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This is a discussion on Answering a message from someone you already know (but they don't know you know them) within the Doing the Personals forums, part of the Finding People to Swing With category; We received a PM from a couple that we have played with before. They have no idea it's us. ...
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| Tell them it's us, laugh it off, move on |    | 20 | 42.55% |
| Protect your alias and avoid all potential awkwardness |    | 12 | 25.53% |
| Put on a feathered skirt and run around the block naked |    | 15 | 31.91% |
| Voters: 47. You may not vote on this poll | |||
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10-07-2004, 10:04 PM
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| Chimpin' Ain't Easy  Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? SLS Name:Spoomonkey  |  Answering a message from someone you already know (but they don't know you know them) We received a PM from a couple that we have played with before. They have no idea it's us. They are nice people, but there wasn't really any chemistry. I think they feel that way too - or at least they act that way at the club. They are friendly and huggy, but not flirtatious in "the way" you'd expect... My thought is reply with something like this: "LOL! Hey guys, It's us! Funny meeting you here! Hope you're having a great time and we'll see you sometime at the club." signed - us Mrs Spoomonkey thinks that we should send them a standard "no thanks" reply. To her, they don't know it is us, so no harm no foul... I figure they'll think it is funny too and not think twice about it. She thinks it might hurt their feelings if we are obviously not interested after such a serendipitous PM - and it could be uncomfortable at the club (since we WILL see them there) and it could "blow our cover" on the new ad site... We don't "not" answer PMs so we have to do something - and we figured we'd let you guys break the tie...  Spoomonkey
__________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis |
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10-07-2004, 10:12 PM
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| Posts: n/a | Re: Answering a PM - with a twist I voted optoin C.  Did they send you a PM through this board? If so I think your cover is already blown. They might not know who you are but they now know you know them. I think it would only be right to let them know who you are. Of course my whole post is moot (except for the running around in a feathered skirt part) if they did not PM you through this board. |
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10-07-2004, 10:18 PM
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| Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? SLS Name:Spoomonkey | Re: Answering a PM - with a twist Thanks for helping me clarify... No - they PMed us through a service that is specifically for meeting folks... No one has ever propositioned us here... (yeah, right...  )Spoomonkey
__________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis |
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10-07-2004, 10:26 PM
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| Here to Stay  Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 53 Location: NE Georgia Status: married male | Re: Answering a PM - with a twist I think you ought to PM them back and tell them that you are psychic swingers and go into detail about what they look like and other personal info, then tell them the visions so clear it's like you know them already. Well...maybe not really but it sounded pretty funny for a few minutes there. |
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10-07-2004, 10:29 PM
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| Mod Squad Member  Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,400 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times SLS Name:randp  | Re: Answering a PM - with a twist Quote:
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10-07-2004, 10:30 PM
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| Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? SLS Name:Spoomonkey | Re: Answering a PM - with a twist Quote:
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10-07-2004, 10:31 PM
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| Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? SLS Name:Spoomonkey | Re: Answering a PM - with a twist Quote:
Thanks, Frisky! Spoomonkey
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10-07-2004, 10:59 PM
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| Let's get comfortable...  Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 8,497 Location: On the couch Status: Married to Mr LM | Re: Answering a PM - with a twist I'm with Mrs Spoomonkey. Send your standard no-thank-you reply. I'm going to bed....good night all you flirts and prupozitioners.  LikeMinds321 |
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10-08-2004, 07:09 AM
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| Pure Evil..In a cute suit  Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 2,497 Location: Nova Scotia Status: Couple | Re: Answering a PM - with a twist Great....now I am going to be snickering all day at the thought of a naked monkey in a feather skirt running around the block....ofcourse if you are in a feather skirt you aren't naked are you......God I'm deep today...
__________________ "Well! Evil to some is always good to others." - Jane Austen Last edited by EvilMJ : 10-08-2004 at 10:56 AM. Reason: feather not grass |
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10-08-2004, 01:52 PM
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| Here to Stay  | Re: Answering a PM - with a twist Quote:
Ahhhhh....I kill myself. Sorry, had to vote for C. Like everyone else...the thought of a monkey runnin' around the block in a feathered skirt naked is just to much to pass up.Always remember honesty. They'll respect you more in the long run. D | |
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10-08-2004, 08:10 PM
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 49 Location: pa Status: couple | Re: Answering a PM - with a twist i picked the 3rd option but is it possible to have a skirt on and be nakid?
__________________ There is an estamated 2 million + swingers, now if only we could get them all together for a convention. Hmmm which state would we rent? |
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10-08-2004, 08:10 PM
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| Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? SLS Name:Spoomonkey | Re: Answering a PM - with a twist Quote:
Spoomonkey
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