Couple is too eager / wants more than I want to give

[DragonSlayer774]

Hi.
I posted a similar problem on this board around a year ago .I am a single male and staff for a lifestyle club . I've been in the lifestyle for 2 1/2 years . A very clingy couple became a problem . I just simply made myself unavailable . I am still nice to them when they are at our socials but I am always busy so it is not a problem anymore . I followed the advice I was given on this board .

Goog Luck HedoJohn

[ts4]

All great advice and i don't mean to jump into this thread but i can see where this could be a problem for anyone. I mean my wife and i have been *thinking* about the swing lifestyle for years but nothing really transpired until recently. Were both very lucky to find a like minded couple and are all 4 jointly attracted to each other. It's very rare in my book to find this sort of setup. Once you do and have that first great experience you thirst for more. It isn't easy treading these waters. Think about it. The odds of all 4 people really having a great time and connecting is from what i've seen not a slam dunk. Once you find this it's hard to let it go after sooooooooo long looking for the right situation.

With that being said i feel the same way you do but on the flip side. How do you go about contacting the couple and actively tread the waters of being overbearing? What's overbearing?

Good luck with this.

[aahours1]

Did you profile state, that you wanted to meet couples "WITH NO STRINGS ATTACHED"
If so reinnerate, that thought to them. Be nice and tactful, but there may be a time to be forward and blunt. E-mail them back and tell them that as great as it was, that you are not looking for a committed relationship, that you want to play with other females or couples. along with still being able to play with them. Be honnest and upfront with them...They should get the message, if not and you do not feel comfortable with them anymore, tell them so.