Opinions regarding swinglifestyle.com?

Hello everyone, I wanted to ask if any of you are registered members of Swinglifestlye.com? And if so has it been worth it for you? I ask because I want to know if it is for real? I mean, are the profiles of real people looking for other people to meet or are they fake just to get you to sign up. It happed to me once that I signed up with another site and I would e-mail other member but would never get a reply from them. I just don't want to waste my time or money, any information would be appreciated.
Thanks

[Dynamar]

Hi Sunfun... I am a paying member, and have met many great people on Swing Lifestyle, both couples and single males. However, I'm sure you know that you are one single male in a virtual sea of single males out there... whether in the clubs or in the ads. Many couples block single males from contacting them, and if they want a single male, they will email him first.

My advice to you (I've read... replied to... and yes, many times dismissed... plenty of single male profiles)... Think about your replies to all of the questions, fill them all in completely. You don't have to be something you're not, but a clever answer here and there will certainly help you stand out from the crowd. Remember to be respectful at all times, especially in initial communications, and I'm sure you will find success.

All the best,

[JustAskJulie]

They are real and they don't show you profiles from members who haven't been to the site in more than 6 months (another thing that some sites tend to do to inflate their numbers). That doesn't mean that there aren't fakes on the site, there are always going to be those who are just playing around and screwing with people.

The best thing about Swing Lifestyle is that you don't have to pay to be a member, as a free member you can still contact others and get their responses (unlike many other sites).

[ALilOEverything]

I've had a lot of success with Swing Lifestyle. From what I've gathered from other posts is depending on the area you live in you may find other sites work better for you. It takes time and patience and a lot of weeding out no matter what site you've joined.

[NakedInSeattle]

Ditto the good comments about Swing Lifestyle.

[DaveNSheila]

Have to agree with everyone else as well about Swing Lifestyle. D

[txrings]

Had a lot of luck with Swing Lifestyle. We let our subscription lapse but still visit everyday and check our mail. (note to self....renew @ Swing Lifestyle)

We have had some good experiences from Swing Lifestyle, but as a whole it has been a let down. We have talked to quite a few people and most have turned out to be fakes or a cheating husband (ie, he is only free on week days during the day, HELLO!! ).

Myabe it is just our area, I don't know. But we have let our membership run out and have settled with another ad site where we have had much better luck.

[Greg & Sheryl]

As lifetime members of SwingLifestyle, we can assure you that there are plently of real people on that site. But, as Dynamar pointed out, meeting people through that site will still be a challenge because of all the competition you will get from other single men. Our advice to you would be to write only to people who are seeking single men, otherwise you will assure yourself of not getting any responses. It's surprising how many messages we get from people who fall outside of our criteria, which we make very clear on our profile. Be sure to read other profiles very carefully.

[junkyard38]

Junkyard 38 here. We have belonged to Swing Lifestyle for two years, and are somewhat satisfied. K and I are finding that many of the folks in our area do not want to accept new friends into there clicks. Many have been contacted and very few have replied, but this seems to be the pattern with all participants in all of the sites. Do not give up keep trying.

Enjoy each and every day to the fullest. facelick

[fun_pairTX]

We are life members there and have had great success, way more than any of the other sites we have tried.

[tribbles]

Some good, Some not so good. I suspect some "couples" are single males or cheating since after a few pics and a good email fantasy (graphic stories) some who we thought were for real, just stop contacting us and we don't get to meet the couple we had hoped for. head bang
We are trying clubs in hopes of meeting real people. It's a big plus when they have a profile we can view and allow them to view ours after we know they are real people.
But as others mentioned, being a single male on any site won't be easy. Although we have found a couple of friendly, fun, playful guys we want to meet again.

[allycat]

Swing Lifestyle is a very cool site,in my opinion.We've met some cool folks (some not).You just have to weed them out.I'd say all in all it's worth your time.

[fun_pairTX]

It isn't a panacea, but it is a little easier there than other places to wade through the doo doo to get to the diamonds.

[playmatesinpgh]

We are lifetime members on Swing Lifestyle and have had pretty good luck meeting other couples. Just takes a little bit of work sifting through the wannabees and fakes, but the end results have certainly been worth it.