Adult Friend Finder any good????

[eroticsensation]

I am thinking about joining adult friend finder. I am interested in finding a guy for a MFM and also joining a couple for an MFM. Is Adult Friend Finder any good? Do you think they put up fake info to show they have a large list? or is it legit?
anyone who uses it could you give me advice on how to use it?
Thanks in advance!!

[tracy1878]

hubby and I were on there for a while when we first started exploring this lifestyle, but we were never very impressed. Then we moved to sexyads, and it was a better one, but still not much luck till we moved to SLS... we live in a town of about 15,000, and there were tons of people from our area on there, plus the other outlying areas. With AFF and SA, there weren't very many local people, but I think it just depends on where you live. If your in a big city, you probably won't have much trouble finding anyone on any of the major sites.

[CuriousElders]

We've used AFF with considerable success, along with SLS. You'll need to pay on AFF to get the information you need. We found AFF to be almost worthless unless you are a paid member.

[WesternSwing]

AFF isn't bad to get allot of responses fast, since many people are on it, especially single men looking for married couples. But the quality of the people we've met is better on SLS or Swappernet. It seems the folks paying for an ad on those sites are little more serious about the lifestyle. We've let our subscription to AFF lapse for that reason.

Mr. WS

[mrsfreeway]

What ever you do don't waste you time joining AFF. It's a waste of time and money if you are a paid member. We first joined Aff before we joined anyother sites. We never met anyone from there and never found anyone that was serious about swinging on that site. There was one girl that would string you along just so she could get pics and make the top 10 most viewed list. It's a rip off and you will never meet with anyone. We've talked to many people that were on AFF and they never had any luck what so ever. Save your time and moeny. We've been on so many site's I can't remember them all and the best we've found is SLS. Even on there you will find that most people are fakes but the one's that are not are great to meet with. We've met some really nice people on SLS and it's the best out there. Hope you find what your looking for, take care.

[brew82]

We found our first couple on AFF and couldn't be happier.

[mf69_98]

Now we've been on SLS for a couple of years now & have met a couple of people that we had fun with, but the single women all seem to join & then disappear, never to return again ( at least the ones near us). Was considering AFF, but now not so sure - anyone think swappernet is any better?

[dutch51]

For us, AFF was always a waste of time and we tried it under a couple as well as singles. It just seemed like people weren't serious about doing anything whether it was meeting or even chatting. We have been on Swapper and had a lot of success there. We met quite a few couples and talked to even more on there. It's definitely better to become a paying member on Swappernet so you can continue to see the pics, but it is still possible to meet people without pics if you want to exchange them off-site. So far, we like SLS, but have only been on there a month. We have talked to several couples who seem interested about meeting; it's just hard to fit everyone's schedule together this month.

Anyway, good luck with your decision. Other people have had luck with AFF and if it's a guy you're looking for, you may do better than those looking for couples or females.

[Kentucky]

We've had success at AFF and swappernet. Swappernet seems to be a bit more user freindly, but I was not unhappy with AFF.

[Denver2some]

We've had lots of success of AFF. But you do need to be a paying member. We've met several nice couples there, and a few nice single men too. We have tried 3 sites now, and like AFF the best for the quantity of member in our area (more selection.) Sites can vary a lot by local area.

As with any site, there will be some people who aren't serious or pretending to be something they aren't (married cheaters pretending to be couples or "single" men) ... but we've learned to tell the difference easily. We have heard from some of our single guy friends that there are lots of fake single female ads on AFF in the 20-30 age range (they lead you to a pay web site.) But if you are looking for single men and couples, not single women, you should be fine.

[mf69_98]

well we're looking for couples & single women, since wife already has a male lover. Sounds like swappernet might be a better route to go then. Have wondered if single women profiles are seeded in sites like that to attract paying customers. LIke the ones on SLS - they join & then never return.

[ALilOEverything]

We met a great couple from AFF and we like them so much it was well worth the money and time spent. We prefer SLS though and now that is the only one we use.

[JustAskJulie]

If you are looking for single guys it is probably very good. If you are looking for couples then you should probably stick to sites that are more geared towards swingers like SLS, SexyAds, etc.

[Chemistry_0518]

We've tried AFF briefly and as was mentioned before, you get absolutely nothing unless you pay for the full membership. As far as finding couples ins concerned SLS and Swappernet have been MUCH better, with Swappernet being more user friendly and getting better all the time.

[Swingers2]

Hi,

We are about to launch a brand new swingers dating site very soon, with the first 3 months membership completely free with FREE anonymous SMS texting for 3 months too.

We have been running a singles dating site successfully for over 2 years and realised that there was not really any decent websites for the swingers community.

Just some basic input on what features you like/dislike on the current crop of swingers dating sites would be helpful.

Thanks alot!