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View Poll Results: How do you prefer to finish in a MFM (after the woman of course) | |||
| Both men finish as close as possible | | 4 | 3.96% |
| He finishes first, then hubby | | 25 | 24.75% |
| Hubby finishes first then he does | | 3 | 2.97% |
| whatever happens happens | | 69 | 68.32% |
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| Active Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 36 Location: Summit, NJ Status: Couple
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Interested in how the parties in a MFM finish in different situations. Assuming that making sure the woman gets off first, how do the guys finish? Who goes first, both at the same time?
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| Registered Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 3 Location: Gilbert
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Assuming the woman gets off first...and any real gentleman will ensure that happens each time... Each time the Mrs. and I have enjoyed MFM playtime...if she finishes first, he and I will continue giving her pleasure until we both finish in our own time. No pressure for the host or the guest to finish next...I don't imagine there is protocol to follow in this situation. The last man standing...no pun intended...gets to enjoy himself while the other watches. At any rate...enjoy yourselves, don't get hung up on rules. Do what feels right. |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 535 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female
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I don't think that's something that can really be predicted. J. and I are taking a break from MFM's involving single males for the reason that we can't find one who isn't either a jackass or a blabber-mouth. But, in the past it's always been up to me. (The F). If I want one of them or both finished...trust me...I will finish them off. If I want it to keep going, I'll make them both wait.
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 54 Location: Folsom, CA Status: Male - Couple
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We usually play at our house so I always let the "guest" finish first. Also, after seeing him pull out and cum on her, it doesn't take too long for me to finish.
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| South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male
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Jeez... We just play it by ear. Whatever happens, happens. We don't try to script-it-out beforehand, like "okay honey, here's how we are going to do it... he'll do you, then I'll do you, then we'll both do you, then he'll finish, then I'll finish, then we'll kick him out of the hotel room and do it again ourselves." That takes the fun out of it. We just go with the flow and make the best of every situation, because they're all different and that is what makes this lifestyle so much fun... variety. Mr. WS |
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| Registered User Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 3 Location: Europe Status: Married Female
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In an MFM situation, my husband usually likes to watch the guest do me and finish and then takes his turn. If it was good, we'll go for another round.
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| Doing it our way... | Quote:
No scripts, to-do lists or directors are desired in our MFMs either. Whatever floats our boats at the moment works for our MFMs. | |
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__________________ I'll give up my bad habits as soon as equally satisfying good habits become available. A. Brilliant | ||
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| Stimulus pkg. available Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,441 Location: Pittsburgh Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Thrax
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Regardless, it appears you run (or waddle) in more elite circles than most of us. Congrats. Thrax | |
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__________________ You get what you play for. | ||
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| Stimulus pkg. available Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,441 Location: Pittsburgh Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Thrax
| How do you prefer to finish in a MFM (after the woman...)? Preferred method? Moaning ecstatically, of course. Thrax |
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__________________ You get what you play for. | |
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| Registered Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 3 Location: fort worth, texas Status: m.male
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I always make sure that my partner goes last, both to prevent jealousy and to reconnect as a couple. however, things during our session can get all jumbled up and so people will be cumming multiple times and thus we lose sense of a sequence. however, at the very end, i'm usually pleasing my partner and the other or others either watch or help.
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