Does penis size really matter?

[Annaiis]

Oh --- My first response was to your question

Originally Posted by EggPlantKing

... does size count?

If all you wanted to know was

Originally Posted by EggPlantKing

... I am 6 inch long and 3 inches around is this small or normal.

At 6" long you are pretty much average in length, and at 3" around you are smaller than average in circumference.

Here are three polls that answer that question ...
penis size poll
Penis Girth!
How do you measure your penis and how long is it by that method?

[EggPlantKing]

My wife just told me I may have mispoke I gave the wrong measurements I thought girth was one side of the penis to the other. So I guess the right measurements would be 6 inches long and 6 in circumference. Does that change it?

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by EggPlantKing

Me and my wife have been talking about our exes and all the things we have done with them. I discovered that I am the smallest (Penis Size) one way or another that she has ever been with sexually. I understand that most women will say when confronted face to face that size isn't that big of an issue. There are a thousand different metaphors for the length and width "It's not the size of the wand, Its the magic in it." " It's not the size of the boat is if you can keep it in port till all the passengers have gotten off."
I need a females perspective does size count. I measured and discovered I am 6 inch long and 3 inches around is this small or normal.

I can only speak for myself, but I think most women think like I do. I just have never looked at a man and thought "I wonder if he has a 10" dick" lol, I swear I haven't! There are women who say they are looking for hung men, but I just don't understand why. There is only so much of a penis a vagina can hold, and the rest is wasted space lol. I don't, seriously.

[MetroMike]

Originally Posted by EggPlantKing

My wife just told me I may have mispoke I gave the wrong measurements I thought girth was one side of the penis to the other. So I guess the right measurements would be 6 inches long and 6 in circumference. Does that change it?

Dude, a 6 in. girth is HUGE, and a 6 in. length is average. With your girth, I think most women would be very happy. You have absolutely nothing to worry about. Well, nothing to worry about as long as you know how to use it.

[EggPlantKing]

This is the EggPlantQueen. I have to say yes he does knwo how to use it and then some. I have never had a satisfying sexual relationship till i got with him and now I just can't complain and I think I would be foolish to try. Thats all for now I am having trouble putting it into words all the things he can do for me.

My first post.

[fun4Ds]

mrs.egplantking,welcome to the board mrs.fun dosen't post alot on the board, last night she ment to reply with " your average, facelick " but our puter crashed so her reply looks kinda strange.

glad to hear that things are happy in the home,stick around and let us know about you guys. are you guys swingers or just interested? either way welcome to the swingers board mr. and mrs.fun

[Amanda69]

From Men's Health . com

2. What's the average length of an erect penis?

A. 6.21 inches
B. 5.95 inches
C. 8.01 inches
D. 12.2 inches

Answer: A. Ninety percent of men measure between 5 and 7 inches when erect, while the mean size of a flaccid penis is 3.89 inches. If you insist on measuring yourself: Press the ruler--er, yardstick--against your pubic bone, just above your penis.

[EggPlantKing]

Now when it says press against the pubic bone it changes things. I thought it was just from where the shaft meets the belly. Oh well at least I knwo I ma not you knwo like freakishly small. Thanks for all the replies. Mrs Eggplantking says thanks to she was having trouble trying to make me feel better when I just wanted to know if I ws average or small and didn't need the reasurance just the facts.

[jimnjan]

Originally Posted by EggPlantKing

Me and my wife have been talking about our exes and all the things we have done with them. I discovered that I am the smallest (Penis Size) one way or another that she has ever been with sexually. I understand that most women will say when confronted face to face that size isn't that big of an issue. There are a thousand different metaphors for the length and width "It's not the size of the wand, Its the magic in it." " It's not the size of the boat is if you can keep it in port till all the passengers have gotten off."
I need a females perspective does size count. I measured and discovered I am 6 inch long and 3 inches around is this small or normal.

Oh yeah, I really want an 8" cock trying to penetrate through my cervix! That really turns me on!

Seriously, I can see a large penis as more of a problem (for me) than of a desire.

Size only matters with those that make it matter. For instance, some men don't care what cup size a woman is, a boob is a boob right? Great in all shapes and sizes right? They all have nipples ready to be sucked, and they all receive the pleasure from being sucked.
Now, some men have a hangup on "if I'm going to be with a girl, she's gotta have at least a C cup", that's the same thing as a girl saying "I'm only going to be with a guy who has at least X amount of inches".
For the rest of us, as long as it does the job, who cares? If I orgasm, it's big enough.

Jan

[EggPlantKing]

Thank you for all the replies. I am sort of flattered to know that so many wemon like the general size I am. I don't remember ever having so many people talk about my member in such a useful and flattering way. Makes me a little more willing to go to a club now that I know I wouldn't be a "Point and Giggle" attraction."

[jedi6942]

Point and giggle? No. That's closer to me, maybe. In order for 6 inches to be "average" there must be about as many less than "average" as there are that exceed the "average." You guessed it. Mine is less than four inches. No. it isn't very big around, either. Did I get cheated? I used to think so. No longer. (Pun intended.)

It was likely due to my complex about my size that I devoted myself so enthusiastically to becoming more accomplished at oral skills. Who knew that I would enjoy it so, so much?

Over time I have learned that loving what you do has an enormous impact on effectiveness; and popularity too.

Many years ago I will confess to thinking that large breast were better. Now I know that its all about the woman behind the breast and what a wonderful team they are together.

It's all about learning to be happy with what you have. After all, I've discovered others are happy with what I have!

[EggPlantKing]

Jedi6942 Thanks for the support and understanding. I am so glad I found a place people can share there experiances openly. I ws wondering if since you obviously have a technique with the oral stimulation could we so to speak compare notes cuase its has been my favorite part of the sexual experience in many cases. If not could you point me to a web site to get more info. I always am looking to get that 6th or 7th orgasm out of the experience. Thanks

[Rosleenlove]

well i guess it all matters if you wine and dine you partner before sex....if you are in and out in a rush she will feel bad but if you set a picture session with a nice coctail and some good nice words she want have a problem about you been small...