FMF - How did it happen?

forchasingamy · 02-01-2007, 02:08 PM

We have been looking for the 3rd girl for two years now. So far no luck and we understand the meaning of the term Unicorn! So just wondering, for those of you out there that have experienced a FMF, how did it happen? Did you meet on the Internet, Club, or was she already a friend?

Please let us know how it happened...would love to think it was not an impossible task!

WesternSwing · 02-02-2007, 01:01 AM

Our first MFM threesome happened at a regional version of Burning Man. We met this really hot gal who took a liking to us and we ended-up having our first FMF threesome with her in the back of our SUV in the middle of the desert. We sure weren't looking for or expecting it to happen that night, that's for sure. It just happened. The right place, at the right time, with the right people.

Mr. WS

cubnamy1995 · 02-02-2007, 02:25 AM

With us, it was a friend we already had. We all got a little boozy one evening, and next thing you know, I'm the naked version of The Rock taking on a female tag-team.

I've found that the harder you look, the harder it is. The mrs. has a knack for bringing them home, so I don't even try.

Oh, BTW, I showed both of them what the People's Penis was all about.

For those of you who have no idea what I'm talking about, this is a professional wrestling thing.

A wise man once said...

To be the man...WOOOO!.....You gotta beat the man!!!!

Spoomonkey · 02-02-2007, 07:55 AM

Each time was different, but most experiences were at the club. Just the right night and the right connection - one night that connection was with two young ladies who were a couple and took a liking to us

There was another experience that was as mind-blowing as it was serendipitous. It happened on a trip and was unexpected right up to the point where the single woman propositioned us.

Our secret?

We don't look for single females.

And oddly - they happen.

Spoomonkey

daisy girl · 02-03-2007, 07:13 AM

My husband and I swing together and with couples and have had FMFs with our couples. I also have a couple that I swing with (alone). I just thought it would be cool to experience my own couple and so I put an ad on Swing Lifestyle.

ALmost forgot, we also used to swing with a woman whose husband couldn't have sex due to an extended illness.

Greg & Sheryl · 02-03-2007, 02:30 PM

We haven't had too many FMFs, but the two that we planned in advance happened with a single lady we already knew through the lifestyle. Ever other time, it happened spontaneously at a party or club when we played with ladies whose men were occupied elsewhere on the premises.

stanlane · 02-04-2007, 12:25 PM

We have had 2 FMF experiences in the last 16 months and both were unplanned. The first started as a massage for the Mrs. during her b'day party that turned into a mutual acquaintance going down on her, them both going down on me and some mutual clitoral stimulation between the 2 of them (also intercourse btwn me and the mrs.).

The 2nd experience was with a friend of the mrs. (and co-worker of mine) after a fairly wild pool party we threw for a visiting friend. after a few people left, we started skinny dipping, a little groping in the pool, body shots in the kitchen and finally a shower. When I came out of the shower, her friend was in the bed, but they weren't doing anything. When I got in, i realized the friend was naked. This turned into an all out 3some in which mrs. performed cunnilingus for the first time, i entered wife from behing while they were in 69 and mrs. and i performed oral on her together. that was a truly great sexual experience, but mrs. has decided that--as others have said--she's "just not wired for that" so i haven't brouth it up since (that was about 8 months ago). mrs. also told me that her friend wanted to spend the night b/c too much too drink. Mrs. said ok. Friend said she sleeps nude and hoped i wouldn't mind (needless to say, i didn't).

didn't mean to be so long, but really wanted to say you don't have to go looking for it. if it's something you BOTH want, it will happen and you shouldn't try to force it.

indy2some · 02-04-2007, 01:14 PM

We have had more than a few but I'd say most have happened at swing clubs. The recurring situation seems to be that some girls' SO or hubby either has too much to drink, pops early and leaves her unsatisfied or soemthing. We see it happen all the time.

Its not something we even seek. Just tends to find us.

**Alura** · 02-04-2007, 02:17 PM

Our lone "single lady" is a good friend who was "between marriages."

She's since remarried and doesn't seem to be swinging. Not that she ever was...

Mr. Alura

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02-01-2007, 02:08 PM	#1 (permalink)
forchasingamy Registered Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 3 Location: Arizona Status: Couple	FMF - How did it happen? We have been looking for the 3rd girl for two years now. So far no luck and we understand the meaning of the term Unicorn! So just wondering, for those of you out there that have experienced a FMF, how did it happen? Did you meet on the Internet, Club, or was she already a friend? Please let us know how it happened...would love to think it was not an impossible task!
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02-02-2007, 01:01 AM	#2 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: FMF - How did it happen? Our first MFM threesome happened at a regional version of Burning Man. We met this really hot gal who took a liking to us and we ended-up having our first FMF threesome with her in the back of our SUV in the middle of the desert. We sure weren't looking for or expecting it to happen that night, that's for sure. It just happened. The right place, at the right time, with the right people. Mr. WS
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02-02-2007, 02:25 AM	#3 (permalink)
cubnamy1995 Amateur Naked Acrobats Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 541 Location: East TX Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:cubnamy1995	Re: FMF - How did it happen? With us, it was a friend we already had. We all got a little boozy one evening, and next thing you know, I'm the naked version of The Rock taking on a female tag-team. I've found that the harder you look, the harder it is. The mrs. has a knack for bringing them home, so I don't even try. Oh, BTW, I showed both of them what the People's Penis was all about. For those of you who have no idea what I'm talking about, this is a professional wrestling thing. A wise man once said... To be the man...WOOOO!.....You gotta beat the man!!!!
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02-02-2007, 07:55 AM	#4 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: FMF - How did it happen? Each time was different, but most experiences were at the club. Just the right night and the right connection - one night that connection was with two young ladies who were a couple and took a liking to us There was another experience that was as mind-blowing as it was serendipitous. It happened on a trip and was unexpected right up to the point where the single woman propositioned us. Our secret? We don't look for single females. And oddly - they happen. Spoomonkey
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02-03-2007, 07:13 AM	#5 (permalink)
daisy girl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 264 Location: Virginia Status: married female Swing Lifestyle Name:porttasters	Re: FMF - How did it happen? My husband and I swing together and with couples and have had FMFs with our couples. I also have a couple that I swing with (alone). I just thought it would be cool to experience my own couple and so I put an ad on Swing Lifestyle. ALmost forgot, we also used to swing with a woman whose husband couldn't have sex due to an extended illness.

02-03-2007, 02:30 PM	#6 (permalink)
Greg & Sheryl Interracial Swingers Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 749 Location: Denver, CO Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Greg69Sheryl	Re: FMF - How did it happen? We haven't had too many FMFs, but the two that we planned in advance happened with a single lady we already knew through the lifestyle. Ever other time, it happened spontaneously at a party or club when we played with ladies whose men were occupied elsewhere on the premises.

02-04-2007, 12:25 PM	#7 (permalink)
stanlane Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 18 Location: Micronesia Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:stanlane	Re: FMF - How did it happen? We have had 2 FMF experiences in the last 16 months and both were unplanned. The first started as a massage for the Mrs. during her b'day party that turned into a mutual acquaintance going down on her, them both going down on me and some mutual clitoral stimulation between the 2 of them (also intercourse btwn me and the mrs.). The 2nd experience was with a friend of the mrs. (and co-worker of mine) after a fairly wild pool party we threw for a visiting friend. after a few people left, we started skinny dipping, a little groping in the pool, body shots in the kitchen and finally a shower. When I came out of the shower, her friend was in the bed, but they weren't doing anything. When I got in, i realized the friend was naked. This turned into an all out 3some in which mrs. performed cunnilingus for the first time, i entered wife from behing while they were in 69 and mrs. and i performed oral on her together. that was a truly great sexual experience, but mrs. has decided that--as others have said--she's "just not wired for that" so i haven't brouth it up since (that was about 8 months ago). mrs. also told me that her friend wanted to spend the night b/c too much too drink. Mrs. said ok. Friend said she sleeps nude and hoped i wouldn't mind (needless to say, i didn't). didn't mean to be so long, but really wanted to say you don't have to go looking for it. if it's something you BOTH want, it will happen and you shouldn't try to force it.

02-04-2007, 01:14 PM	#8 (permalink)
indy2some Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 19 Location: Indianapolis Status: Couple	Re: FMF - How did it happen? We have had more than a few but I'd say most have happened at swing clubs. The recurring situation seems to be that some girls' SO or hubby either has too much to drink, pops early and leaves her unsatisfied or soemthing. We see it happen all the time. Its not something we even seek. Just tends to find us.

02-04-2007, 02:17 PM	#9 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,120 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Re: FMF - How did it happen? Our lone "single lady" is a good friend who was "between marriages." She's since remarried and doesn't seem to be swinging. Not that she ever was... Mr. Alura
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