Washing between play times

[couplewanting50]

When playing in a situation with another couple where you are likely to play again, or with a group, where multiple partners and multiple times are likely, do you ever — in between times — go wash up to be fresh for others? This question applies to men and women.

It seems like a good idea, we have done it, and wonder what others think and do.

[Darkblue]

We always shower after play!! were still very much newbies and we believe that even if were not playing again then a shower is always a must...


Steve

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by couplewanting50

When playing in a situation with another couple where you are likely to play again, or with a group, where multiple partners and multiple times are likely, do you ever — in between times — go wash up to be fresh for others? This question applies to men and women.

Do you mean, within one play session? For example, you're with another couple in a room for 2 hours or more?

[wifes_sex_slave]

We prefer to be as fresh as possible. MRS and I will shower in the hotel room just before we go to the club even though we have had a shower that morning. MRS will even douche just prior as well to make sure she is fresh.

Unfortunately, we STILL have not had the opportunity - too shy I guess, but we're not giving up.

As for going back to the club for a second round, time permitting, I think we would "rinse and repeat as desired".

Why would we want to be "April fresh" for the first couple but not for the next?

[jack smith]

we wash up

[couplewanting50]

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

Do you mean, within one play session? For example, you're with another couple in a room for 2 hours or more?

I guess that seems like one play session, so.... maybe not that. Assuming the play never quits during that time. :-)

[WesternSwing]

Thinking about it, no. Unless it's really messy for some reason we just continue playing until done, then wash-up. We haven't had any playmates that clean-up between "rounds" either. Probably because part of the whole experience is the smell of sex.

Mr. WS

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by couplewanting50

I guess that seems like one play session, so.... maybe not that. Assuming the play never quits during that time. :-)

During one long play session, probably not, because it's pretty continuous and jumping up to wash frequently kind of breaks things up. It just kind of depends. Since we are a condoms-only couple with others, there's not much to clean up anyway, unless my husband comes inside of me during the play.

But if we were in some sort of situation like in a club, going upstairs with a couple, then redressing to go back to the club, we would definitely clean up. We don't really have those opportunities, though (no clubs around here).

If we're out for the evening with people, dancing in smoky clubs, maybe getting a little sweaty from all the dancing, and then going to play after that, I like to freshen up at the hotel room before we play. In fact, we don't like to mix dancing at the clubs on the same nights as play, if we can help it.

My very first swinging experience ever was as a single woman - I was with a couple. The other woman was such a clean-freak, that she washed herself at least three times during the play session. Being very naive and new, I didn't know what to make of that. When she jumped up to go wash, her husband felt compelled to explain (I got the feeling he often had to explain for her) that she was a clean freak. She spent a great deal of time washing right before the play started, and then kept washing throughout. That was the most extreme I've ever seen, and too much, in my opinion.

[Spoomonkey]

We shower as soon as we get home form the club (Taco Bell or White Castle stuck in the oven to keep it warm, smoke filled clothes - *yuckcoughcough* - piled by the garage door) and we are clean as a whistle before we get together (which we do every night when we get home to "reconnect" - and because sex is cool ).

But - do we shower and clean between folks at the club? No... It really isn't all that convenient. Then again - we rarely play with more than one couple at the club. If we do - it is as a single pile up and really not something with time to clean up...

Spoomonkey

[Gladiola4u]

I will let you know what I do when we get there.... Althought I am a clean freak I hope I am not compelled to get up and wash in the middle of playing because that is sort of a turn off for the other couple or person. It would be like telling them that they are making you feel disgusting and if that was the case they shouldn't play. Each to their own I guess but that is the reason why I make sure that I am REALLY clean before we go out to the club. Although we have not had our first experience yet, I want to feel comfortable to say "yes" to somebody that might invite us.

[aahours1]

I think that in a single meeting and then going back to find someone else, sanitary is a MUST. But if you are in a situation or an orgy or multiple in the same room same time. Well I do think it would be difficult to shower after each sesson .

[couplewanting50]

Originally Posted by WesternSwing

Probably because part of the whole experience is the smell of sex.

Mr. WS

That is true. Once in a group room, just a few minutes after I had finished fucking my woman, another woman came across the bed and took my cock in her mouth. She obviously did not mind, and it was very erotic.

[DGrey]

We've yet to wash during playtime unless something gets messy. We were in a small group setting once and one of the men came over to kiss me and he smelled like pussy and it was a complete turn on for me. I agree that the smell of sex is part of the total experience. Too many people are too concerned with washing away the natural scents the body emits. If you wash away the pheremones, what's the point?

We do wash up after the activity has ceased for the night though.

E

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by DGrey

We've yet to wash during playtime unless something gets messy. We were in a small group setting once and one of the men came over to kiss me and he smelled like pussy and it was a complete turn on for me.

Dito I especially love to kiss my husband with the taste of pussy still on his face. I love the smells and tastes of sex, too. As long as everybody's clean going into it, it's all good. facelick

[girlsnboys]

For reasons of hygeine and to prevent frequent UTI's I ALWAYS wash my pubic region in the bathroom after a session (if I can't get to a shower). But if we were going to trade partners in the same session I would not want to break rhythym(sp?) and wash after all is said and done.