Does penis size really matter?

[EggPlantKing]

Me and my wife have been talking about our exes and all the things we have done with them. I discovered that I am the smallest (Penis Size) one way or another that she has ever been with sexually. I understand that most women will say when confronted face to face that size isn't that big of an issue. There are a thousand different metaphors for the length and width "It's not the size of the wand, Its the magic in it." " It's not the size of the boat is if you can keep it in port till all the passengers have gotten off."
I need a females perspective does size count. I measured and discovered I am 6 inch long and 3 inches around is this small or normal.

[prettylady]

Normal? Have you seen a penis lately, I really don't think there is anything normal about a penis. OH don't get me wrong I love penis' my bf Dog happens to be attatched to my favorit penis.
Some women like a big penis, I know there is one on the board who will say size matters to her. I for one don't like a large penis, I am after all a small woman inside.
To big a penis I hurt inside for days. Where our friend (I really wish I could remember her name) Likely loves the feeling of a guy "bottoming out".
What matters is not "the size of the boat". What matters is do you please your woman.
Was penis size an issue when you hooked up? not likely, it was perhaps your eyes, your smile, or even your sence of humor. For me it was Dogs chest and abs, superficial? Well Ya, but it lead to a wonderful relationship with a wonderful guy.
My G spot is not buried 7" inside of me. Dog can reach it with his fingers part way insereted. Soooo, having said that would I be better stimulated by "superdick the 9" slong" Or "Joe Average" with his 6". I never asked Dog how big he is. No he is not my biggest, but he is the only one who could make me orgasim with intercourse.
OK, so Ya size matters. Different size penis' work better with different women. But the bread and butter here is. Does my man please me. I can honestly say YES he does. Even his voice can bring me to an orgasm if we havent seen each other in awhile. If we are seeing each other often it still drives me wild. Don't forget his hands, and oh god that tounge.
I hope I have lifted you spirits abit. Or atleast, not confused you. I have a tendancy to ramble.
Your friend,
Prettylady

[fun4Ds]

eggplantking, i know you looking for some reasurance from women and im a guy, but i had to put my 2 cents in because yes we are the same size and it really did used to bother me. iv learned to accept who i am and my size, and belive me sex has gotten so much better with out the size hang up. iv been there trust me i know. yes mrs.fun has had bigger, both sizes (lengh and girth) and she prefers a little more on the girth side. does it bother me? maby when i was younger and a little less understanding but certainaly not now. why? because im the guy she loves and wants to share her life with and i totaly trust her with that. yea iv been at the clubs and had the bigger guys around and its not threatning why? (because its sexual not marrital) mrs.fun really appreciates my feelings with that. why do the wemon at clubs and get togethers pick me over the bigger men? well they certainly appreciate me not having the hangups about myself for one.

i mean would you want mrs. eggplantking to be so worried about the other women in the world. or who (you) have been with, with bigger boobs ,shorter, taller,prettier or tighter? i wouldn't think so. you would want her to have some confidence in herself sexually that she is the one you want to spend your life with, rite?

if size is a problem with you, i can relate, and i hope you deal with it, and find a way to feel comfortable about your average size, your not alone.if mrs.fun and i were at a club or get together and mr. 9x5 was standing there she would be eyes wide open but she would probably lean a little more your way.your confidence would win over.

as for myself i just dont mesure people or myself with a ruler. there is alot more to sex and life than that.

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by EggPlantKing

I need a females perspective does size count. I measured and discovered I am 6 inch long and 3 inches around is this small or normal.

I'm still trying to find out why men have such a hangup over this.

There is nothing more sexy that a man who's confident in who he is and what he wants. I've always thought that the biggest sex organ is between your ears. It's not what hangs between your legs. I'd much rather have a man who is 6 inches (my husband is your size, also.) who loves sex and loves to participate than one who is 9 inches and thinks that his cock is king and we are to worship it while he lies there and does nothing. (This would describe my ex)

As Pretty lady said, the G-Spot is only about 3 inches up inside the vagina, and it doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that you don't need a bigger guy to satisfy. I LOVE sex with my husband. He is the PERFECT size and the PERFECT lover. Please, be comfortable in who you are and what you have and quit worrying.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by EggPlantKing

Me and my wife... I discovered that I am the smallest (Penis Size) one way or another that she has ever been with sexually.

Dude...

Even with the least "equipment" you wound up with her. There must be some truth to all of those metaphors, eh?



Spoomonkey

[NandTfromCA]

T is about the same size you are and I have to tell him to go easy sometimes.

There are advantages to being with a guy who is average, or even on the small side. I like being pounded sometimes but it hurts too much when a “big” guy does it, whereas a guy who is not as big can really give it to me. Also, I can't see myself having anal sex with anyone bigger than T.

I like variety but if I had to choose one cock size, it would be yours

~Mrs

[VCee3]

dude, I'm 6.5" and I haven't had any trouble yet satisfying the women I've been with.

When I look down at the feller I don't consider it small, I consider it average just like my height, weight, shoe size or whatever.

it's easy to say "don't worry about it" but they've seen bigger and they've seen smaller, just in the same way you have with breasts. Believe me, I can have just as much (if not more) fun with a flat chested woman than I can with one with huge boobs.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by VCee3

dude, I'm 6.5" and I haven't had any trouble yet satisfying the women I've been with.

People from England say "dude"?

You blokes just get cooler all the time

Spoomonkey

[Thrax]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

People from England say "dude"?

You blokes just get cooler all the time

And here I thought it was a sign of the Apocalypse.

Dude.

Thrax

[EggPlantKing]

I think I may have asked this in the wrong context. I am not unsure about myself sexually and I know how to find all the right places (My wifes quote not mine ). I just wanted to know if I was average or small. I have never had the problem with pleaseing a woman with what I have. If my wife had been happy wife the others she had been with she wouldn't be with me. Thank God her other lovers never took the time to help her reach the "Plateau of Pleasure" that I strive to help her achieve.
The hype about size I think is bolstered by the inner fear of not being good enough in most men or the medias neccesity in blowing things out of proportion ( Quite literally in this case .). I just wanted to get the definitive answer to my size question by a group small enough to pole honesty and expereinced enough to know the truth.

[fun4Ds]

your average mrs.fun

[PrairieFire]

Being a guy, I've looked to see how I rated (okay okay 6.75"x 5 ) and it sounds like 5" is the "average" for a male. So 5.25 is above average and you can consider yourself hung.

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by EggPlantKing

I just wanted to know if I was average or small.

EPK, what do you think? What does your wife think? Your two opinions are the only ones that matter.

[scotnj]

I understand this issue, there are excercises that you can do to increase your length and girth but it takes a lot of time and dedication, there is a non commercial forum called thunders place that deals with this, it has lots of resources such as free instructional videos on how to perform these excercises.

[Annaiis]

Originally Posted by EggPlantKing

I need a females perspective does size count. I measured and discovered I am 6 inch long and 3 inches around is this small or normal.

Size has very little to do with being a great lover.

My best lover EVER - not my current partner - was quite small, and when he met me he had an inferiority complex about it because of negative feedback from his wife, who actively searched out large organs.

Loving his wife and wanting to please her despite her preference for larger organs - she was quite large herself - he had become an absolutely phenomenal cunnilinguist over his years of marriage, but sadly, despite his ability to satisfy her orally, she continued to belittle him about his size, and his inferiority complex remained.

As a close friend one of her large-organed playmates, I was invite to join them in a foursome FWB relationship and he was amazing!

He was the most passionate and yet sensitive man I've ever been with - he was a true "lover" - and combined with his skill in oral, not only was he regularly able to give me multiple orgasms orally - which no man before or SINCE has been able to do - but after four or five oral orgasms, he would enter me and though his organ WAS a bit smaller than most men I've been with, it was quite large enough, with my legs over his shoulders, to hit my G-spot, and we'd finish with a mind-blowing SIMULTANEOUS full-body orgasm - again, something that happens very infrequently to me.
Needless to say, he quickly lost his inferiority complex about the size of his member and about his ability as a lover in general.

A great lover is a great lover for many reasons, some of it's skill, some of it's a match in the size department, but to me, the most important things are passion and sensitivity.