Confession: I LIKE smaller penises!

[riswingcpl]

Originally Posted by VanHlebar

God there is still hope for most of us guys!

Got room for one more? Don't worry, I'll keep my distance

Originally Posted by VanHlebar

But honestly...ladies have their issues with body images

God...isn't that the truth! Just this morning, G tried on a new pair of jeans and asked how her ass looked in them. I said "delicious" to which she replied "lying bastard!"...with a smile. So I asked if she'd rather I responded like an ad I saw on tv the other day. The chick asks if the pants make her ass look fat, to which her SO replied "No, your fat ass makes your ass look fat".

G though "delicious" was a better answer

[Dynamar]

I'm totally good with average or a little smaller than average. There's definitely such a thing as too big for this gal! Having a guy pound the crap out of your cervix isn't exactly fun.

[Miss_Piggy]

I was sitting here reading all these replies and thinking, "GOSH! There sure are a whole lot of average sized guys coming out of the woodwork here..." Then it dawned on me, it does makes sense for most of the guys out there to be average... in fact, tons of men must fall under the average line in order for it to be the average... given that we know there are men out there who come in above.

Anyway, my main point here is that I would like to thank this thread for giving a voice to the 'less than average to average' size category.

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by jimnjan

My husband has an average sized penis, and has always had a complex that rivals Howard Sterns about his penis. I saw this thread, called him in, and I finally saw the lightbulb go on!!! Thank you Tybee for bringing this up. Hopefully, he won't be as self conscious about himself. Lord knows he makes me cum multiple times, and very loudly! (I'm loud, not him...)

Jan

WOW, I'm glad that my post about what happened the other night helped somebody! Jan, thanks for telling me that! Your husband now seems to be in the most-desired category, according to the replies on this thread. The Ladies of Swingdom have spoken!

I loved catching up through all the replies here. You men are making me soooo horny! So many penises of varying sizes, so little time...

[freekynme]

I have to agree with the ladies on this one about liking the more average sized penis. Anything more than 8" is just too much for me.

[nikki77]

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

I don't know how many times we've seen profiles where there is a request that the penis of potential playmates must exceed ___ inches, or don't bother writing them. They only want a seriously big one.

I'm a tight woman married to a big man. I love my man the way he is, he's wonderful and I wouldn't change a thing about him. However, there are some things I can't do with his because it's big. I can't get him all the way in my mouth unless he's totally flaccid. I love the idea of getting a hard cock all the way in my mouth down to the base. Smaller ones are fun to suck and fun in other ways, too. The g-spot isn't but an inch or so from the opening, so smallish cocks are plenty. A smaller man can pound full-force and not hit my cervix and cause pain. (With my husband I have to be careful of that.) I actually enjoy cocks that are smaller than my husband's. Swinging is all about variety. I like all sizes. yes you ernjoy th

Many men feel inferior in the penis size department. Some will even say it, after we're in a situation and they've seen my husband's. It's such a shame that men are into that comparison game so much. This happened again, last night. Last night was the most extreme case I've run into, yet.

His wife was wonderful. She started with me, we spent a lot of time together, and then she wanted my husband in a serious way. I wanted her to have him in a serious way! Yowza, it was hot. Her husband was very skittish and was wandering in and out (it was a house party). We wouldn't proceed without his full knowledge and approval, if not his participation, so we had to run him down. When he finally got back in there and we asked if it was okay for my husband and her to proceed, he was fine with it...but he said he wouldn't be able to play with me. Meanwhile, he was looking and acting like he wanted me badly, kissing me and fondling my breasts. He said the reason he couldn't do anything was that he "didn't have anything to offer me in that department". He meant that because I had a hung husband, he certainly couldn't do anything for me! So, we had a talk. He was fascinated and fully engrossed with my perky C's, so I used that as an analogy. (His wife had a very attention-getting set of natural DD's.) I said, "You like my breasts, don't you?" He affirmed that he was crazy about them. It was a DUH statement on my part, he couldn't get his eyes, mouth or hands off of them. Then I said, "But mine are much smaller, not even half the size of your wife's. But, you like mine a LOT." I saw a lightbulb go off. He really got what I was saying. I told him that all sizes are great, each has something very special and exciting to offer. We went on to have fun while Mr. Tybee and his wife were pounding away beside us. I got to suck a cock that fit into my mouth, and he was in heaven. He still wouldn't full swap, his performance/size anxieties run too deep, but afterward he told me that in their 2 years around the Lifestyle, I was the first woman he was able to be hard with. He had a wonderful time and I think that what I said to him mattered. So, maybe there's hope for him down the road. I feel sorry that his size comparison issue is so deep that he can't even perform or enjoy this Lifestyle they're in/around. His wife is dying to see him having intercourse with another woman.

Is there anybody else like me that loves to play with a partner who has a smaller cock, even as a preference? I have never actually read in a profile, "seeking playmates with penises less than ___ inches!" Maybe if more men heard this more often, they'd have fewer issues with it.

yes you enjoy with variety good idea but the big is always best are u agree with me ?

[CuriousInOregon]

Ya know I dont really have a preference ya know the sayings (which are plentifull) its not the size its how you use it? I AGREE to that. I have been with men far to large for me to handle to men so small that I honestly had to wonder what happened but if you know what you are doing and are as passionate lover I dont think it matters weather your Ron Jeremy or well Hung like a Flea

[Chicup]

Well I'm pretty much average, as have all but one couple we have been with in terms of penis size. This guy was I'd guess 4" and thin and it just didn't do it for my wife. I think this might explain why his wife had a thing for anal sex

I think while its safe to say that most women don't have a problem with average, and a lot of women get hurt by above average, there is a lower limit too.

[CuriousInOregon]

that is a Little small I agree but IF they can preform good Oral I can deal with a smaller cock

[ShellyM]

I like an average sized penis I suppose, ranging usually 6"-7". Too small and I can't really feel him, too big means ouch and a limit on positions. So, I'm an average girl. I know about the bottoming out, WOW! That penis slams against your cervix and it'll bring you crashing back to reality lol.

[prettylady]

I LOVE taking Dog in my mouth when he is flaccid. Feeling him getting hard while I am caressing it with my tongue is WOW in my book. Then he's hard I take him in to far and *retch* gag reflex.
Ya, boys and girls thats sexy.
Or when you are almost there, ya right there, just a little longer, oh god almost there. Then WHAM!!!! cervix hits brick wall. NOT COOL PEOPLE!!!
Average or a little less is much better and above average in my books
Your friend,
Prettylady

[jimnjan]

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

WOW, I'm glad that my post about what happened the other night helped somebody! Jan, thanks for telling me that! Your husband now seems to be in the most-desired category, according to the replies on this thread. The Ladies of Swingdom have spoken!

You know how kids are? You ask them to clean their rooms, they don't do it. They go to neighbors and help their friend clean their room? I've been telling him size doesn't matter for years, and it took YOU to make him see that....I guess guys ARE like kids....only listen to other people! LOL Thanks again Tybee!!!

Jan

[jimnjan]

Originally Posted by prettylady

I LOVE taking Dog in my mouth when he is flaccid. Feeling him getting hard while I am caressing it with my tongue is WOW in my book. Then he's hard I take him in to far and *retch* gag reflex.
Ya, boys and girls thats sexy.
Prettylady

Actually, Jim loves it when he hears the gag reflex! I just don't understand it...it makes him harder! Took me years to get used to that!

Jan

[Mr. Truelove]

Originally Posted by prettylady

I LOVE taking Dog in my mouth when he is flaccid. Feeling him getting hard while I am caressing it with my tongue is WOW in my book. Then he's hard I take him in to far and *retch* gag reflex.
Ya, boys and girls thats sexy.
Or when you are almost there, ya right there, just a little longer, oh god almost there. Then WHAM!!!! cervix hits brick wall. NOT COOL PEOPLE!!!
Average or a little less is much better and above average in my books
Your friend,
Prettylady

Ok, the first too sentences are way too hot. If I read much more I feel like I am going to have to pay by the minute.

Mr. Truelove

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by jimnjan

You know how kids are? You ask them to clean their rooms, they don't do it. They go to neighbors and help their friend clean their room? I've been telling him size doesn't matter for years, and it took YOU to make him see that....I guess guys ARE like kids....only listen to other people! LOL Thanks again Tybee!!!

Jan

Jan, I KNOW, you have no idea how well! I'll tell another true story, and this time on Mr. Tybee. I know it's going to sound far-fetched, which is why I haven't told it so far, but it's true and I know you'll understand, because your husband is as thick-headed as my wonderful husband is, too.

Mr. Tybee, like just about all men, had insecurities about the size of his cock. He really believed that he had a small one. I thought on this one subject, he must be certifiably insane. On some levels, I think that he still believes it sometimes, deep down. I did not get how he could even think that. But over time, I figured out how it came to be.

Mr. Tybee is a "grower, not a shower". When it's totally flaccid, it's short enough to be in the category of small. I guess he looked at it flaccid more often than when it's been erect. In fact when I told him this, he agreed. When it's getting erect it grows like a monster, more than doubling in size.

During a particularly "nutty" time with him on this size issue, I suggested that I get it hard for him and measure it, to prove to him that it wasn't small. To my amazement, he didn't even know the size of it and had never measured it. I thought all men put a measuring tape to it, at some point. Not him! He thought this was a cool idea, so we went at it. When he was fully hard, I measured his length (from base to tip) and his girth. He did not believe me, even after I showed him the tape! So, we kept going and I told him I'd measure it again. We did, two more times that night. The first two times, it measured 8" long and a girth of 5 and 3/4" around the head. The third time, it measured just a smidgen longer than 8" (about 8 and 1/8"), and about 5 and 7/8" around the head. **lightbulb moment** It helped him a lot. In fact, we had a very hot night together that night. Still, he has had his moments about his size and what others might think about it. I reinforce him every chance I get, though. He knows on an intellectual level that it often takes some "work" to get him in me, he knows he hits bottom and he has to be careful, he knows that "certain things" are not even possible with us because of the size (we've tried - no way). But I guess in nearly all men, there's this deep emotional level where they still feel they might not measure up, no matter what they've got.

Since we've been swinging, he now sees that his cock is perfectly fine as he is, and he's not small. It's other people's comments that have sunk in with him the most, more than anything I've said to him. Thank God for other women, huh?