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[cocpl2007]

We have been actively looking for just that: just the right couple. I have had many more experiences in the lifestyle than Mrs. Co. She is much more selective in what she desires in our couples play. Being a relative newbie she has tasted enough to know she likes it. Being so selective we have met many couples, who are very nice couples, would be enjoyable as friends, but for one reason or another there isn’t that attraction to develop the friendship to the next level.

We have come to realize that we are looking for something that not many of our fellow lifestylers have chosen for their particular extra-curricular activities. Perhaps it is the fact that very few are seeking the same as we are, perhaps it is that those who are, have already been successful in finding just the right couple. We have not found this elusive couple, nor have they found us.

We are just curious, if there are others out there, who limit their play to one or two other couples, who would share how they came upon these other couples.

[socolais]

How would you describe "just the right couple"?

We're looking for fun, so whoever looks like the most fun at the moment gets our attention. Sometimes, the fun we choose is 'just hanging out' with sexy folks and getting to know them better. Most often, it's physical pleasure that we want to give and recieve.

[Chicup]

We found such a couple very early on in this.

The problem is that in the last 6 years we haven't found a second couple like this.

How we found them was pure chance. Add on a site, lived very close to us, same ages, same place in life. We are still great friends.

Thats it though.

[SAMnTINA]

We found the right couple before we ever started swinging. It's us togther. Everything else is just sex and fun. We just don't understand all those who are skip meeting and or playing with other looking for that perfact match.

We found a perfact match once and then again we only started dating 30 years ago in college because we were each looking for some fun, not for life partners. Heck when she told her mother a Jewish guy (she was not Jewish) was asking her out her mom said why not you are not going to marry him are you. No pressure we thought we would just date and screw our way through college then go our seperate ways Somewhere along the way we became best friends and married 26 years.

As for our swing friends well sorry folks we like the sex, after that some times we make friends (Can you really be friends with some before you have sex, when no matter what you talk about you are really only thinging about getting in their pants?) We if you don't turn us off (its not all about hard bodies, it's about personality and knowing how to laugh) we play often times we are suprised thoses we though were hot and wanted are hotter before you do them then after (those of you that just lay there no who you are right ) Other times people that were not a big turn on to look at or who just were average are firecrackers and stars once they get naked with you. What they lack in other areas they make up for in skills to please.

Hay it's just sex worse case we have a funny story to tell (no names) and it's a been there done that. Best case not only is the sex great but after the pressure of the first time is out of the way we find that we even want to spend time with you dressed as you stimulate our mind as well as knowing how to stimulate our body.

[cocpl2007]

Originally Posted by socolais

How would you describe "just the right couple"?

We're looking for fun, so whoever looks like the most fun at the moment gets our attention. Sometimes, the fun we choose is 'just hanging out' with sexy folks and getting to know them better. Most often, it's physical pleasure that we want to give and recieve.

It seems you answered your own question. If you are enjoying what you are finding, then you are already there! Our Congratulations.

For us, we are much more interested in a couple who are as interested in "doing things" outside the bedroom, as they are inside the bedroom. A couple who have zero inhibitions about waking up in the morning with the very same couple they shared themselves and the evening with, then perhaps continuing the fun, or not. Just comfortable sharing not only each other's skin, but friendship, too. A couple who is equally interested in getting to know who they are banging, and who is willing to invest the time and energy into that endeavor.

[cocpl2007]

Originally Posted by Chicup

We found such a couple very early on in this.

The problem is that in the last 6 years we haven't found a second couple like this.

How we found them was pure chance. Add on a site, lived very close to us, same ages, same place in life. We are still great friends.

Thats it though.

We can very much relate to your situation. We, too, found another compatible couple, and found ourselves surprised at the similarity in outlook not only toward the lifestyle, but many other facets of life, too. It was our fault that that relationship went south. We left the country (well, took off to the islands) for a three year hiatus. They had long since moved on.

[cocpl2007]

Originally Posted by SAMnTINA

We found the right couple before we ever started swinging. It's us togther. Everything else is just sex and fun. We just don't understand all those who are skip meeting and or playing with other looking for that perfact match.

We found a perfact match once and then again we only started dating 30 years ago in college because we were each looking for some fun, not for life partners. Heck when she told her mother a Jewish guy (she was not Jewish) was asking her out her mom said why not you are not going to marry him are you. No pressure we thought we would just date and screw our way through college then go our seperate ways Somewhere along the way we became best friends and married 26 years.

As for our swing friends well sorry folks we like the sex, after that some times we make friends (Can you really be friends with some before you have sex, when no matter what you talk about you are really only thinging about getting in their pants?) We if you don't turn us off (its not all about hard bodies, it's about personality and knowing how to laugh) we play often times we are suprised thoses we though were hot and wanted are hotter before you do them then after (those of you that just lay there no who you are right ) Other times people that were not a big turn on to look at or who just were average are firecrackers and stars once they get naked with you. What they lack in other areas they make up for in skills to please.

Hay it's just sex worse case we have a funny story to tell (no names) and it's a been there done that. Best case not only is the sex great but after the pressure of the first time is out of the way we find that we even want to spend time with you dressed as you stimulate our mind as well as knowing how to stimulate our body.

Sam & Tina,

What can we say, that you have not already figured out? We just are not the couple who is going to be hopping into bed before we & you take the time to know each other. If that is your particular modus operandi great for you! And normally it goes without saying that YOU have already found your "just right couple" in yourselves, or you really are going to be encountering some very difficult times in the lifestyle. This post wasn't about the happiness you have with your spouse, it is pointed toward the quest for the couple that you happen to engage in extra-marital fun with.

We are very happy that you have found, and continue to find just what it is you are looking for. Congratulations.