Does size matter to the guys.

[lynn3]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by tinceltoes
[B]Size does matter to me...... lately with the past 3 men I only got oral because the men were too small to perform otherwise down below. I guess I was lucky to get that.

This is a really strange statement to me...... Did you mean to say that the last 3 men were impotent ? Because to say that 3 men in a row were "too small to perform" has got to be a mix-up on words. Or maybe you just prefer a really large sized penis, and did not want these men to have intercourse with you......At any- rate, I found it to be a confusing statement and am trying to understand this.

[Misty&Todd]

I really dont think size matters to me, its more how they use it.

[TNT]

Size to me is really not an issue at all.

Unless the size is extremely big, and I'm talking about so large that it is physically impossible to have any kind of insertion (which I personally have never seen) it all feels good.

I have been with men who were extremely small as well as what would be considered as very, very well endowed and they have all felt wonderful.

After all...a finger feels damn good so why would a small penis feel any less good.

Teresa ....A woman who likes them all

I don't put a whole lot of faith into studies and research and all that... you know one day coffee will cure cancer the next it causes it.

But for what its worth the last 'Scientific' study that I read on the subject concluded that because of the way the female genitalia (AKA pussy ) is 'designed', all the sensory nerve endings being within two inches into the Vagina, any perceived greater sence of pleasure from a larger penis is purely psychological.

As for us... why would you get jealous... I think I'd prefer to video tape:evil:

[lovers]

My wife denies that she's a size queen, but she is often disappointed if a guy is anything less than 5 inches or isn't thick. The last couple of guys she's been with haven't "measured up" in her opinion and she's come away from the encounters not having as much fun as she could have.

So to sum it up, I think it depends on the woman.

[Perseus]

Originally posted by lovers
My wife denies that she's a size queen, but she is often disappointed if a guy is anything less than 5 inches or isn't thick. The last couple of guys she's been with haven't "measured up" in her opinion and she's come away from the encounters not having as much fun as she could have.

So to sum it up, I think it depends on the woman.

Now that is an honest answer... I see these couples looking for 'well hung guys' and I shy away... I am better then average, but I am not huge... Maybe I shouldn't shy away from them... *shrug*

Perseus

[Nymph an' Satyr]

Originally posted by Brit_Pair
It's because we're afraid of the reaction we might provoke if someone takes our ogling to mean that we'd like a slice.

Exactly!!! Here is male psychology 101 ladies!

[Ashley]

When we go to the clubs, L is always pointing out to me the guys with big cocks. I keep telling him that doesn't matter to me. I think it's because his former g/f was a size queen and so he just assumes all women must be. Actually my favorite cock is his and the only thing special about it is the man it's attached to.

[dayhiker]

Originally posted by jen
The size of his heart counts.

jen, is that the size of the head on his shoalders
or the size of the head on this dick? I know some like
an extra large head on a guys dick!

[jen]

Wow Day,

Your very first Swingers Board post and you quoted me!

Should I feel flattered? No wait, don't answer that.

Squeeze!

[mopek]

I am re-posting what I wrote not long ago in another thread that was moved.

Well I agree with Azwildcat that some say it's not that important when it may be....

But I think Roxy nailed it when she said it's GIRTH not length that counts. It doesn't take much more than 4 inches to fully penetrate a vagina so that means that most guys are adequate in the length department. It's silly that they/we all want 10+inches when 6 are enough.

I believe that size(girth) may matter performance-wise. Having a thicker penis does 2 things to help performance. 1 - it stretches fills a woman more completely allowing for more area being stimulated and more easily creating an orgasmic plateau = she will cum faster. 2- Because of #1 ... the man will not have to thrust so much to bring the woman to orgasm which means he will last longer ....

That is my belief about size from a strictly performance standpoint. Using that variable ALONE , it does matter. But there are MANY other variables that have an effect on the whole outcome of a sexual encounter.

- Some women can't take bigger than average
- the man's attitude and character matter alot more and vice-versa for women
- comfort
- cleanliness
etc....

just my 2 cents...

mopek

[BodyScape02]

Hmmmm, this is the male half of the profile here and I thought I would add my .02 cents. The size of the other male doesn't ever bother me. I can't say as I compare myself to them or really care.

She, on the other hand, does have an interest in larger sized males. She has been hoping to meet (or should I say, "meat!") a male of comparable size or larger than I. ((I don't think I'm that large, but have been measured by quite a few of my lady friends since I was 16 years old at 8". I have never measured it myself and really don't know why the women who have done so did measure me.))

In our search of partners to play with, we have met a few very kind, intelligent men with senses of humor. In the vast numbers of single males that can contact you, we've been lucky to meet the cool ones we have. The ONLY catch has been they have, one and all, miss-represented themselves in the area of size. We had one guy who's nude body shot was NOT him, one who was seemingly enormous (I have to admit, even I was impressed) but it turned out he was just a very tiny man with tiny hands and an average (i.e. ~ 5") cock. The 1st we invited home was a bit smaller but he went limp suddenly. Now, this is HER theory, it happened when she took both of us in hand and held them to either side of her face as she knelt in front of us. She said as soon as she did that he deflated...she thinks he may have been intimidated by me but I don't know...I think it was just too much too soon for him.

The 3 single males we've tried to play with all had problems in maintaining an erection to one degree or another. The result being that she thought at first it was her, which is silly because she is stunning. I still think it was just a combo of bad luck and the men being in an odd situation.

So, in answer: for the male here....no problem either way. For her: at least 7"....

[Bob123]

I have read alot of women on all types of places on the internet say that it is girth that matters and not length. So how do men measure up when it comes to girth? What is average? What is small what is above average? Do you like when they are perfectly round or ones that are kind of flat? What I mean is mine is like almost two inches wide and measured from the top and like one and a half inches wide measured from the side. Know what I mean? I don't know if I am explaining it right. Also do women like when it is bendy like a banana? I would think they would cause I would think it would make it feel wider than it is.

[teknurse]

Size has never mattered to me. I am usually only concerned with stamina and technique. I have never met a man too small but I have met some too large to enjoy.

Tinceltoes perhaps you might want to try some kegal exercises and that average sized man will feel alot larger or bring some large toys with you to assist in the experience.

[bear_n_bunny]

I think the thing that a lot of people do not take into account in this matter is the fact that women are just like men, in that they come in all shapes and sizes. That is, her cylinder size, just like the guy's piston size, can also vary widely (or wildly, as the case may be....

I have the archetypal "average" 6" cock, with "average" thickness. Even so, I have had very few complaints. And in my travels (and this covers the few women who have complained about my, um, shortcomings, along with quite a few others), I have learned that women for whom "size matters" are those who fall in the categories of "the only STD you can get from her is windburn", "you can drive the Sixth Fleet through her and not scrape paint", "better strap a 2x4 across your ass to keep from falling in", etc. So it is for this reason what whenever I see the ads calling for a stud who is packing the Dick of Death, I know it's because she has a bottomless pit for a twat that most of us mere mortals would just rattle around in like pebbles in a tin can.

Also, that business about "girth" is not necessarily always true. The last lifestyle party I attended had a new couple present who were just getting started. I ended up in the group bed with the woman and about a half dozen other people, including her husband. After initially partaking of her rather tasty pussy, I got her into the doggy position and proceeded to give her the high hard one. Talk about a hot fuck, she was it. She wanted it hard, fast and deep, pushing back into me as much as I was pushing into her, and she was howling at the moon the whole time, cumming like a machine gun. We hit our crescendo, both having mind-blowing and very noisy cums at the end, completing a most pleasurable interlude. We put on quite a show, as everyone else had stopped what they were doing and were just watching in amazement. I pull out and get rather shakily to my feet, and notice that the end of my condom is bloody. She gets up too and I tell her quietly that she may want to check herself as it looks like she was starting her period. She replied that, no, she had that taken care of years ago. I point to my bloody condom and say, "I wonder what caused that, then?" She then replies, in a voice that everyone could hear, that I was the first man to be that far inside her in seventeen years (turns out I was her first fuck as a swinger), and that it was fantastic, thank you very much, etc. I glanced over at her husband, who had been watching all this as well. He was laying there like a little toad, on his back, staring at me, with his maybe 4" cock pointing at the ceiling, and if looks could have killed, I would have been dead and buried on the spot. His tool was clearly thicker than mine, but it was also made clear that he had never made her cum like that in the seventeen years that they had been married, as I had with my thinner but longer implement.

Actually, I think it's not so much "girth" per se, but rather the ability to properly hit that G spot that's up inside there.

Just my two cent's worth...