Does size matter to the guys.

Bear and Bunny brought up an interesting point I think, although I have no scientific knowledge as to why a woman feels 'looser' (for the lack of a better term). I certainly don't know if that's just the way they are or if it is cause they've had a lot of sex.

It seems like a double standard, or as if it's a certain taboo in the world where it's a very normal conversation to talk about a mans penis size but there's never a mention of how tight a woman is.

I'm sure lots of woman like a nice 9 incher... but it's not much fun for guys when it feels like there having sex with a bucket of water...

just a thought.

[BodyScape02]

It seems I have started a new club without intending to! The more the better... I must say one thing you all kind of missed my point.

It is not so much the size that is an issue for me, as we have been with couples were the men were in the under seven club and had a grand time.

It is the issue of misrepresentation.

A man who is of average length but a great kisser/ lover is a pleasure to be with. For me it was more an issue of expecting the diversion of playing with a certain toy and being sent photos that represented this…then being lied to in more than one way. One was a horrible kisser to boot and was just wailing away when he got his chance using the hand on one of my breasts to put his whole body weight on. I admit to being spoiled (by my lover) and to shamelessly preferring to remain so.

Now that I think about it the two distasteful experiences were with single men. Perhaps that has something to do with it? But then again that is another thread to be posted (lol). Either way I think we have all gotten off the track of the original thread.

The gentleman was concerned he did something wrong by being larger than the couples husband, and wanted to know if size was an issue for some men (or women) when it came to choosing who to swing with. I think we all have to realize that the only relationship that really means anything is the one with our partners. The rest is just “play” transient and temporary. Her husband may well have felt threatened or you may have been too big for the wife to comfortably handle (anal or otherwise). It is their issue. Relax and have fun.

All of this is like a party with lots of toys to choose from and lots of people to dance with and all of us are looking for whatever it is we are hungry for at the moment. We all have preferences and those preferences change constantly. I don’t let it get my panties in a twist if someone doesn’t want to play with me. I may be too big, too small, too brunette or too tall. Then again…I may be just right! And when its right…its fun! I don’t make a big deal out of being rejected because I don’t fit others current preferences…

[alabamafuntonig]

How did I miss this thread! Well frankly I am usually relieved when I meat some one that is my size. If they are larger I’m just usually impressed. Everyone knows size is a psychological issue affecting a mans ego. (Unless they are extremely endowed 10+) us men always want to be the biggest on the block . Some men just realize they are not and that bruises there “tiny “little macho fantasy they conger up at an early age of them being the only one who can please a women .

[M&B]

"All of this is like a party with lots of toys to choose from and lots of people to dance with and all of us are looking for whatever it is we are hungry for at the moment. We all have preferences and those preferences change constantly. I don’t let it get my panties in a twist if someone doesn’t want to play with me. I may be too big, too small, too brunette or too tall. Then again…I may be just right! And when its right…its fun! I don’t make a big deal out of being rejected because I don’t fit others current preferences…"

That is the best way of saying it I have read yet.. It's fun!

Individual preferences are very personal and very individual, not to be too redundant. No one has a right to tell another that their own personal preference is wrong. Personal preferences are ALWAYS right.

And hey, if Mrs BodyScape02 wants to occasionally stray onto my side of the tracks and play with an Under 7 Club member, it just might be my pleasure to welcome her.

[BodyScape02]

And hey, if Mrs BodyScape02 wants to occasionally stray onto my side of the tracks and play with an Under 7 Club member, it just might be my pleasure to welcome her.

A great kisser is always appreciated.

Just to allow everyone to laugh at all this I will share my favorite joke(s). The first part I heard somewhere, the second and third...I made up. It puts it all in perspective though. PS give me credit if you use these anywhere …

With affection ,
~Cat of Bodyscape02


*Three words for very very small?
~Is it in?


*One word for very large?
~OUCH!

* Three words for just purffect?
~Oh ...my...GOD...(repeated over and over and over)

[CHAMPAGNE DAVE]

My girl freind and I just had this converstioin last night , while we have only been together for about a year we have known each other for about four years. anyway while she has been pleased in the past with other men ( or so she thought) She said the feeling of being completly full and also the ability to hit the real deep spots have pushed her over the edge many times. her exact comment was I never new i could cum that hard and for so long. the only problem is somtimes if shes on top her stomach tends to hurt oh and we have already trashed 3 matterass's

Dave & Denise

[ciscosv]

My wife is exactly like the female half of OhioCouple on the subject. Anything too huge and she will have to turn it down. Painful intercourse would suck. But I dont have a cervix so I cant really tell you what it feels like other than I am told it is rather painful when I hit it. It is her choice as far as I am concerned.

Am I intimidated, jealous, or envious of the male half of another couple overshadows my toothpick? Not at all. We are interested in swinging with people, not from their penises!

[wolfmaiden]

Size does matter to me. I like a big head on a penis. It is fun to suck and play with. It also feels good on penitration. I love to feel the head when it swells and it is about to blow.

[yawanna]

of the way the female genitalia (AKA pussy ) is 'designed', all the sensory nerve endings being within two inches into the Vagina, any perceived greater sence of pleasure from a larger penis is purely psychological.

Actually, I think it's not so much "girth" per se, but rather the ability to properly hit that G spot that's up inside there.

These quotes are partly correct in my estimation.

I have two, yes TWO g-spots inside...one 2 inches in, the other at the sides of my cervix. The 2 inches in one needs manual stimulation for maximum results, the ultimate being ejaculation. A banana-bent penis (as an earlier poster called it) gives a bit of extra stimulation there when utilized for that. The cervix one needs, yes, an average or longer penis to be effective.

About 4 of the men I've been with have been larger men, 9 and 10", and I have to agree they all just pound away and 2 of them would move me into different positions, but it was still pounding away time. Maybe there wasn't enough 'wiggle' room? but I do appreciate a little creativity with the in and out. I consider everything that isn't ultimately banging me deep inside, as foreplay, thus my size preference.

As for large, loose vaginas......I knew a man who overheard 2 men discussing a woman who was, they said, like fucking a bucket of water. This man practically fainted on the spot and considered asking for the woman's name and #, as he loves nothing better than that.

[DevilzAdvokit]

Just my kind of topic.

Men and women both come in different sizes.
Over 90% of men are between 5 and 7 inches.
If you go over this or fall under this then you are abnormal.

Most women have comfortable snug feeling vaginas to men who fall within normal limits.
But there are some women who suffer from vaginal deviancies that can leave them tighter than normal or larger than normal.
There are varying degrees of deviancy ranging from a little more spacious or little more snug to insertion is difficult/painful to I could park my Hummer in there.
There isnt a single body part that doesnt come in a variety of sizes. It's just easier to point out on a male. Of course a woman
is more than likely going to be a size queen if that is the only way
they can achieve a sense of fullness. But that doesnt mean all women who want a big cocks have a horse pussy either.

But on the other hand I'm between 6.5 and 7 and almost every girl I've been with has had to back up if I become overzealous.
And the ones who didnt ranged from somewhat to definately bigger down there.

The funny thing is that some of the women on this board finally got to have a taste of having the size of their primary sexual organ brought into question in a less than flattering fashion. So next time you refer to someone you have slept with as "diminuitive" they might be out with their buddies comparing your genitalia to something less than flattering as well.

The Devil

"He said horse pussy"

Butthead

[nwin_bifemcpl]

SIZE does matter to most women despite what they say. Even if your pussy is tight, a 3 inch penis can't possibly satisfy your urge. But, an extremely large penis can have the same effect. It's kinda like a double edged sword to me. My husband has about a 7 incher with nice gurth, and it's just right!

[gsu22]

A man's penis can be a fascinating thing...lol ......just look at the great responses on this subject. I have to say that I think my 6.5 incher is an "ok" size. When I see other dicks bigger than mine I'm very impressed because I think that when you get in the 7 inch range and up...now those are big ones in my opinion.

I've been told by women that its not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean. Personally, i think it just depends on the person........some say it matters, some say it doesn't.........hey, if your happy, who cares?!?

[shadesofgrey69]

Originally posted by everlast
....any perceived greater sence of pleasure from a larger penis is purely psychological.

As for us... why would you get jealous... I think I'd prefer to video tape:evil:

You are wrong here. I am well hung and I can tell you from my own experiences that many women have gotten more pleasure from my length. I had a girlfriend that has a hard time climaxing with most men....but with me her orgasm starts due to her cervix being stimulated. I can make her climax multiple times in a short period of time. I have also had other women say that they climax more and harder when I "hit bottom".
A large size can also have it's drawbacks as I have tried to have sex with a few women but couldn't get it in within hurting both of us.
My wife tells me that she would have never had sex with me the first night if she had seen my size ahead of time. Now she can't climax with small men.

[StacyCat]

I like bigger cocks, but its more important for me to like who they are attached to :-)

It also depends on the position. I have a very good lover thats about 6 inches, that is able to bottom out on me with me on top, he feels wonderful doggy style. Ive been with a few longer men that I wouldnt do doggy style with, because it really hurts (but my best friend loves that) Missionary doesnt seem to have either of those problems. My best sex was with a guy that was about the size and dimensions of a coke can. He got the condom on, entered me soft, then got hard in me :-) Mmmm, was that wonderful sex!

[Brit_Pair]

Originally posted by StacyCat
My best sex was with a guy that was about the size and dimensions of a coke can.

Must have been hard on the sheets when you finally pulled his ring tab!