So please tell me how many of you have found single bi females

[MarriedNY'ers69]

Cause we have yet to find oen that was actually single. Or they aren't something to get involved with for a few reasons.

So please tell me is this something to even waist our time looking for?

I would so love to share just a women sometime with my husband! Of course in a couple situation we all have to share haha. And I would just love one two fun for a change instead of 2 on 2 KWIM.

[VanHlebar]

We are actually meeting for dinner tonight with one. We will see how it goes, has been fairly difficult to get our schedules to match. I think the key is just patience and lots of luck.

-Van

[MarriedNY'ers69]

Oh Van you lucky little devil you! Good hun! I hope it all works out. LOL all we have is time right! So maybe in a few years I might get mine haha

[lovedoctor]

I think I would avoid that for the time being, even if the opportunity came up. We have some friends that got involved with one and altho they thought she was a cool person initially, she turned out to be kinda psycho.

So trust what your instinct tell you in your initial conversations and meetings, and I would take it slow...a lot of times the unicorns turn out to be just horses with a party hat! LOL, JMHO ~Good luck in your search.

[hfire269]

Since we started looking 3 yrs ago we have found 2 that we actually got to meet. One we played with for a little over a yr. Then I got tired of the onesided "friendship". The other single fem we havent played with but thats been due to Medical issues. She was in a serious accident and is very very lucky to still be alive. They are out there jsut really hard to find. We have talked to another single fem but shes stood us up twice... Good luck in your search .

[MarriedNY'ers69]

LMAO thanks for the advise lovedoctor.

[bill&sabrina]

We have found one. We talked to her for about 3 months before being able to meet. She was Sabrina's birthday present this year, and we all had a great time.

[MarriedNY'ers69]

Ok I guess I will just have to wait and see what we canfind

[fun_pairTX]

We have a couple of SBF's that we have played with regularly for a couple of years now, a lot of them are jaded because they seem to be the holy grail for all the newbies who haven't figured out that a SBF is a hundred times harder to find than a couple with a bi-female.

[MarriedNY'ers69]

LOL I have been in search for three years. It's easy to find if you just one g/g I have found a ton. But to get Dh invovled is another story LOL. And we do everything together

[good times]

Originally Posted by MarriedNY'ers69

LOL I have been in search for three years. It's easy to find if you just one g/g I have found a ton. But to get Dh invovled is another story LOL. And we do everything together

Exactly, this has been our experience in over three years of regular club attendance too. Quite a few single women that just want to play with girls (we refer to them as the club lesbians), but very few that actually want to play with the man or are even willing to include the man past letting him watch. We have met about three or four that were what I would call actual "single Bi-females" that were willing to play with both sexes.

[MarriedNY'ers69]

Yeah and we don't have alot of time to do the club sceen. We have three kids a young family so basically internet set up meetings is our only thing we can do at this time. But it's working out. I will just have to wait for our unicorn LOL

[S&E]

True Single Bi-Females are like an endangered species! They need to be protected and cared for to prevent the extinction of the species! The true SBiF’s are few in number and in great demand. It is like a lesson in business 101, the laws of Supply & Demand. They are out there; it takes time to find that right one that you may want to join you and your significant other for the most intimate of fun times.

About 12+ years ago I knew a true SBiF by every sense of the definition. She was tall, blonde, great body, wild, and truly single, never married, enjoyed guys as much as women. And if she had a few drinks, there was no holding her back. We opted not to hook up with her. You are thinking why???? Sounds like the perfect SBiF!

I knew her through work and sensed something about her that I could not put my finger on, but I went with my instinct. She was as psycho as she was hot. She was a home wrecker, marriage destroyer who would turn into a stalker from a horror movie. Over a ten year period through mutual friends, I heard the stories about her, some first hand from the couples involved with her and some second hand but very believable. My reason for this little story is just a heads up warning to those searching for the elusive SBiF. That was in the days before the internet. So proceed with caution with your search and trust your instincts.

Our tip:
The internet is helpful, but also think outside of the box when looking, you may find what you are looking for in places other than the internet, then proceed with caution and trust your instincts.

[ItTakes3]

In 10 years, we have found and played with 2.

[Dave_kat]

We've picked up 8 or 9 over the last 6 years. None of them we've met online. All were at a local gay club where the girls got to know Dave by seeing him around and how he handled himself.

Even in the lesbian crowd though, bisexual women are rare. They seem to be chastized by full lesbians. They are out there.

Our advise? Find a place that is lifestyle friendly (gay clubs are good about couples, as long as it's not predatory), and let the people get to know you. You'll meet a lot, and prolly find several who will enjoy both of ya'll.

And for the guys out there, once you get known in the clubs, the gay men will leave you alone (as far as getting hit on), once you're known and don't overreact (from Dave).