Adult Friend Finder any good????

eroticsensation · 12-18-2004, 01:54 AM

I am thinking about joining adult friend finder. I am interested in finding a guy for a MFM and also joining a couple for an MFM. Is Adult Friend Finder any good? Do you think they put up fake info to show they have a large list? or is it legit?
anyone who uses it could you give me advice on how to use it?
Thanks in advance!!

tracy1878 · 12-18-2004, 09:52 AM

hubby and I were on there for a while when we first started exploring this lifestyle, but we were never very impressed. Then we moved to sexyads, and it was a better one, but still not much luck till we moved to Swing Lifestyle... we live in a town of about 15,000, and there were tons of people from our area on there, plus the other outlying areas. With AFF and SA, there weren't very many local people, but I think it just depends on where you live. If your in a big city, you probably won't have much trouble finding anyone on any of the major sites.

CuriousElders · 12-18-2004, 12:53 PM

We've used AFF with considerable success, along with Swing Lifestyle. You'll need to pay on AFF to get the information you need. We found AFF to be almost worthless unless you are a paid member.

WesternSwing · 12-18-2004, 02:23 PM

AFF isn't bad to get allot of responses fast, since many people are on it, especially single men looking for married couples. But the quality of the people we've met is better on Swing Lifestyle or Swappernet. It seems the folks paying for an ad on those sites are little more serious about the lifestyle. We've let our subscription to AFF lapse for that reason.

Mr. WS

mrsfreeway · 12-18-2004, 10:25 PM

What ever you do don't waste you time joining AFF. It's a waste of time and money if you are a paid member. We first joined Aff before we joined anyother sites. We never met anyone from there and never found anyone that was serious about swinging on that site. There was one girl that would string you along just so she could get pics and make the top 10 most viewed list. It's a rip off and you will never meet with anyone. We've talked to many people that were on AFF and they never had any luck what so ever. Save your time and moeny. We've been on so many site's I can't remember them all and the best we've found is Swing Lifestyle. Even on there you will find that most people are fakes but the one's that are not are great to meet with. We've met some really nice people on Swing Lifestyle and it's the best out there. Hope you find what your looking for, take care.

brew82 · 12-18-2004, 10:41 PM

We found our first couple on AFF and couldn't be happier.

mf69_98 · 12-19-2004, 03:46 AM

Now we've been on Swing Lifestyle for a couple of years now & have met a couple of people that we had fun with, but the single women all seem to join & then disappear, never to return again ( at least the ones near us). Was considering AFF, but now not so sure - anyone think swappernet is any better?

dutch51 · 12-19-2004, 09:59 AM

For us, AFF was always a waste of time and we tried it under a couple as well as singles. It just seemed like people weren't serious about doing anything whether it was meeting or even chatting. We have been on Swapper and had a lot of success there. We met quite a few couples and talked to even more on there. It's definitely better to become a paying member on Swappernet so you can continue to see the pics, but it is still possible to meet people without pics if you want to exchange them off-site. So far, we like Swing Lifestyle, but have only been on there a month. We have talked to several couples who seem interested about meeting; it's just hard to fit everyone's schedule together this month.

Anyway, good luck with your decision. Other people have had luck with AFF and if it's a guy you're looking for, you may do better than those looking for couples or females.

Kentucky · 12-20-2004, 06:29 AM

We've had success at AFF and swappernet. Swappernet seems to be a bit more user freindly, but I was not unhappy with AFF.

Denver2some · 12-20-2004, 10:57 AM

We've had lots of success of AFF. But you do need to be a paying member. We've met several nice couples there, and a few nice single men too. We have tried 3 sites now, and like AFF the best for the quantity of member in our area (more selection.) Sites can vary a lot by local area.

As with any site, there will be some people who aren't serious or pretending to be something they aren't (married cheaters pretending to be couples or "single" men) ... but we've learned to tell the difference easily. We have heard from some of our single guy friends that there are lots of fake single female ads on AFF in the 20-30 age range (they lead you to a pay web site.) But if you are looking for single men and couples, not single women, you should be fine.

mf69_98 · 12-20-2004, 12:16 PM

well we're looking for couples & single women, since wife already has a male lover. Sounds like swappernet might be a better route to go then. Have wondered if single women profiles are seeded in sites like that to attract paying customers. LIke the ones on Swing Lifestyle - they join & then never return.

ALilOEverything · 12-20-2004, 01:38 PM

We met a great couple from AFF and we like them so much it was well worth the money and time spent. We prefer Swing Lifestyle though and now that is the only one we use.

***JustAskJulie*** · 12-20-2004, 07:41 PM

If you are looking for single guys it is probably very good. If you are looking for couples then you should probably stick to sites that are more geared towards swingers like Swing Lifestyle, SexyAds, etc.

Chemistry_0518 · 12-21-2004, 12:21 AM

We've tried AFF briefly and as was mentioned before, you get absolutely nothing unless you pay for the full membership. As far as finding couples ins concerned Swing Lifestyle and Swappernet have been MUCH better, with Swappernet being more user friendly and getting better all the time.

Swingers2 · 12-21-2004, 04:59 AM

Hi,

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We have been running a singles dating site successfully for over 2 years and realised that there was not really any decent websites for the swingers community.

Just some basic input on what features you like/dislike on the current crop of swingers dating sites would be helpful.

Thanks alot!

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12-18-2004, 01:54 AM	#1 (permalink)
eroticsensation Here to Stay Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 76 Location: japan	Adult Friend Finder any good???? I am thinking about joining adult friend finder. I am interested in finding a guy for a MFM and also joining a couple for an MFM. Is Adult Friend Finder any good? Do you think they put up fake info to show they have a large list? or is it legit? anyone who uses it could you give me advice on how to use it? Thanks in advance!!

12-18-2004, 09:52 AM	#2 (permalink)
tracy1878 Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 96 Location: Central Ohio Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tracy1878	Re: Adult Friend Finder any good???? hubby and I were on there for a while when we first started exploring this lifestyle, but we were never very impressed. Then we moved to sexyads, and it was a better one, but still not much luck till we moved to Swing Lifestyle... we live in a town of about 15,000, and there were tons of people from our area on there, plus the other outlying areas. With AFF and SA, there weren't very many local people, but I think it just depends on where you live. If your in a big city, you probably won't have much trouble finding anyone on any of the major sites.

12-18-2004, 12:53 PM	#3 (permalink)
CuriousElders Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 22 Location: New England Status: C	Re: Adult Friend Finder any good???? We've used AFF with considerable success, along with Swing Lifestyle. You'll need to pay on AFF to get the information you need. We found AFF to be almost worthless unless you are a paid member.

12-18-2004, 02:23 PM	#4 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: Adult Friend Finder any good???? AFF isn't bad to get allot of responses fast, since many people are on it, especially single men looking for married couples. But the quality of the people we've met is better on Swing Lifestyle or Swappernet. It seems the folks paying for an ad on those sites are little more serious about the lifestyle. We've let our subscription to AFF lapse for that reason. Mr. WS
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12-18-2004, 10:25 PM	#5 (permalink)
mrsfreeway Active Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 14 Location: Pennsylvania Status: couple	Re: Adult Friend Finder any good???? What ever you do don't waste you time joining AFF. It's a waste of time and money if you are a paid member. We first joined Aff before we joined anyother sites. We never met anyone from there and never found anyone that was serious about swinging on that site. There was one girl that would string you along just so she could get pics and make the top 10 most viewed list. It's a rip off and you will never meet with anyone. We've talked to many people that were on AFF and they never had any luck what so ever. Save your time and moeny. We've been on so many site's I can't remember them all and the best we've found is Swing Lifestyle. Even on there you will find that most people are fakes but the one's that are not are great to meet with. We've met some really nice people on Swing Lifestyle and it's the best out there. Hope you find what your looking for, take care.

12-18-2004, 10:41 PM	#6 (permalink)
brew82 Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 36 Location: WI Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:brew82	Re: Adult Friend Finder any good???? We found our first couple on AFF and couldn't be happier.

12-19-2004, 03:46 AM	#7 (permalink)
mf69_98 Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 94 Location: Delaware, OH	Re: Adult Friend Finder any good???? Now we've been on Swing Lifestyle for a couple of years now & have met a couple of people that we had fun with, but the single women all seem to join & then disappear, never to return again ( at least the ones near us). Was considering AFF, but now not so sure - anyone think swappernet is any better?

12-19-2004, 09:59 AM	#8 (permalink)
dutch51 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 392 Location: Ohio Status: happily married	Re: Adult Friend Finder any good???? For us, AFF was always a waste of time and we tried it under a couple as well as singles. It just seemed like people weren't serious about doing anything whether it was meeting or even chatting. We have been on Swapper and had a lot of success there. We met quite a few couples and talked to even more on there. It's definitely better to become a paying member on Swappernet so you can continue to see the pics, but it is still possible to meet people without pics if you want to exchange them off-site. So far, we like Swing Lifestyle, but have only been on there a month. We have talked to several couples who seem interested about meeting; it's just hard to fit everyone's schedule together this month. Anyway, good luck with your decision. Other people have had luck with AFF and if it's a guy you're looking for, you may do better than those looking for couples or females.
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12-20-2004, 06:29 AM	#9 (permalink)
Kentucky Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 13 Location: KY Status: Single Male	Re: Adult Friend Finder any good???? We've had success at AFF and swappernet. Swappernet seems to be a bit more user freindly, but I was not unhappy with AFF.

12-20-2004, 10:57 AM	#10 (permalink)
Denver2some Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 261 Location: Denver, CO	Re: Adult Friend Finder any good???? We've had lots of success of AFF. But you do need to be a paying member. We've met several nice couples there, and a few nice single men too. We have tried 3 sites now, and like AFF the best for the quantity of member in our area (more selection.) Sites can vary a lot by local area. As with any site, there will be some people who aren't serious or pretending to be something they aren't (married cheaters pretending to be couples or "single" men) ... but we've learned to tell the difference easily. We have heard from some of our single guy friends that there are lots of fake single female ads on AFF in the 20-30 age range (they lead you to a pay web site.) But if you are looking for single men and couples, not single women, you should be fine.
	Last edited by Denver2some; 12-20-2004 at 12:21 PM.

12-20-2004, 12:16 PM	#11 (permalink)
mf69_98 Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 94 Location: Delaware, OH	Re: Adult Friend Finder any good???? well we're looking for couples & single women, since wife already has a male lover. Sounds like swappernet might be a better route to go then. Have wondered if single women profiles are seeded in sites like that to attract paying customers. LIke the ones on Swing Lifestyle - they join & then never return.

12-20-2004, 01:38 PM	#12 (permalink)
ALilOEverything A Little Of Everything Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 1,847 Location: Michigan Status: M. Female Swing Lifestyle Name:aliloeverything	Re: Adult Friend Finder any good???? We met a great couple from AFF and we like them so much it was well worth the money and time spent. We prefer Swing Lifestyle though and now that is the only one we use.
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12-20-2004, 07:41 PM	#13 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,288 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Adult Friend Finder any good???? If you are looking for single guys it is probably very good. If you are looking for couples then you should probably stick to sites that are more geared towards swingers like Swing Lifestyle, SexyAds, etc.

12-21-2004, 12:21 AM	#14 (permalink)
Chemistry_0518 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 158 Location: Suffern NY Status: female	Re: Adult Friend Finder any good???? We've tried AFF briefly and as was mentioned before, you get absolutely nothing unless you pay for the full membership. As far as finding couples ins concerned Swing Lifestyle and Swappernet have been MUCH better, with Swappernet being more user friendly and getting better all the time.
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