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Old 10-15-2003, 01:48 PM   #76 (permalink)
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Interesting that you are not concerned about cock size for fucking, I thought that "larger" was better for the woman to "get off". I am pushing 8" myself and like to go deep, I also thought it was the motion in addition to size that helped the woman get off.

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I think every women is different....I like alot of clit stimulation along with penetraion. I also have gotten very good at my kegals....I can get myself off by just contracting my muscles in nice steady rhythm with no cock. But of coarse it's way better with a cock
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I think every women is different....I like alot of clit stimulation along with penetraion. I also have gotten very good at my kegals....I can get myself off by just contracting my muscles in nice steady rhythm with no cock. But of coarse it's way better with a cock
I have been hearing a lot about kegals lately, to my knowledge I have not had the pleasure of experiencing a kegal trained pussy... I imagine it is quite the experience.

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Old 10-16-2003, 10:16 PM   #78 (permalink)
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"I have been hearing a lot about kegals lately, to my knowledge I have not had the pleasure of experiencing a kegal trained pussy... I imagine it is quite the experience. "


It is. It's she's really on her game, she'll be milking you dry.
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I have been hearing a lot about kegals lately, to my knowledge I have not had the pleasure of experiencing a kegal trained pussy... I imagine it is quite the experience.

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I don't know about the man side of it but from my side of it, it's great!!!

My husband and I did an experiment last night. He went from using the largest dildo we have to his finger. I could still put the squeeze play on his fing after having the big dong

So ladies...Do your kegals!!!
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Men can do kegals as well to help preformance and staying power.

Think of the muscles you need to you use to cut off the flow when in the middle of the night instead of water hitting water you hear water hitting lid!



Think and concentrate on squeezing those muscles.
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I think it depends on the person and how they feel if you are secure in yourself no big deal if not then you shouldn't be here in the first place. To me size does not matter have been with all shapes and sizes as long as he knows how to use it hey who cares. Also my hubby does not seem to care if the guy I am with is bigger or smaller as long as We all have fun, and they treat me with respect.
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I have been hearing a lot about kegals lately, to my knowledge I have not had the pleasure of experiencing a kegal trained pussy... I imagine it is quite the experience.
It is. We played with a couple once, and she was an adept of the "Kegal Arts". Once we got to intercourse, I didn't last very long before popping my cork.
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I will have to ask the next time I am with my swinger friends if she has used the "kegal balls"...

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How exactly do you measure a penis? Where do you start and end? I've been wondering for awhile. Sounds like some of you have experience in this, since you know your measurements!
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Size does matter a little, but for me it is also about how the guy moves. If he has good rhythm, is secure with himself and knows what he wants, and isn't a slob in bed it all comes together.
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Well, let me chime in with something. This may sound a little selfish, but the name of the topic is "Do size matter to the guys", so here I go....

1) I have never had a woman reject me because of my average-sized penis.

2) I have never been able to have an orgasm because of my penis size.

As such, I would think the answer to the question would be a resounding "NO".
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How exactly do you measure a penis? Where do you start and end? I've been wondering for awhile. Sounds like some of you have experience in this, since you know your measurements!
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I would refer you to the diagram below. Please note that while some cocks are measured from A to B, and some are measured from C to D, there are those that really have to be measured from E to F.

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How exactly do you measure a penis? Where do you start and end? I've been wondering for awhile. Sounds like some of you have experience in this, since you know your measurements!
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Good question, I have always measured mine from the side or top. I am pushing 7.75"- 8". Not sure if there is a right or wrong way to measure.

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Measuring "C-to-D" appears to be cheating. I have yet to see a woman penetrated with a scrotum.

But I agree with Brit Pair about "E-to-F". I (unfortunately) know a couple of 6-foot penises. (Um, 1.8 meter-penises for our European friends)
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First of all, it would not bother me at all to swing with a guy who's bigger than me. In fact, I'd love to see the look on my wife's face when he's all the way in.

Second, vaginal volume does make a difference. Although I think bear_n_bunny could have put it more nicely, there are some women who just have more space to work in. My first girlfriend was one of these. When we had sex for the first and only time, I could have gone on indefinitely, because I just wasn't getting a lot of stimulation. Considering that it was my first time, it should have been over in a few minutes. With the reduced stimulation, I was able to go much longer. Nevertheless, this girl who, in her own words, had been with "lots of guys" was very pleased with my average length & girth (measured A to B, not C to D).

Also in reference to bear_n_bunny's post, is my own take on bleeding after sex. My wife and I worked opposite shifts for several years. We would have dry spells followed by passionate, Olympic-style sex. It wasn't unusual, after a bout of strenuous sex, for her to have some bleeding. Her gynocologist said it was nothing to worry about and that we should slow down and use more lubricant. She was on Depo-Provera at the time, which we believed reduced her own lubrication. Now that she's off the treatments, we have had no such problems. I have no problem believing any part of this story. In fact, if the woman was taking hormone treatments as a result of having a hysterectomy early in life, then reduced lubrication could have contributed to the bleeding.

For those that ask "why all the concern about size" I offer one explanation: for the same reason that women starve themselves to look like fashion models. Just as women have a falsly preconceived notion that all men want waifish women, men have a similarly preconceived notion that all women want a guy who is hung like a horse. The difference is that women can torture their bodies to conform to an unhealthy stereotype. All a guy can do, short of dangerous and often unsuccessful surgery, is to verbally and mentally obsess about the size of his penis. While women stress over the size of their hips, breasts or butts, we stress over the size of our cocks. It's that simple.

In most cases, the first time a young boy compares himself to other body types is in a locker room situation where the offending member is on display for comparison and contrast. Boys in a locker room don't tease boys about the size of their ears. They've seen ears all their life. What they haven't seen is each other's penises. All of a sudden "how fast can you run" or "how much weight can you lift" becomes "what a tiny pecker!". Locker room myths reinforce this stereotype as teenagers boast of things they've never done. Men in adult films and magazines have, until recently, always been of above average size. Since most of those films and magazines were created to please men, one can only assume that the majority of men also want to see guys with large penises. We are conditioned to correlate penis size with sexual prowess. Even today, most men in adult media tend toward the larger side of average. Add to this the sharp contrast among responses to the question "does size matter?", and the end result is inevitable: a gender totally obsessed with the size of our genitals.
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