Swingers Board

Why Can't I Get it Up?

Mon, 13 May 2013 14:11:00 -0700

I've fallen and I can't get up.

Question: Why can't I get it up?
Answer: Because.....

Perhaps the most common complaint I will hear from both men and women in swinging, is when the men can't seem to get it up. Some women will state that a majority of men can't seem to perform. I have no idea how many threads on this we have here, but its a lot and this might be the most common �issue� in swinging.

So great, you are not alone, not that it helps your flaccid friend knowing he has company.

Like snowflakes, the causes of ED are numerous and can be very unique. I am going to assume this is not a medical

How Do I Get My Wife To Swing?

Mon, 13 May 2013 14:08:00 -0700

Question: How do I get my wife to swing.
Answer: Ask her.

Now Chicup you think, my wife is a prude/born again christian/devote muslim/etc etc, she will never just agree to swing, I need some method to trick her into it, perhaps mind control? Well you would be right in a way but there is no magic formula, and in this case �mind control� would have to be simply convincing logically.

First the desire MUST be there somewhere. You can overcome some objections but you can't overcome no desire to do it. If there is any desire there most objections will come from either external or internal sources. External would be �what would my family think!�, �I don't want to go to hell!�,

The day after her return from Europe

Thu, 09 May 2013 01:06:00 -0700

The day after G�s return from Europe was like any other day she made love to Her husband Andy in the morning had breakfast and they took the dog for a long walk, All in all a pretty normal day... Right?

G came home by 2pm to spend the afternoon with Andy, And when she got home she was told to go and take a shower and dress with the clothes that were laid out on the bed for Her( she loved being told what to do sexually it seemed to give her permission to be a dirty little slut and she loved being that slut for Andy).

After her shower she fixed her hair and makeup and found the clothes Andy had laid out for her, She had her favorite collar, leather cuffs for her wrists and ankles, a leather corset

Being a Sexual Special Guest Star Part 4 - Threesomes

Wed, 08 May 2013 09:53:00 -0700

Originally published here: http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/146...-4-threesomes/

Threesomes offer a unique, sexy opportunity. Hopefully you�ve read the other articles in this series (Being a Sexual Special Guest Star Part 1, Part 2, Part 3) and have found a couple who is a good match for you. This article will give you some serious, sexy and fun ideas to make things go smoothly when you hit the sheets.

Rules and Boundaries

Before the play starts it is very important that everyone understands each others boundaries and desires.

Being a Sexual Special Guest Star Part 3 - Meeting Couples

Wed, 08 May 2013 09:51:00 -0700

Originally published here: http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/145...eting-couples/

It�s time to meet couples in real life! Whether you�ve decided to meet a couple one on one or venture out to a swing event, here are some guidelines to help you along.

Safety

As a single it�s important to consider your safety foremost. While most people we�ve met in the lifestyle are genuine and caring; we have met individuals who are dangerous. You don�t need to be paranoid, but please take a few easy steps to make your encounters safer.

Being a Sexual Special Guest Star Part 2 - Finding Couples

Wed, 08 May 2013 09:45:00 -0700

Originally published here: http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/144...nding-couples/

You�ve made the choice to check out the swinging lifestyle as a single! It may seem exciting, but mysterious and daunting at the same time. Here are basic steps to get started meeting couples online and in person.

Online websites for swingers serve two important purposes. First, they allow you to introduce yourself to your local swing community. Secondly, they will provide you information about clubs and events in your area and local personalities. Creating an online profile is

Singles and the Swing Lifestyle - Being a Sexual Special Guest Star Part 1

Wed, 08 May 2013 08:09:00 -0700

Originally published here: http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/139...al-guest-star/

I often talk to single men and women who are interested in swinging, but aren�t sure what it�s all about or how to get involved. In this series I�ll give you tips on getting started and building swing relationships with couples. From making the decision to swing to bedroom fun, following these tips should help you feel more confident and increase your chances of having fulfilling swing experiences.

If you are considering swinging as a single there are a few questions you

Practice makes Perfect (talking to strangers)

Sun, 21 Apr 2013 09:00:00 -0700

Practice makes perfect.

No, not practicing your sexual technique (that can help), but practice talking to people you DON'T know. That is one of the hardest things to do, especially for singles, particularly for some single men.

Talking to people is the first step to knowing if you really want to become involved with them. However, starting that conversation is an art that must be developed. It took me a lot longer to develop that skill because I come from a small town and I knew almost everything about almost everyone before I ever met them. There were no strangers in the five surrounding communities, and that acutally hindered (and still hinders) my personal life. Just like I knew the bad habits

Perfect What Not To Do Movie

Mon, 15 Apr 2013 12:02:00 -0700

Perfect What Not to Do Movie!

"Sex and Breakfast" Indie Film

Mon, 15 Apr 2013 10:21:00 -0700

It was movie night for my friend and