Her add showed a nice clean photo of her and the add was very simple. If I remember right it said:

"New to vegas and looking for decent folks to meet up with and get to know. Please no sex feinds or perverts"

Well the sex feinds or perverts got our attention so we sent her a photo of us both saying that we would be very happy to meet up with her and show her around town but we both must meet her in a public location and introduce ourselves to her. She agree to meet us and the rest is history.

***JustAskJulie*** · 12-23-2008, 02:20 PM

Interesting. I know there have been a few posts on here from folks who have used (or attempted to) CL to meet other swingers. In areas where CL is more popular, I know there are swinger ads on there. It seems that most of those threads are complaining about CL in that respect.

LikeMinds321 · 12-23-2008, 04:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jdavisauto

Her add showed a nice clean photo of her and the add was very simple. If I remember right it said:

"New to vegas and looking for decent folks to meet up with and get to know. Please no sex feinds or perverts"

Was her ad under "Personals-Casual Encounters" and did she list as W4MW (woman for man & woman)?

I'm curious how this all works. She was looking for sex, right?

LM

azgoodtimes · 12-23-2008, 10:26 PM

I don't know. Either JDAVISAUTO hit the Craigslist jackpot or Becky had an adams apple.

jdavisauto · 12-28-2008, 02:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by azgoodtimes

I don't know. Either JDAVISAUTO hit the Craigslist jackpot or Becky had an adams apple.

She had no adams apple and yes she was a woman. This was about 3 years ago and we been seening each other as just friends for about 3 months before anything happen. In life we found out that if you just have respect for people then things just works out better for all. If people makes stupid comments about other people then things just don't work.

**fun4Ds** · 12-28-2008, 05:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jdavisauto

She had no adams apple and yes she was a woman. This was about 3 years ago and we been seening each other as just friends for about 3 months before anything happen. In life we found out that if you just have respect for people then things just works out better for all. If people makes stupid comments about other people then things just don't work.

We were never lucky on any sites before Swing Lifestyle. Cant say why exactly. We just found what worked for us at the time. Still works to this day...

We are having allot of invites on the new swingerzonecentral. We can only do so much though....

Its great to hear you found not only a nice person, but also a playmate

twoforone100 · 12-28-2008, 07:20 AM

We know a 19 yo female who has great luck on craigs list... She is not truly a swinger but we did meet her on Swing Lifestyle.. she is mainly looking for single females and has met some very hot and sexy ones there....... in our area it does not look it works as well for couples.

Mr.Essex · 12-29-2008, 01:23 AM

Craigslist is the devil. Too many schemers, liars, thieves, time-wasters and overall scam artists. The few times that I tried to reply to a CL ad, I was either ignored, received one reply or given the whole "picture collector" runaround. Plus, as a good friend of mine has repeatedly noted, in some parts of America you run the risk of "psycho flagging". Psycho flagging is what happens when someone reads your ad, decides that he/she/they can't afford to let someone else get their hands on you, then chickens out without sending a reply. And, as if to add insult to injury, the most likely responders are going to be from the "too kinky for me" crowd.

Exmple: My friend (the same one who told me about psycho flagging) looks like a slightly less built Pam Grier. If she places a regular ad (Black woman seeking single white male {Jewish a plus} for good times, LTR), her ad gets blocked immediately, some guy trades E-Mails with her for a day, then he fails to show up for a "face to face". If she places an ad for a "sissy maid", the same thing happens, but he shows up in a trenchcoat and lingerie with his cleaning supplies strapped to his back. (I'd knock her for admitting that to me, but her apartment is a helluva lot cleaner than mine on any given day of the week) And her story about the time that she placed an ad as a dominatrix (replete with strap-on), then found herself wading through dozens of responses within 5 minutes is hilarious.

So, although I'll still troll Craigslist, I don't really believe that I'll ever find someone on the site. To be honest, I had more success with it outside of the country than inside.

JTurner · 12-29-2008, 02:39 AM

We live in the homeland of craigslist...the San Francisco Bay Area. That's one distinct advantage. Another is that we're a couple. Solo males abound in the online world. Couples more rare. The solo female who desires a couple can seem akin to finding a unicorn.

It takes a keen eye to discern which ads/responses are from fakes, flakes and trolls. I am sure we've missed the mark with someone legit, but they didn't pass the smell test at first sniff. We also pass on those that demand photos, as we desire to be discreet in our pursuit of adult adventure.

With some effort, craigslist can be a valuable resource. It's worked for us.

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12-22-2008, 01:09 PM	#1 (permalink)
jdavisauto Together we are one Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 389 Location: Las Vegas Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jdavisauto	Lucky on Craigslist? About 3 weeks ago we was just screwing around and looking through some adds on Craigslist and ran across an add of this very cute looking Asian lady who we will call Becky. She had long black hair down to the middle of her back, Nice breasts and just a very beautiful lady. So just to see what will happen we sent her a response to her add. I be damn if she did not answer our e-mail and we meet up at one of the local hang outs. We had a few drinks and hit it off great. About 4 weeks latter after going out to dinner, movies and the normal stuff we told Becky that we was swingers and she had no ideal what we was talking about. She ask for us to explain this to her and we did in great detail. Becky was amaze by what we told her and she said that she wish she could experience, how did she put it: “the freedom of life’s pleasures”. My lady half then told her that she could and then invited her back to our home for the night. She accepted. I was dumbfounded and speechless. Our friendship took a turn in a new direction and damn what a ride it was. Now our question to you is this. Did anyone ever have luck on answering an add on sites like Craigslist and did it turn out good or a nightmare?
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12-22-2008, 05:51 PM	#2 (permalink)
SecretAsianMan Tastes Great Less Filling Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,467 Location: Los Angeles Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Secret_Asian_Man	Re: Lucky on Graigslist? I've never gotten any responses from any ads I've replied to on Craigs List (yes, I've replied to a few here & there over the years)
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12-22-2008, 06:21 PM	#3 (permalink)
LikeMinds321 I'll think about it Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 10,099 Location: With Wild Things Status: Married Female	Re: Lucky on Graigslist? What was Becky's ad requesting that made you contact her? LM

12-22-2008, 07:41 PM	#4 (permalink)
Menage_a_Trois Sex is emotion in motion! Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 576 Location: Reno, NV Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Menage_a_Trois	Re: Lucky on Graigslist? We've tried posting and replying both on Craigslist. We never got any response to our ad's we posted and as for the one's we have replied to and met.........well they haven't been the "quality" of people we prefer to hook up with.............

12-23-2008, 02:20 PM	#6 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Lucky on Graigslist? Interesting. I know there have been a few posts on here from folks who have used (or attempted to) CL to meet other swingers. In areas where CL is more popular, I know there are swinger ads on there. It seems that most of those threads are complaining about CL in that respect.

12-23-2008, 10:26 PM	#8 (permalink)
azgoodtimes Registered Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 3 Location: Phoenix Status: Couple	Re: Lucky on Craigslist? I don't know. Either JDAVISAUTO hit the Craigslist jackpot or Becky had an adams apple.

12-28-2008, 07:20 AM	#11 (permalink)
twoforone100 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 218 Location: Richmond Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:twoforone100	Re: Lucky on Craigslist? We know a 19 yo female who has great luck on craigs list... She is not truly a swinger but we did meet her on Swing Lifestyle.. she is mainly looking for single females and has met some very hot and sexy ones there....... in our area it does not look it works as well for couples.

12-29-2008, 01:23 AM	#12 (permalink)
Mr.Essex Shy but brave Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 254 Location: North Dakota, where freezin's the reason! Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:MrEssex	Re: Lucky on Craigslist? Craigslist is the devil. Too many schemers, liars, thieves, time-wasters and overall scam artists. The few times that I tried to reply to a CL ad, I was either ignored, received one reply or given the whole "picture collector" runaround. Plus, as a good friend of mine has repeatedly noted, in some parts of America you run the risk of "psycho flagging". Psycho flagging is what happens when someone reads your ad, decides that he/she/they can't afford to let someone else get their hands on you, then chickens out without sending a reply. And, as if to add insult to injury, the most likely responders are going to be from the "too kinky for me" crowd. Exmple: My friend (the same one who told me about psycho flagging) looks like a slightly less built Pam Grier. If she places a regular ad (Black woman seeking single white male {Jewish a plus} for good times, LTR), her ad gets blocked immediately, some guy trades E-Mails with her for a day, then he fails to show up for a "face to face". If she places an ad for a "sissy maid", the same thing happens, but he shows up in a trenchcoat and lingerie with his cleaning supplies strapped to his back. (I'd knock her for admitting that to me, but her apartment is a helluva lot cleaner than mine on any given day of the week) And her story about the time that she placed an ad as a dominatrix (replete with strap-on), then found herself wading through dozens of responses within 5 minutes is hilarious. So, although I'll still troll Craigslist, I don't really believe that I'll ever find someone on the site. To be honest, I had more success with it outside of the country than inside.
	__________________ Sex isn't finished until everyone crosses the finish line. Until that point, it's just a favor.

12-29-2008, 02:39 AM	#13 (permalink)
JTurner Registered Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 7 Location: San Francisco Bay Area Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:50scouple	Re: Lucky on Craigslist? We live in the homeland of craigslist...the San Francisco Bay Area. That's one distinct advantage. Another is that we're a couple. Solo males abound in the online world. Couples more rare. The solo female who desires a couple can seem akin to finding a unicorn. It takes a keen eye to discern which ads/responses are from fakes, flakes and trolls. I am sure we've missed the mark with someone legit, but they didn't pass the smell test at first sniff. We also pass on those that demand photos, as we desire to be discreet in our pursuit of adult adventure. With some effort, craigslist can be a valuable resource. It's worked for us.

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