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View Poll Results: How do you prefer to finish in a MFM (after the woman of course)
Both men finish as close as possible 4 3.96%
He finishes first, then hubby 25 24.75%
Hubby finishes first then he does 3 2.97%
whatever happens happens 69 68.32%
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Default Which male finishes first in a MFM?

Interested in how the parties in a MFM finish in different situations. Assuming that making sure the woman gets off first, how do the guys finish? Who goes first, both at the same time?
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Assuming the woman gets off first...and any real gentleman will ensure that happens each time...

Each time the Mrs. and I have enjoyed MFM playtime...if she finishes first, he and I will continue giving her pleasure until we both finish in our own time. No pressure for the host or the guest to finish next...I don't imagine there is protocol to follow in this situation. The last man standing...no pun intended...gets to enjoy himself while the other watches.

At any rate...enjoy yourselves, don't get hung up on rules. Do what feels right.
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As far as the woman getting off first....that's a given with us. She usually runs out of fingers to count on before both men are done.
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I don't think that's something that can really be predicted. J. and I are taking a break from MFM's involving single males for the reason that we can't find one who isn't either a jackass or a blabber-mouth. But, in the past it's always been up to me. (The F). If I want one of them or both finished...trust me...I will finish them off. If I want it to keep going, I'll make them both wait.
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We usually play at our house so I always let the "guest" finish first. Also, after seeing him pull out and cum on her, it doesn't take too long for me to finish.
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we have had it end all kinds of ways. there is no preference for us as long as everyone is happy at the end.
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Default Re: How do you finish in a MFM

For us it's usually an allnight kind of fun( or at least until they can't get it up anymore lol) either way hubby is going to be eating a lot of creampies
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Default Re: How do you finish in a MFM

Jeez... We just play it by ear. Whatever happens, happens. We don't try to script-it-out beforehand, like "okay honey, here's how we are going to do it... he'll do you, then I'll do you, then we'll both do you, then he'll finish, then I'll finish, then we'll kick him out of the hotel room and do it again ourselves."

That takes the fun out of it. We just go with the flow and make the best of every situation, because they're all different and that is what makes this lifestyle so much fun... variety.

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In an MFM situation, my husband usually likes to watch the guest do me and finish and then takes his turn. If it was good, we'll go for another round.
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Jeez... We just play it by ear. Whatever happens, happens. We don't try to script-it-out beforehand, like "okay honey, here's how we are going to do it... he'll do you, then I'll do you, then we'll both do you, then he'll finish, then I'll finish, then we'll kick him out of the hotel room and do it again ourselves."
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I couldn't answer the poll because it didn't mention the penguin.
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I couldn't answer the poll because it didn't mention the penguin.
Mario Lemieux? Sidney Crosby? Batman's foe? Other?

Regardless, it appears you run (or waddle) in more elite circles than most of us. Congrats.

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Default Re: How do you finish in a MFM

How do you prefer to finish in a MFM (after the woman...)?

Preferred method? Moaning ecstatically, of course.



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It really doesn't matter to my wife as long as she is receiving pleasure, but I love doing a DP on her and having us guys cum as close together as possible.
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Default Re: How do you finish in a MFM

I always make sure that my partner goes last, both to prevent jealousy and to reconnect as a couple. however, things during our session can get all jumbled up and so people will be cumming multiple times and thus we lose sense of a sequence. however, at the very end, i'm usually pleasing my partner and the other or others either watch or help.
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