Why so many bi or bi-curious females?

[MateMike]

In trying to locate a compatible couple it seems most of the female half are bi or bi-curious which makes compatibly an issue. Why is this?

[jstlkng]

Originally Posted by MateMike

In trying to locate a compatible couple it seems most of the female half are bi or bi-curious which makes compatibly an issue. Why is this?

Being a male I can't even venture a guess as to why this is true so I asked my wife (who is straight, would not even consider a peck on the cheek from another female straight). She didn't know either. So I asked a few friends and I got a few answers:

1 - anonimity - swingers tend to keep things in the "club" and so women who like to play with women don't have to explain anything to anyone outside the lifestyle.

2 - my husband likes it...it turns him on.

3 - its the only way we can get couples who want to play.

4 - only women know how to please a woman.

5 - and the one I thought was the most honest...I like to eat pussy. This was from my cousin. She and her husband are both bi.

[MateMike]

I just don't get it!

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by MateMike

In trying to locate a compatible couple it seems most of the female half are bi or bi-curious which makes compatibly an issue. Why is this?

Because god is good

Before you worry to much about compatibility (I assume your wife is straight) a lot of 'bi' women don't mind if they don't do GG play, just be up front when you contact them. My wife is bi but she likes men better and doesn't mind if its just normal play. Also a LOT of bi-curious are just that, curious, it doesn't mean they will do anything or will attack your wife.

[mikeandbrie]

A few years ago i had a threesome involving another woman,though i really didn't enjoy it much it was a very sensual experience.
Women are extremely sensual creatures. We smell wonderfull, some sweet like candy or vanilla that makes you feel like you just cant resist melting into them others spicy ,you want to just dive right in and feel their heat surround you.We are as soft as satin and velvet.Our natural movements put you in awe,by the way we turn our faces toward you like every word you say is pure wisedom to the way we toss our hair or twirl a peice while in thought.
Every woman is sensual and erotic wheather ot not she knows it,other women notice it and are attracted to it. Maybe we want to be like her or just taste her but we feel that sensuallity and we want a part of it.
Just picture a womans curves,her walk,small hand gestures,her laughter ,just as you find these attractive so do we women. facelick
brie

[starlinn]

Originally Posted by mikeandbrie

A few years ago i had a threesome involving another woman,though i really didn't enjoy it much it was a very sensual experience.
Women are extremely sensual creatures. We smell wonderfull, some sweet like candy or vanilla that makes you feel like you just cant resist melting into them others spicy ,you want to just dive right in and feel their heat surround you.We are as soft as satin and velvet.Our natural movements put you in awe,by the way we turn our faces toward you like every word you say is pure wisedom to the way we toss our hair or twirl a peice while in thought.
Every woman is sensual and erotic wheather ot not she knows it,other women notice it and are attracted to it. Maybe we want to be like her or just taste her but we feel that sensuallity and we want a part of it.
Just picture a womans curves,her walk,small hand gestures,her laughter ,just as you find these attractive so do we women. facelick
brie

Brie,
I have never seen it put that way, but you hit the nail on the head!
Starlinn

[WildMiCouple]

Originally Posted by MateMike

In trying to locate a compatible couple it seems most of the female half are bi or bi-curious which makes compatibly an issue. Why is this?

Reminds me of an old quote:
Willie Sutton, an infamous bank robber was supposedly asked "Why do you rob banks?" To which he replied "Because that is where the money is."

Brett (and Tammy)

[CuriousInOregon]

Well First off Mate Welcome to the board Second off What is the Issue? Unless of course your SO isnt bi or even remotly interested in the option. You can try looking on Swing Lifestyle they have some good profiles and you can look in your areas for specifics like Stright or Bi...... Just a little Advice If you come off as Open your more likely to get a response rather than being pushy or Closed minded. try the Getting Started page it may help you on your journey. Until then Happy swinging

[GerdOEvert]

In our swinging experience, and in searching for couples, the bi women are more open to experimentation and more aware of their own needs and desires. It was the consenses at our club and group that bi women were the predominant group of women who advertised or participated.

Why do men like bi women? Because they enjoy the sensuality. And they enjoy it more when there is more than one woman enjoying the sensuality. I fantasize, and many men fantasize, of tasting more than one woman in an evening.

As someone said above, we also enjoy the sight, curves, the hair, the moves, the taste, and the smell of a sexy woman. And women enjoy that as well. Heavy women, not round and pleasingly plump have a harder time.

Bi is a very big part of the swinging scene in our experience. Even straight women are encouraged to experiment in the bi arena.

Now one thing I have not seen -- lesbian women do not seem to gravitate to the swinging scene. I don't know why, but they go elsewhere. Also, gay men don't seem to appear very often. Bi men, but even that not very often

[BradAndJanet]

Here's an interesting article about female bi-sexuality that sort of fits in this topic.

-B

[My77038]

Originally Posted by WildMiCouple

Reminds me of an old quote:
Willie Sutton, an infamous bank robber was supposedly asked "Why do you rob banks?" To which he replied "Because that is where the money is."

Brett (and Tammy)

I sure did love that qoute. When I read I Hollered out loud in laughter. Good observation. I can see that you are very funny. Thanks for the early morning laugh.

[shivers68]

loved and agreed completely.can't get sexy with someone you don't feel a pull toward.

[EmpyreanPleasur]

Originally Posted by mikeandbrie

Women are extremely sensual creatures. We smell wonderfull, some sweet like candy or vanilla that makes you feel like you just cant resist melting into them others spicy ,you want to just dive right in and feel their heat surround you.We are as soft as satin and velvet.Our natural movements put you in awe,by the way we turn our faces toward you like every word you say is pure wisedom to the way we toss our hair or twirl a peice while in thought.
Every woman is sensual and erotic wheather ot not she knows it,other women notice it and are attracted to it. Maybe we want to be like her or just taste her but we feel that sensuallity and we want a part of it.
Just picture a womans curves,her walk,small hand gestures,her laughter ,just as you find these attractive so do we women. facelick
brie

If I wasn't already bi I would be after reading this!

[curiouscouple4f]

Originally Posted by Chicup

Because god is good

Before you worry to much about compatibility (I assume your wife is straight) a lot of 'bi' women don't mind if they don't do GG play, just be up front when you contact them. My wife is bi but she likes men better and doesn't mind if its just normal play. Also a LOT of bi-curious are just that, curious, it doesn't mean they will do anything or will attack your wife.

I'm bi-curious myself, however, just because i'm bi-curious it doen't mean that i'd have to have GG play. i'd be just as happy for strictly MF MF MFM action. My husband is strictly straight and it wouldn't bother him at all either.

"The Mrs."

[Tempest419]

Thanks for the post, Brie--couldna put it better myself! I like to think every woman is a goddess.

As for my two cents... I love breasts--could stay for an hour--and those soft, slick wet folds? Mmmm.... what's not to want? Vaginas remind me of blossoming flowers, of honeypots and the sweet, slow running sap of a tree (can you tell I'm a pagan?). facelick

I also wanted to say that when someone doth protest too much, it usually means the curiosity (and desire) is there, underneath all the social/religious conditioning that keeps us tied up in shame and guilt. I also think, from a spiritual perspective, it gives you appreication for what your husband or sig-other loves about you. All hail the Goddess!

Tempest