What is the day after etiquette?

[curiousswingers]

Well we finally had our first experience this weekend... Wow it was great! Just thinking about it makes me all wet! We had planned to go to a club, but the night before we were talking with a couple and they wanted to meet up with us before hand so we did, needless to say we never made it to the club! I (femae half) had my first girl girl experience as well, I am now hooked facelick . This couple was so great I def want to play with them again. My question is What is the day after or so called etiquette? Can I call them to chat? The girl and I hit it off great on all accounts we are def into each other, but also would love to do vanilla stuff with her as well. Just really like them and i def don't want to be pushy or scare them away!

[Lovethenights]

Truthfully, you're best bet would be to simply ask the other woman how she feels about it. The lifestyle is all about openness and honesty and being yourself. If she tells you it was a wonderful evening but her social book is full, she's being honest and you know what she thinks. If she says she can't quit thinking about you and would love to have you for herself daily, then you've got a new playmate. Anything in between and you guys can work out what works best for you all.

[CuriousInOregon]

I agree. I know for Us it all depends on the couple some are strictly in it for the Physical Aspect others want a friendship to bloom. (I am the friendship one hhehhee) Talk to her see how she feels you wont know until then