ecstasy and swinging?

[jw/dw]

I was wondering how many couple's actualy use ecstasy in swinging. I read a article saying ecstasy is moving it's way into swinging. They present it as if there is alot of swingers doing it.

[Spoomonkey]

Well - I have to admit - in our best experiences, ecstasy is always a part of it... In fact, the ones that have been ecstasy free have always been... Well... Forgetable...

I love the experience of ecstasy, but I have to admit, I much prefer watching a woman experience ecstasy. There is more of a charge to that for me...

It is kind of surprising that swinging survived without ecstasy for as long as it did? Why would people keep doing it? After all, without a little ecstasy, why put yourself through that much trouble?



Spoomonkey

PS - Did I understand your question?

[Cafe10s]

Good question, I am curious...

[LikeMinds321]

Are we talking about the drug ecstasy?

Or are we talking about the emotion ecstasy?

LM

[romy]

What is it like?I have heard alot about this but never experienced it.

[DBStPete]

Because of the fact that swinging is frowned upon by our larger society, swing clubs and parties are always in danger of harassment by John Law. That being the case, swing groups usually go out of their way to remain drug-free. Any signs of illegal drug use, or even talking about it, is grounds for immediate expulsion at most places. Sure, there are folks in the lifestyle who engage in almost anything you can name - same as folks not in the lifestyle. So I'm sure there is Ecstasy use out there, but I doubt it is widespread, or will become so. Maybe for some of the same reasons STDs are not common among swingers.

[wildwife1010]

Spoon, are you saying that drugs are required to swing? I respected you! What is up?

[JandL]

Originally Posted by wildwife1010

Spoon, are you saying that drugs are required to swing? I respected you! What is up?

I am almost certain that he was using the innocent defination of ecstasy

[Miss_Piggy]

E does carry the unfortunate side effect of making it much more difficult for a guy to get an erection. Given the problems that many men seem to encounter with performance anxiety already, that alone might be a pretty strong deterrent.

Also, it's a pretty powerful drug. Most likely, you won't be that interested in having sex while using it. You'll probably end up spending the entire night mesmerised by the sensation of stroking your own hand without even getting to the idea of having sex.

[fun_pairTX]

With the heightened scrutiny that swingers events and clubs draw, drugs are avoided at all times. Whomever is stating that Extacy useage is creeping in to swinging is full of crap.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by wildwife1010

Spoon, are you saying that drugs are required to swing? I respected you! What is up?

Okay, okay...

I will fess us - late night attempt at humor...

What I was saying was swinging without the ecstasy (state of physical bliss) was boring... The humor being that I really didn't understand the question was about a drug and answered in a confused haze...

Of course, I understand what he was asking - and simply wanted to laugh it off, because - while a GREAT question - it is not something that we are aware of happening.

My feelings about drug use? We don't - and if folks are bringing or using drugs at my club - and thus threatening the club that I frequent - and potentially forcing me to drive to Cleveland every weekend - well, it pisses me off.

And if you need a drug to enjoy sex (Viagra and such excluded) that's pathetic.

Spoomonkey

[jw/dw]

Well when I read this article I found it hard to beleave.They made it like swing clubs are raves or something. I have never really heard it talked about. They always try to make swinging look like some kind of dark lifestyle. You would think they would get over it by now. We have used ecstasy ourselves and would never recomend anyone using any drugs at all . I beleave each to his or her own. Don't come down on spoomonkey because he was honest with everyone here.I understand how drugs being involved in swinging gives swinging a bad name. There are alot of misconceptions on drugs out there. There is a website called www.thegooddrugsguide.com. It sepertes fact from fiction as far a drugs go. I dont and would never recomend ecstasy to anyone because you can die! Bottom line. But each to their own. We have used it and had great times, just never in swinging. Everyone has to make choices in life. Just like swinging

[Greg & Sheryl]

Never touched it. Never will. Never known anyone who tried it. Would you mind posting a link to the original article you read?

However, part of us suspect that this topic was brought up as an excuse to post a link to the Good Drugs Guide website. Should we ring the spammer alarm?

[jw/dw]

Well thats great that you dont and wont and don't know anyone who has. I'm not real concerned about the part of you that suspects anything. Before you try to come at me with what you suspect, you might want to look at your self. I WILL look for this article just for you because I gusse you need that kind of closure. But just because you don't agree with what someone post's doesn't mean you go and make acusations about it . DO something better with your time. I don't mean to be rude but please. I post here all the time. I'm not trying to promte a web site. If you look I have like 20 posts. None are about this web site or ecstasy. I will get you that article.

[Greg & Sheryl]

Our previous post was not intended to be a personal attack. The circumstances just seemed suspicious because you linked a seemingly unrelated (in our opinion) website, but did not link, or even quote, the original article that prompted you to start this thread. In fact, you didn't even identify the publication. If you are sincere, then we offer a heartfelt apology. Surrender We would like to read the article not because we need any closure, but because you have aroused our curiousity regarding this issue. We are certain that many others who are reading this thread would like to read the article, too.