Cumming in her mouth

ktimephoenix · 07-29-2008, 08:12 PM

Hey all, just a quick one... we were playing with a couple last friday night, and she was giving me a great BJ after we'd had sex. the type that you know she's trying to make you cum.

Now i didn't want to cum in her mouth without making sure she was fine with it. or pull it out and cum on her without finding the same. but i was also a bit unsure of how to "approach" the situation

how do you guys bring this up

**two4youinswva** · 07-29-2008, 08:17 PM

"I'm about to come" is what I usually say. Might as well be straight up about it.

It works both as encouragement to those ladies that want you to, and as a warning for those that don't.

SJK977 · 07-29-2008, 08:17 PM

I would probably just ask her where she wants it. Aside from that, we usually communicate those types of things before things get going, like when we're discussing likes and dislikes.

NakedInSeattle · 07-29-2008, 08:18 PM

"If you keep that up, I'm gonna cum"...how she responds to that tells you whether she wants you to or not.

**LFM2** · 07-29-2008, 09:34 PM

^^ Agree with the above.

realcplub2 · 07-29-2008, 09:48 PM

Umm.. if none of the above offered statements workk..

Ask...

Something simple like, Im gonna cum, where do you want it? If she re doubles her efforts.. the answer is obvious

SecretAsianMan · 07-29-2008, 10:06 PM

Usually I'll pull her off for a second and let her know, if she keeps that up - I'm going to cum. Then I figure, the ball's in her court and she can keep on going or what at her discretion.

Rockon · 07-29-2008, 10:13 PM

I often say " you got me close... Where do you want it?"
She is happy and I am happy, just as it should be

Greg & Sheryl · 07-30-2008, 09:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NakedInSeattle

"If you keep that up, I'm gonna cum"...how she responds to that tells you whether she wants you to or not.

Precisely the same approach we recommend.

realcplub2 · 07-31-2008, 12:50 AM

Of course there is always the silent approach..

Let em keep going til you explode, then if they freak.. just tell em..

Hey its like a hand grenade.. play with it long enough its gonna go off..

LOL

**fun4Ds** · 07-31-2008, 05:00 AM

Were you holding on to it or was she ?

If she had ahold of it and had the controll..... like above just say "I'm cumming."

Don't grab the back of her head and hold her on it. Unless you talk about it before head..... I mean before hand.

Opportunists · 07-31-2008, 11:23 AM

I know it's best for Mrs. Opp when the guy asks where she wants it... she usually likes it on her face or neck/chest.

However, if we're at a club and she thinks she might be playing more, she'll take it in her mouth or somewhere less messy for the next boy/girl.

A little word of advice... when you ask her, find a clear voice.

Last night she was with a new boy who was fucking her missionary and when he was ready to cum, he rubbed her stomach. From my chair next to them, i heard him grumble 'do you want it here', and she said yes.

Later I asked her why she wanted it on her stomach instead of her face/neck as usual. It turns out she didn't understand him and thought he was asking if he could put it on her stomach... not if she wanted it there as opposed to somewhere else.

So just ask audibly... she will tell you what she wants either verbally or physically.

Thrax · 07-31-2008, 02:34 PM

It usually takes me a while to get off from oral, even after much previous stimulation, but sometimes the "feeling" is there at unexpected times. So, whenever I get to the point that there's going to be no "point of return" I warn her that if she continues with that oral motion I'm going to cum. Once she knows that, it's her choice, as far as I'm concerned.

And if it's someone I haven't been with before, I give that warning, plus the couple of seconds before, "I'm gonna cum...aaah...aaah...," type of warning.

I try to be polite.

Thrax

cocpl2007 · 07-31-2008, 03:56 PM

we're with everybody else, just a s k!

ktimephoenix · 07-31-2008, 11:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

Were you holding on to it or was she ?

If she had ahold of it and had the controll..... like above just say "I'm cumming."

Don't grab the back of her head and hold her on it. Unless you talk about it before head..... I mean before hand.

Lol, she was holding onto it. i don't get the "holding the back of the head" thing... i much prefer to let them show me their technique

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07-29-2008, 08:12 PM	#1 (permalink)
ktimephoenix Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 280 Location: Adelaide Australia Status: Couple	Cumming in her mouth Hey all, just a quick one... we were playing with a couple last friday night, and she was giving me a great BJ after we'd had sex. the type that you know she's trying to make you cum. Now i didn't want to cum in her mouth without making sure she was fine with it. or pull it out and cum on her without finding the same. but i was also a bit unsure of how to "approach" the situation how do you guys bring this up

07-29-2008, 08:17 PM	#2 (permalink)
two4youinswva Better than Ice Cream Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 6,651 Location: va Status: Couple. He posts, She reads	Re: Cumming in her mouth "I'm about to come" is what I usually say. Might as well be straight up about it. It works both as encouragement to those ladies that want you to, and as a warning for those that don't.
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07-29-2008, 08:17 PM	#3 (permalink)
SJK977 Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 32 Location: RI Status: Couple	Re: Cumming in her mouth I would probably just ask her where she wants it. Aside from that, we usually communicate those types of things before things get going, like when we're discussing likes and dislikes.

07-29-2008, 08:18 PM	#4 (permalink)
NakedInSeattle Loving life (style) Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 449 Location: Seattle, WA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:NakedInSeattle	Re: Cumming in her mouth "If you keep that up, I'm gonna cum"...how she responds to that tells you whether she wants you to or not.

07-29-2008, 09:34 PM	#5 (permalink)
LFM2 ~This space for rent~ Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 4,749 Location: across the tracks Status: Couple	Re: Cumming in her mouth ^^ Agree with the above.
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07-29-2008, 09:48 PM	#6 (permalink)
realcplub2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 806 Location: North Central Florida Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:putnamcocpl	Re: Cumming in her mouth Umm.. if none of the above offered statements workk.. Ask... Something simple like, Im gonna cum, where do you want it? If she re doubles her efforts.. the answer is obvious

07-29-2008, 10:06 PM	#7 (permalink)
SecretAsianMan Tastes Great Less Filling Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,467 Location: Los Angeles Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Secret_Asian_Man	Re: Cumming in her mouth Usually I'll pull her off for a second and let her know, if she keeps that up - I'm going to cum. Then I figure, the ball's in her court and she can keep on going or what at her discretion.
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07-29-2008, 10:13 PM	#8 (permalink)
Rockon Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 81 Location: Traveling to a town near you Status: s Male	Re: Cumming in her mouth I often say " you got me close... Where do you want it?" She is happy and I am happy, just as it should be

07-31-2008, 12:50 AM	#10 (permalink)
realcplub2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 806 Location: North Central Florida Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:putnamcocpl	Re: Cumming in her mouth Of course there is always the silent approach.. Let em keep going til you explode, then if they freak.. just tell em.. Hey its like a hand grenade.. play with it long enough its gonna go off.. LOL

07-31-2008, 05:00 AM	#11 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,485 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun	Re: Cumming in her mouth Were you holding on to it or was she ? If she had ahold of it and had the controll..... like above just say "I'm cumming." Don't grab the back of her head and hold her on it. Unless you talk about it before head..... I mean before hand.

07-31-2008, 11:23 AM	#12 (permalink)
Opportunists Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 57 Location: South Louisiana Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:OpportunistsLA	Re: Cumming in her mouth I know it's best for Mrs. Opp when the guy asks where she wants it... she usually likes it on her face or neck/chest. However, if we're at a club and she thinks she might be playing more, she'll take it in her mouth or somewhere less messy for the next boy/girl. A little word of advice... when you ask her, find a clear voice. Last night she was with a new boy who was fucking her missionary and when he was ready to cum, he rubbed her stomach. From my chair next to them, i heard him grumble 'do you want it here', and she said yes. Later I asked her why she wanted it on her stomach instead of her face/neck as usual. It turns out she didn't understand him and thought he was asking if he could put it on her stomach... not if she wanted it there as opposed to somewhere else. So just ask audibly... she will tell you what she wants either verbally or physically.

07-31-2008, 02:34 PM	#13 (permalink)
Thrax Stimulus pkg. available Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,441 Location: Pittsburgh Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Thrax	Re: Cumming in her mouth It usually takes me a while to get off from oral, even after much previous stimulation, but sometimes the "feeling" is there at unexpected times. So, whenever I get to the point that there's going to be no "point of return" I warn her that if she continues with that oral motion I'm going to cum. Once she knows that, it's her choice, as far as I'm concerned. And if it's someone I haven't been with before, I give that warning, plus the couple of seconds before, "I'm gonna cum...aaah...aaah...," type of warning. I try to be polite. Thrax
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07-31-2008, 03:56 PM	#14 (permalink)
cocpl2007 Here to play Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 403 Location: Washington Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:cocpl2007	Re: Cumming in her mouth we're with everybody else, just a s k!

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