Does size matter to the guys.

[PrtyinDuo]

As the M half of TheDuo,I have to admit to enjoying watching my lady having sex with another partner(F,or,M).And as long as she is enjoying it as well,size is of little importance to me.Mine is about 7" at best,but pretty thin.I have no prob hitting the back of her pussy when we fuck but readily accept the fact that a thicker dick 'can' bring her to orgasm at a faster rate.She doesn't like to admit it.(I think its 'cause she doesn't want to hurt my feelings,LOL) But only if she's comfortable with the person(s) that are involved.We have met cpls where the M was nicely hung but acted like an ass when things got going,and where the guy was no more than 5" and was a genuine 'real'person.The choice was obvious as to which cpl we would like to see again.And that goes for either sex also,but thats a different thread.Point being,as with the majority of the rest of you folks,the subject of the size of a mans penis being able to satisfy a woman depends on THAT woman and her compatibility with her partner.We've yet to meet a gal (or guy, ) who would have sex with a man 'they' thought was an asshole just because he was well endowed.For Free anyhow!

[magnum]

Originally posted by wiscpl
I have a question for the guys here. When you are swinging with other couples does the size of the man your woman is with determine if you keep swinging with them?

Reason I ask this is we swung with a couple whom we seemed to get along great with. After our first encounter we learned from his wife that he had asked about my size. She said while he had me in the girth department I was a bit larger in length. (I'm only slightly longer than average) From then out he didn't seem interested in swinging with us which showed in our second and final encounter.

Ladies your opinions count as much as the mens. What do you think?

It doesn't matter to me. The couple I swing with, I am a little longer and thicker than he, it does not matter to him either.

They asked me to swing with them because she wanted a BBC.

Magnum

[naughty A]

Originally posted by magnum
she wanted a BBC.

Magnum

okay, help me out... I checked Julies's dictionary...

and the acronym thread

and my dictionary of sex terms...

what's a * BBC? *

[windsor4fun2]

Originally posted by naughty A

what's a * BBC? *

British Broadcasting Corporation
Bi But Cute
Big Beautiful Cock

Just some suggestions.



Jesse

[magnum]

Originally posted by naughty A
okay, help me out... I checked Julies's dictionary...

and the acronym thread

and my dictionary of sex terms...

what's a * BBC? *

I have trouble with many of the internet acronyms too. BBC stands for "big black cock"

Magnum

[MattMann]

Originally posted by magnum
BBC stands for "big black cock"

Magnum

Isn't that redundant?

[alabamafuntonig]

or in my case

BIG BAMA COCK

lmao....

[BiCoupleTN69]

I think our guys are very sensitive to the size issue. I have had multiple men comment on it’s size in swing clubs. If it matter I am white.

I have been called a “circus freak” at the swing club we attend by male partners, that is not an uncommon response for me. At my 20th high school reunion, one guy I had played football with told his wife. “This guy has the biggest dick in the world.” I was shock that after 20 years that is the first comment he would make. One girl said to me after doing it the first time, “I did not know I would be a virgin again”

It’s over 9 inches, very large thick and large with a lot of mass. Yes, it is nice and women’s eyes often light up at the sight of it but there is a down side to it. The love to just hold it and feel the size.

1st) My girlfriend of over 2 years still gets sore.
2nd) I can have anal sex with very few people without hurting them, I often can‘t get the head in them much less the shaft.
3Rd) I have been refused by women based on my size.
4th) It took 3 months before my girlfriend could take me fucking her doggy style.
5Th) I have had no one get it all in their mouth and have never had a person that could make me cum orally.
6th) When I am very excited and extremely hard, very few women can be on top and not have it hurt to the point we have to stop.
7th ) It takes me a long time to build up to the sensation to cum.
8th) Male partners have told their females not to have intercourse with me because of my size.

So I think that answers your question, some people find it intimidating and other have no issue with it. It all depends on who is in the room.

[lovers]

"So I think that answers your question, some people find it intimidating and other have no issue with it. It all depends on who is in the room."

I would agree with that assessment. Personally I don't think I am hung like a donkey or anything, but I do attract a lot of attention at parties and swing clubs from women looking to be with a black man with what they perceive to be a big cock. Also I've come across the odd woman who is truly a "size queen" who wants the biggest cock she can find to (as one woman put it to me) "hurt her good."

Maybe the male half of BiCoupleTN69 might want to try looking some of those women up.

[ki2urhrt]

unfortunately gerth/size does matter if....your swinging partner is "Pencilsize" than gerth/size does matter. My man is no Superman, but he is average size 6 and gerth size of a 50 cent coin. We shared a wonderful time with our playcouple prior to, but as we became more intimate I could not concentrate on anything other than my partners gerthsize. His wife was completely satisfied as she rode my husband like a bucking bronco until she finally screamed with pleasure. Watching my husband and his wife was completely satisfying. I did not want to be mean and I rode my partner until he came and thanked him polietly.

[customhardtail]

I find this a very interesting discussion. My husband and most of the other men we have played with have been of average size, 5" to 6" give or take. This last weekend we played with a single male friend that tops out at the 9" range. I had no problem taking him, but the next day my jaw was so sore I could barely open my mouth. Anyway, it really turn my husband on to see me deep throat a penis that large. I didn't think I could do it, but I did

I know this subject is more about vaginal fucking. Size isn't that important to me, I like them all. However, I perfer the average. Not for the way it fills me, but it helps to get my clit hitting their stomach or balls. That's more of a turn on for me. The bigger ones I don't get the clit stimlation

As far as women sizes, my husband has commented that most the women we've met feels like he's throwing the weanie down the hall or fucking slush. Me, I do my kegals...daily....a couple dozen times a day. Hubby says he can feel me squeezing his cock when it's inside and that I get a tight grib on things. It's a challenge for me to be tight around any size of dick that comes my way.

[magnum]

Originally posted by customhardtail
I find this a very interesting discussion. My husband and most of the other men we have played with have been of average size, 5" to 6" give or take. This last weekend we played with a single male friend that tops out at the 9" range. I had no problem taking him, but the next day my jaw was so sore I could barely open my mouth. Anyway, it really turn my husband on to see me deep throat a penis that large. I didn't think I could do it, but I did

I know this subject is more about vaginal fucking. Size isn't that important to me, I like them all. However, I perfer the average. Not for the way it fills me, but it helps to get my clit hitting their stomach or balls. That's more of a turn on for me. The bigger ones I don't get the clit stimlation

As far as women sizes, my husband has commented that most the women we've met feels like he's throwing the weanie down the hall or fucking slush. Me, I do my kegals...daily....a couple dozen times a day. Hubby says he can feel me squeezing his cock when it's inside and that I get a tight grib on things. It's a challenge for me to be tight around any size of dick that comes my way.

Interesting that you are not concerned about cock size for fucking, I thought that "larger" was better for the woman to "get off". I am pushing 8" myself and like to go deep, I also thought it was the motion in addition to size that helped the woman get off.

You learn something new evey day.

Cheers

[Brit_Pair]

Originally posted by magnum
Interesting that you are not concerned about cock size for fucking, I thought that "larger" was better for the woman to "get off" . . .

You learn something new evey day.

And there was I (and others I suspect) thinking that "skilled" and "considerate" were better for the woman to "get off".

[alabamafuntonig]

ditto brit..."just becouse you own a bigger hammer dont mean you can bang nails any better"

---john holms bama---

[Brit_Pair]

"Just because you own a bigger hammer, don't mean you can even see the nail to begin with."