Picture Swap before swinging?

[guayaquil2006]

We were wondering if anyone else first started with some picture swapping before getting into the LS? We started by posting some x-rated pics and videos on an amateur site (always face-less and closeup for the most part). She really started to enjoy the comments we (she especially) would receive from the people who saw the pics and vids. We have also exchanged pics with two couples, sort of like a truth or dare sort of thing. We have not posted anything new in a few months, but are looking foward to it in the near future. Anyway, just curious if this is the path others took into the LS?

J&R

[BiloxiCouple]

No. We started by flirting with people and it moved from there.

We think this is just picture collecting/swapping/trading. If this is what you like. Stay with it and enjoy.

Try hooking up with people in person if you want to get into the lifestyle.

[socolais]

That's a good question, but no we didn't do any pic swaps to get comfortable with in-the-flesh swapping. We did visit a nudist resort and feel that experience helped us be more comfortable undressed around others. Everyone is unique and if it works for yall then it's not wrong. Did you get a thrill the first time you swapped pics or posted nudes? How about now, is the excitement still there???

[xyzzy07]

No, we've never uploaded pics to a site, except for ones like sls. We began by going to clubs.

[JustAskJulie]

I guess in a way I did. Back in 97 when we first got online that was one of the first things we did was some picture swapping, and one of the first websites I set up was an amateur site featuring myself - all of this before we got into swinging. I can't really say we did these things and they "led" us to swinging or that we did them to ease into swinging... we just did them.

[WesternSwing]

We kind of jumped in with both feet. We didn't do any Internet flirting or picture or video posting beforehand. We knew we wanted to do it if the opportunity ever presented itself, and one night it did.

Mr. WS

[propict8kr]

i agree with previous comment, if this is what you enjoy, it's just flirting online with pics/vids etc. try flirting in real life and see if anything escalates from there.
but what i would say is that i would not blindly meet a couple without first seeing what is on the menu
haha
cheers

[twoready4fun]

We always swap pics before meeting/swapping with anyone. You have to be able to see if there is any initial attraction.

[imsherona2]

We never have swapped pictures except maybe the ones posted on SLS, but we usually go for the meet & greet first for drinks, dinner, lunch, etc. and go from there. If there is a mutual attraction, then we set up something for the future or meet at a club, party, etc. Our motorcycle club we ride with (Lifestyle Bikers) usually try and set-up a meet & greet at a local restaurant and at the last one there were 150 couples and it was a good way to meet people and exchange numbers.

[pervgeeks]

Originally Posted by twoready4fun

We always swap pics before meeting/swapping with anyone. You have to be able to see if there is any initial attraction.

And what amazes me is how many people continue to email us when we state very simply that if they are not willing to share what they look like (beyond penises and vaginas) that we do not continue. Also those who think they will be that "one special couple" we'll meet for a blind date when we also very simply state we only meet new people at lifestyle parties only. Argh!

[xyzzy07]

Originally Posted by pervgeeks

And what amazes me is how many people continue to email us when we state very simply that if they are not willing to share what they look like (beyond penises and vaginas) that we do not continue. Also those who think they will be that "one special couple" we'll meet for a blind date when we also very simply state we only meet new people at lifestyle parties only. Argh!

Hi S&P. Maybe they can't or won't read! We find that a lot, and also are surprised that so many people can't seem to string more than one or two sentences together.

[ViSexual]

Now my wife would never allow any photo's to be posted anywhere online but we did exchange some with another couple once.

We'd met them through an erotic story site. The wife of the other couple and I had both posted stories and we'd gotten to know, and like, each other due to that.

Then when we discovered that we, and our spouses, shared some similar fantasies we all four began to communicate and wound up having a couple of 'online' dates.

It was really very sexy and fun.

We did meet them in person once, for a three day visit, but we live so far apart it just didn't continue. Fun couple, great experience.

[ViSexual]

Oh, and Julie, you had a website featureing yourself in '97?

I don't recall you ever mentioning that before.

Do you still have any of those photo's? Do you share them with friends?

[exhibi]

As a single male I have found that couples I definitely want a full frontal pic before meeting, swinging is for the most part completely physical, especially a first meeting, and so looks and sometimes 'the package' are quite important to some people.