Does size really matter?

[OhioCouple]

J & K,

Wish I would have waited another day to read your post and then I could have just said....

DITTO!

Lori

[Additude]

What I usually say is, "Honey, I may not be long...but I'm built like a beer can"!

No complaints from the ladies ever. More compliments than not.

Size of dick is to some what large breasts are to others. I consider it a personal thing and not something that should be a consus judgement.

If you do, you do. If you don't, then you don't.

[2New2it]

We have a slightly different slant on this.

My wife has had a man with about 10 inches and average thickness. She said it was extremely painful and says my 7 inches is about right for length. She might be able to handle 8, but that's it. What she has never had is a really thick penis and she keeps hoping to find one attached to a man she is attracted to.

We are not promiscuous and are only interested in threesomes, so we make a point of asking for a nude photo before we decide to meet her playmate. We have seen photos that look great and by the time they get into bed, the advertised thick 8-incher is a modestly-thick 6 inches.

Short of asking for photos with a ruler, we are lost for a way to deter disappointment before getting in bed.

[Flori_DAMAN]

The well endowed men really need to know how to use half of it when neccessary. That technique took me a while to learn, but the biggest problem I have with it is that somtimes small women want me to really push hard at the last moment. It is painful to me to ejaculate into a "wall" so to speak.

It isn't penis size, its the whole package that counts.

Being well endowed, I certainly have had my fair share of compliments on that subject, and it really seems like the guys that watch me with their wives get off on it more than the wives do...size concerning.

I get many more compliments on my gentle love making techniques though.

I try to let the woman tell me which way to go. Some like it very hard and very fast. I don't go for that. Some like it slow and with an increasing beat until the "moment". I like that.

I have though mastered the technique of using as much as is appropriate and have been shocked at how even as much as I have to offer doesn't seem like enough sometimes. It is because I just can't thrust for hours on end. I have a back that won't allow it. I try to make up for it by using long foreplay and lots of positions because using the same position seems to aggravate my back if i do repeated thrusts.

Oh well, size counts but so does the whole picture. Im kinda happy that I got my big ole dong in the long run cuz I can use as much of it as I want to.

LOL JOhn.

[Chicup]

I'm about 6 inches which is 'average' but a bit bigger in girth then most and that seems to make women very happy. Most women I know have answered that girth is more important than length (within limits).

[Flori_DAMAN]

My only point was that size does count. Whether its small, fat, long or short.

John.

[Sweetdevil]

Philosophically speaking, size does matter. But we are dealing with reality and most women do not want "Mr. Big Dick" all the time. My wife and other women have constantly stated, "...a big dick is good every now and then, but not all time, nor most of the time. It just good to have a big one every now and then."

So, now we have to deal with "what is a big dick?" It is relative to the individual woman preference. Some women like length over girth, some like girth over length, there are some who like both girth and length, and some like medium for all the different type of sex they can have. So philosophically, size does matter but it depends on the woman's sexual desires and needs.

[Flori_DAMAN]

Originally posted by Sweetdevil
Philosophically speaking, size does matter. But we are dealing with reality and most women do not want "Mr. Big Dick" all the time. My wife and other women have constantly stated, "...a big dick is good every now and then, but not all time, nor most of the time. It just good to have a big one every now and then."

So, now we have to deal with "what is a big dick?" It is relative to the individual woman preference. Some women like length over girth, some like girth over length, there are some who like both girth and length, and some like medium for all the different type of sex they can have. So philosophically, size does matter but it depends on the woman's sexual desires and needs.

It heals my heart to know that I am wanted even if its "every now and then", lol.

JOhn.

[LadyandLordAro]

My ego that is

Lil guy seems to be very happy with his size, and I have never had a complaint about leaving a woman unsatisfied. ( maybe they were just nice..I really have no clue )

I think the only way a bigger cock wouold improve my life would be the fact that i would be more desoreable as a porn star..after I lost a few lbs of course lol.

By the way..the wife says most men with a big cock have only that going for them..they have no clue how to use it

[Flori_DAMAN]

Originally posted by LadyandLordAro
My ego that is

Lil guy seems to be very happy with his size, and I have never had a complaint about leaving a woman unsatisfied. ( maybe they were just nice..I really have no clue )

I think the only way a bigger cock wouold improve my life would be the fact that i would be more desoreable as a porn star..after I lost a few lbs of course lol.

By the way..the wife says most men with a big cock have only that going for them..they have no clue how to use it

Well, I'd make a lousy porn star, but as far as knowing how to use it, that depends more on the size of the organ between the ears than the one between the legs IMHO.

John.

[JustAskJulie]

Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN
I have an enormous penis.


John

Ok John, I want proof! :p

[babydragon]

I will firstly say, I am not trying to flame anyone nor belittle any male here, I just think you need to get over yourselfs.

Men in general seem to foget that a woman has no real nerve ending inside the vagina, our nerve ending are at the opening and for mabye a couple of inches inside.

Your right a huge cock might attract some woman but from my own experience, I have to say no thanks, sex is suppoded to be fun not painful. I am 5'5 and after 4 kids, anything over 7 inches is extremely painful. At the time I didn't think anything of it, but I realised afterwards that I had been unable to grip the cock with my muscles Like i do with my own hubby. The man was really understanding about it all and even took it as a compliment, but for me, I was in major pain the next day.

So yes size does matter, but not the way you think. I'd say nine out of ten ladies here would state, if given a choice that they would prefer someone with girth more than lenght. I would love to find a nice thick one but if you put anything over 7 inches I'll start to cringe .

Everywoman's body is different, yeah maybe your wife can take 10inches maybe she can only take 5inches. but at the end of the day if your SO can satifiy you who cares????

[J & K]

BabyDragon--you must of read my post here and it came from a male writing it---hehehehe---me.

[babydragon]

Originally posted by J & K
BabyDragon--you must of read my post here and it came from a male writing it---hehehehe---me.

I did read it lol, I was not going against you, just stating it from a woman's point of view, which I believe is just as valid as a males point of view???

[Flori_DAMAN]

Julie

Yeah I have proof.

you little shit.

I just posted this to stir up the pot because us guys with large members are really put down sometimes.

Some of actually know how to use it. And like I said I even know how to use half of it...or if necessary less....its all in the technique.

Now and therefore....i would gladly post it for you right here on the sight but I for one would not like my daughter seeing it, so I will send you a personal photo and you can just tell me if its enormous.

I am really charged up by this conversation though.

I see a lot of super defensiveness concerning this subject.
Hey I do have an enormous cock.

I get tired of people saying that isn't a part of SOME peoples desires.

Its like if your well hung you must be bad at lovemaking, or you should never disclose the fact.

HAHA I Did. I have an enormous cock AND I know how to use it so there!! If you like little cocks then thats cool though.

John.....Julie, tell us all what you think anyhow......lmfao

Johh.