swinger sites

[phreakykouple]

Me and my husband was thinking about which site would be best to put a prifile on and or if we needed to put it on mutiple sites. Which sites did you have more sucess with or think is best?

[cur_cpl_n_chey]

hmm I am not quite sure if its ok to mention other swinger sites but here goes(sorry if I make a faux paux here), We use Swingers Home Page - Your Swingers Playground. The 1st two week you can look at unlimited profiles after that its 5 aday if you are a free member. Also for every member you welcome you get points and that adds up to free membership and products.

We also use LoveVoodoo Swingers - Couples and Singles Party. They have a link there to a new site that is less than 2.00 per month though not sure how successful it is

[jimnjan]

We like Swing Life Style, but there is a new one that we absolutely LOVE. Swingingmyspace.com It's a great site with the ability to make your profile your own. Lots of other great things there too!

[good times]

Well, since you already have an SLS profile, I would just stick with that. That is also the one we like best, we are paid members of three sites and free members on about a dozen others. SLS is the best by far in our area.

The correct answer though is, whichever one has the most local members in your area. We have found that all the sites have the same people on them. So if you pick the one that has the most actual members in your area, you won't be missing many that are on another site but not on the one you are. That being said, it can be sometimes hard to figure out which sites have the most members in your area because some sites significantly inflate their numbers. So pretty much, if you want to try a different site, you just have to sign up and do a local search and make a judgment call based on what you find.

[xyzzy07]

We don't use Internet matchups much, but have tried SLS, swingular, playfulswingers (PS) and wickedgarden (WG). Swingular doesn't have many people in our area; the others do. SLS seems to have the most fake people. Both PS and WG have better validation than SLS. WG has the best activities (events, meet & greets) in our region.

[Texasfuncouple]

Hey Phreaky,

In our opinion, Swinger sites have very little to do with the site you choose and much more about where you live. Depending where you live the differences in available couples in your area can be more than 10 to 1.

Nearly all of them have free trials, so just get busy signing up. Find the one with the most couples in your local area and then get naked.... or something like that!

Good luck
~Texasfun

[Playful1]

I've had bad expeirences with LVD and SLS, lots of fake profiles and people who don't pay any attention to what you write in the profile. Personally I like altplayground and lifestylelounge. lifestyle lounge is more nationwide/midwest, while altplayground is more east coast, but both are good.

What site will be good for you will depend on where you are. Some sites have more people in some areas than others. Generally I've found that free sites, well, you get what you pay for.

[tribbles]

We use the sites to find parties. Even just looking at 'who's online' can tell us who is having a party cuz they put it in the first intro line.

[rammur]

We use the Lifestyle Lounge, but it is headquartered in Minneapolis, MN. Kind of our back yard.

[screaminggood]

I use the sites to find the parties/club events, but we never meet people from the sites. We've found clubs to be much more productive....shopping in person, no shipping charges necessary!

[bethncole]

We have always used BayCouples.com - Swinger Personals to meet online. We usually invite couples who we meet online to meet us for dinner before going to a swinger club. If we click - we all go there together and take it from there. We use mySwingClubs.com - Swinger sex clubs, parties & events for club reviews and stuff in order to figure out which clubs to visit...

[MapleSwingers]

Hmmm...nobody ever mentionss AFF on here, is it a bad word? It is the largest swingers/sex site ever now that Penthouse bought it out. We've had the best luck with AFF even though we love to hate that place. Lifestyle lounge has been mentioned and we were told that LL is best if you intend on travelling and meeting people during your travels.

Another point that has been made already is the fact that the site really doesn't matter, the price really doesn't matter...it's the members in your area that will make or break your experience. We find that many US folks love to promote SLS and SDC but both those sites have allowed us to meet zero/zilch/nada nobody in all the years we have been online looking for kinky friends. The best advice we can give anyone wondering which site to join is to ask others you meet where they go online. Go to your local swingers club and ask the folks you meet which site they use...eventually you will notice a pattern in that most end up using the same site.

Hope this helps...

[Vjklander]

We have an SLS profile and it has worked very well for us over the years. The lifetime gig is really reasonable and highly recommended. We have a free AFF account and we get a few hits now and then, but I/m half Norse and half Highlander and I'll be damned if I pay $10 a month to find someone interested in sex. That would be like having a cover charge to go grocery shopping....
Vjk

[MapleSwingers]

Originally Posted by Vjklander

We have an SLS profile and it has worked very well for us over the years. The lifetime gig is really reasonable and highly recommended.

I caution anyone thinking of getting the lifetime membership without first checking out the site. Just to be sure, I did another search in my neck of the woods...18 profiles within a 100 mile drive and if I go 150 miles it jumps to a whopping 22 profiles! On, AFF however we have 20 couples in our neighbourhood (ok so I exagerate but the numbers are in the thousands for our city alone).

Your mileage will vary...

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by MapleSwingers

I caution anyone thinking of getting the lifetime membership without first checking out the site. Just to be sure, I did another search in my neck of the woods...18 profiles within a 100 mile drive and if I go 150 miles it jumps to a whopping 22 profiles! On, AFF however we have 20 couples in our neighbourhood (ok so I exagerate but the numbers are in the thousands for our city alone).

Your mileage will vary...

That advice goes to checking out the free trials before you pay for ANY site. When it comes to SLS many people stay on there for years before they ever pay a cent.