My former husband used to go on and on about swingers. Did not seem interesting to me but like so many things with him, I'm not sure he had an accurate understanding. Might, if nothing else, learn what he was up to. You never know, he might even be a member here.

Hello all!

We are new to the Forum. We both have some experience but are soft swap and still exploring our boundaries.

We ar eenjoying reading The Swinger Manual and looking forward to learning more here.

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So my wife and I met a couple through Swing Lifestyle that isn't an actually couple. They are friends with benefits (more benefits than friends) and swing together. We were just wondering if there is anything we should keep our eyes peeled out for, if it's a good idea/bad, that sort of thing. Thanks!

I am a 35 year old male.I am recently divorced and have become very interested in being with another couple.I am 100% straight.I have no idea how to act on this fantasy.From what i have read on most sites i have been on single males are not really welcome in the clubs.(never been so i have no idea if that is true) And i have no idea how else to contact a couple to see if they are interested.I think i am a fairly attractive guy.I am 6`2 180 . Can anybody give me some pointers on how to go about this.Your help will be greatly appreciated.Thanks in advance

i am a 24 year old single male who just got out of a serious relationship. i am looking to start getting back into the swing of things just to have a little bit of fun while im single. my ex gf and i used to attend swing parties last year after she talked me into it and we both had a blast meeting new people and learning new tricks. so i am looking to get back into it, but this time as a single male, to see how it goes. i just found this site and thought i would introduce myself and see what there was going on and about. i am always looking to meet new people or throw my opinions out there if ever needed.

Terrifying Wii-Mote Add-On Proves Sex and Nintendo Don't Mix -Gamma Squad

Meet the Mojowijo, the latest advance in teledildonics (and yes, that actually is a word.) You don’t need a Wii, just the two Wiimotes, which communicate your pathetic attempts to make love to the person on the other end via Bluetooth.
We’re not sure this isn’t a scam; it’s still in “private beta” and all we’ve seen are computer renderings. But if this isn’t real, eventually it will be, and it will be terrifying.

I have 2 questions, please bear with me..
1. How do I introduce this site/forum to my wife without looking like the over zealous horndog? I really want her to check it out, there is alot of usefull info here. So she won't think I'm "sneaking around" looking to set up or play without her. as this is not the case....

2. We have met a couple and really seemed to hit it off, it started with innocent drunk texting about sex and ended with trading pics....(me and the husband were txting but but wives were present on both ends) we've went out a couple of times and there was sexual tention each time but long story short each time something would happen beyond anyones control that abruptly cut the night short :( ok, to the point, we ended up going out of town with them...drinking, strip club, etc... ended up back at hotel room and one thing led to another but only the wives played while myself and her husband watched, which is completely fine with me... here is the question, although we've done what we have nobody has come out and discussed the limits, we don't fully know their intentions but have made ours clear.... we are for "what ever happens, Happens." meaning we will full swap if they will. my wife and I have found a new love for each other in being completely honest with each other, so thats how we came to the agreement that we would like to swap with this couple. My wife is willing (of course I am), If we read the husband correctly he is, but that leaves his wife (she's apparently good with girl play)..... the night we went out of town she occationally flirted with me but never made any move beyond that... since that night when we see them in a vanilla situation she will give me a pat on the leg or push off the shoulder in passing or while we are talking, but she doesnt seem to be the kind to talk about that part of her life, she seems to just go with it....I don't know if she thinks I avoided her that night and am not interested, I kinda get that vibe but I'm not 100%... how do we approach this? they are really good friends that we would love to continue to hang out with reguardless of whether we swing or not. Just dont want to cross any lines but I'm dying to know..... Advice please....

I see they are at swing clubs, but I wonder if they are popular. It would be interesting to know from any woman here if you believe the anonymity of them would be appealing to most women or be the opposite. If they are popular, I wonder how long a woman would use one and how many people she would be with and if there is any similarity between the women, such as age or experience with swinging. Personal experiences would be interesting to hear about.

We are new to swinging, are there any traits, good or bad, that we should be on the look out for in other couples?

we are new to the lifestyle and loving all the experiences we have had so far! I personaly love this site and thank all the people who post advise and experiences they have!

I may not be alone in this, I have a question.

Since I like to watch my wife in certain circumstances with another partner, the visual aspect of our adventures is kinda important. With that preface, I have a question for my fellow eyeglass wearers....
Do you keep your glasses on, did you get contact lenses, do you just squint, what is your preferred method of enjoying the view when your eyesight is challenged?

Hey, I'm new here. I found this site on Google the other day and decided to sign up. My girlfriend and I had our first swinger experience the other day with my best friend. It was pretty thrilling and exciting, and I want to know more about being a "swinger". I wasn't in the room when they had sex, but I was in the room right next too it. The sounds alone where extremely sexy to me. I know I'm just rambling on, but I really don't know how else to introduce myself here... lol

so whats good?!

We are new to the board, did not know what else to say but Hi. If any one wants to know anything about us just ask

I need some advice. This is the perfect spot to ask, as some of you know our sex life has been rocky, bordering on non-existant thoughout our 42 years of marriage. My wife has never really been sexually active prior to our marriage and she has had lukewarm interest in our sexual activity. At times she has little interest in sex, and I get the feeling she is doing it because, "he has gone long enough I need to fuck him". She for a period of 12 years would not allow any oral sex between us, finally I pushed the issue enough so she gave in, but I get the feeling she is not enjoying sucking my cock, enjoys me going down on her, although I can get her to cum.

I have tried many many times to get her to talk about her sexual fantasies and she says she has none. I have tried to get her to sit down with a cup of coffee the next morning and discuss our sexual play and to tell me what she liked what she wanted better and she wont talk about our sexual play, just silence.

A few weeks ago I tried to discuss the reasons she doesnt seem to have much sexual desire and really is not too agressive in bed or doesnt initiate sex with me and I asked her is she was a lesbian and did not want to have sex with me or men. She got really upset, shouted no she was not a lesbian and began to cry and left the room. Conversation ended at that point. It got me thinking did I finally hit the nail on the head. Her reaction was far too strong for a simple question based on my three year battle to improve our sex life. She has not spoken of that conversation since and our the sex between us has again gone to zero.

In your opinion could she be a lesbian and refuses to acknowlege the fact and where do I go from here. I would be thrilled if she was at least it would explain our sexual problems and we could work on finding her a steady gf for her pleasure. I will be anxious to hear your thought. Thanks

Hello my wife and I have done some of about everything. From MMMFF to MMF tto MMFF to MFF you get the picture. But all of this was with the same group with the exception of the MFF, she was a random female at a party. We have been to a club in Vegas where we had sex in front of a huge group of people. We were approached by a very attractive couple but declined because we didn't know them. We have had our share of fun. I love watching my wife with the other guys. Recently she really has not had the desire but I am hoping that she might like to get back into it somemore. Any suggestions that might reinspire her would be awesome. She always had to be in the right mood and things had to be very spontanious and not planned unless by her. Look forward to any feed back