Does size really matter?

[Flori_DAMAN]

LOL....I have never heard that one Julie. I recently lost 25 lbs. Im gonna go grab my ruler LMAO.

[JustAskJulie]

Well if you think about it, it really makes sense. As the fat around your dick builds up, less of it will actually be sticking out.... so if you remove that fat....more dick.

[ILcouple]

julie that would explain this one guy i went out with i had more girth and legnth in my pinky finger than he did and he was a big boy but im not knocking those with smaller dicks i find that if you know how to use it there are always ways to get around the size issue. And a smaller one is great for dp.

[JustAskJulie]

I totally agree with ya there. I've had a couple of pinky sized boys that got me off quite nicely. They knew how to use what they had. In one case he was a big guy and I couldn't help but wonder if he'd have a couple more inches if he'd lost that weight, but I didn't wonder for long. Oddly enough the other small one was a very skinny black guy (so much for stereotypes).

[pelagic argosy]

I was lucky enough to hook up with four well hung strangers at a bar last weekend. The first guy was very thick. He lubed me up with some spit, then rammed the whole thing inside me with one long push as hard as he could. I spent the rest of the night helping them work through their gang rape fantasies, on my hands and knees getting pounded, deep throating, and getting filled up with come. It was dripping out of me while I was getting fucked. When they were done, they kicked me out because I wanted more and they were worn out.

[Ana]

I just finished reading the question that Corinne asked, and it helped me get past some issues, I'm one of those guys who's of ave size and thickness, whose told his wife MORE than once that I wish I was a couple of inches longer/wider, but she has told me more than once that I satisfy her, but still worry that if she gets a bigger dick will he satisfy in a way I'll never be able to do, I guess time will tell.

[gambit]

This is probably one of the most frequently asked questions on the net, and that's a shame, because it's really a pointless question. Penis size is important if and only if you think it is. If you have sex with men and you desire a large penis, then penis size is important to you, and only to you. If you feel your penis should be larger, then penis size is important to you, and only to you.
Many women report that too many men are hung up on the size of their penises. The vagina is only eight to thirteen centimeters long, and even a small penis can touch every square centimeter within the vagina.

Do not worry about the size of your penis.
Let's look at it this way. You don't worry about the size of your feet, do you? They are relatively well proportioned to the rest of your body and serve the task for which they were intended. Whether you believe in evolution or God or something else. Your feet serve their purpose quite well. The penis is the same way. It is "designed" to fit in a vagina and assist in the propagation of the species, period. Wishing to have a penis which is an inch or two longer is purely vanity.

Many women say that they too prefer larger penises; however, they too are often speaking from vanity rather than practicality. Once they have experienced the pain of a forcefully thrust penis hitting their cervix they soon desire a more moderately sized penis. In fact, most woman and men, for that matter, don't even know how large a "normal" size penis is. They just know that it should be larger. This is a sure sign that they don't know what they are talking about.

So don't worry about the size of the penis. Just have fun with it.

[Ang101]

Ok. One of my biggest pet peeves is girls who say that if a woman says that size doesn't matter, then they are lying. I personally don't think that size matters. And I am not lying. I have been with many different size guys and have gotten pleasure from all. I don't think that a few "size queens" should speak for all women. I'm not judging anybody. If you like big dicks, that's your thing, more power to ya! I'm one of those girls who just loves them all! I don't have a question or anything. Just wanted to get that off my chest!

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[BiloxiCouple]

Come on down to Biloxi!

[Flori_DAMAN]

Originally posted by Ang101
Ok. One of my biggest pet peeves is girls who say that if a woman says that size doesn't matter, then they are lying. I personally don't think that size matters. And I am not lying. I have been with many different size guys and have gotten pleasure from all. I don't think that a few "size queens" should speak for all women. I'm not judging anybody. If you like big dicks, that's your thing, more power to ya! I'm one of those girls who just loves them all! I don't have a question or anything. Just wanted to get that off my chest!

:evil:

I have an enormous penis.

It has been a factor in my life. Not only from the girls that seem to like it but from the guys that seem to like watching here lady take it.

At swing clubs I have gotten a whole different response before dress down and after dress down.

My love life has been affected by this. Even though I'm broke sometimes the ladies sure like it.

Swingers like big dicks. Swingers also like a lot of other things.
For us fortunate enough to have a really really big dick we get tired of hearing how size doesn't matter.

Generally we go out of our way to avoid the subject.

But every once in a while you gotta know it gets to us.

Women can flaunt there shit anywhere they go.

When I'm not hard my dick is like 3 inches. When I go to the beach no one knows. When I'm at a party absolutely know one would have any idea how large my penis is.

Women have it made in the shade. It doesn't matter how you dresss, if your good looking everyone can see it. That doesn't make you pussy any better, but it sure makes you attractive.

WHy is it that when women make love to me they just can't get over how HUGE I am?

Then they will say to anyone around them that "size doesn't matter".

The husbands are worse than the wives. Once they see me hard they want to see their wives get me.

I guess its a man thing. HAHAHA.....just kidding cuz females love to have a big one now and then. Its a fantasy for them too guys.

But, for a balding old guy that doesn't even have sex I think from past experience that size counts. Not for everyone, but for quite a few. For swingers its just a temporary thing though. I sure won't dismiss it though.

John

[Ang101]

So do you think that maybe guys are more concerned with penis size than women, because they think that is what women want? For me personally, I am more concerned with if we are attracted to eachother and comfortable with eachother than if he has a huge dick.

[Michcouple]

When it comes to swinging I think that size can matter.....Bigger or smaller

That doesn't mean that bigger is better. It does mean it's something different from what your partner is used too.

We have trade off with many couples where the "other man" was bigger than myself. Where has my partner enjoyed being with someone bigger.....the "other woman" enjoyed being with someone smaller.

Yes there are a few "size queen's" out there....but I serious think they are the minority.

Just my two cents.

[Alura]

Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN

Generally we go out of our way to avoid the subject.

Then they will say to anyone around them that "size doesn't matter".

John

In our limited experience, two of the guys we played with had big cocks. Neither one told us about it beforehand, while we were in the "discussion stage." One claimed 9.5 inches and looked like it was true. Mrs. Alura insisted the other guy was larger, but she had no trouble accomodating either. I don't know if her height would be a factor or not; she's 5'9". She certainly seemed to enjoy both!

She still says "size doesn't matter." She's usually noisy during her climaxes but she seemed a bit louder than normal to me with both men. It may not matter, but she sure had a good time!

Mr. Alura

[J & K]

"J" here the male half of "K"

Well I hear size. Is that length or girth or both. I have a erect size of 6 to 6.5 inches with a normal girth size. Never had a complaint.

I know taller women have longer canels verse a smaller lady. My wife is 5 ft 2 inches and when I go all the way in sometimes it hurts her and long toys hurt her, but short with girth she likes very much.

I think size ionly matters to what feels good on a lady. There is more to a man than his dick when having sex. If it was all based on dick size for ladies then we wouldn't need a thing called foreplay ever.

How long you are in a non-erect status don't matter. Hell--if it is cold out or I wear tight underwear all bunched up and a lady saw me naked she would go what a small dick---lol. Then when it is warm or been naked for a while it is a bit longer just "hanging"around.

There are men that have "Long" dicks of 7 inches or more and have no girth and vice versa. There are ave dicks of 5 to 6.5 inches that have girth and vice versa. We can only use what we were born with.

There are ladies out there that their man just has a big dick so they think anything less than their man is "small" so they compare thinking a smaller dick than their man won't please them. So they ask for men with big dicks----then that is where men get this "Dick size" complextion problem because woman are demanding it. Is sex all based on dick size? To some it is which I feel sorry for them women. Some awesome good looking men who are great in bed will get passed up because they have an ave dick size. Is it how big it is or how well you are in bed? There is more to sex than penetration.

The ave woman has an canel length of 7 inches. Anything longer than that a ave woman can't take. Ave I mean is 5 ft 5 inches tall. Now the majority of women can take any girth size and a large girth can make women sore but very rare if there is enough lube. Heck---a baby's head is bigger than a dick---lol. Also---a woman's canel only feels the penis the first 2 inches and the canel after that just makes a ballon shape which isn't around the penis. Her nerve endings pretty much stop feeling anything after 2 inches. So why would size matter then? Maybe it is just a way of having longer strokes. The tip of your dick is bigger than the shaft---maybe woman ought to say they want a large "head" on a dick than the length. Then men will start comparing the heads of their dicks----lol.

Anyways---if "longer" dick men want to boost about their dick size---who cares. It isn't the size that gives a woman an orgasm---it is how well the man has sex overall. Touching, kissing, blowing, foreplay, etc. If you don't have them skills no matter how big you are a woman will have just plain sex. Her whole body has nerve endings to give her an orgasm--not just her canel. We men on the other hand our main nerve ending is our dick and that is why we want all the attention on it compared to women who want the WHOLE body being please.

Enough said on Size matters---what a joke!!!!!

[OhioCouple]

Penis size is of importance to me. For whatever reason after I had my hysterectomy I find a larger penis to be extremely uncomfortable. In length though not girth (I don't know how you guys figure out girth anyway).

We have some friends that we have met and enjoy being with them for non sexual activities but admittedly I am scared to death to take it to a penetration level based on his penis size. The thought of it just makes me stop dead in my tracks and I lose all interest. Now I don't really know what constitues big, but this person is probably 9 or more inches.

My comfort level is 6 inches or less and with even my own husband who is in what they call the average range, there are certain sexual postions that we cannot enjoy due to the penetration becoming too painfull for me. I wish that he could shave off an inch or so....

Larger penis' are a huge turn off to me.

I think that sometimes overly endowed men tend to be less focused on pleasure and more focused on ramming what they think women want...... Guys, your turn to speak up here.

Lori