Big Guy - Little Problem

TheGame · 11-17-2002, 01:10 AM

I am 6' 6" tall, and I have a 3 incher. I am a virgin, but I am eager to get back into the dating scene. Maybe even become a 3rd with a couple. I have this feeling that once a woman sees it, they''ll just laugh me out of the bedroom. Any advise on how I can approach someone? Or any on anything else would be fine too. Eager to hear any feedback.

darling · 11-22-2002, 03:52 PM

Me thinks someone is playing in the swinging room and justing trying to get a reaction.

youngish56 · 11-22-2002, 07:20 PM

Big Guy. I'd try the metric system. Just avoid Europeans.

ciscosv · 11-23-2002, 01:32 PM

All I can say is: You never know untill you find out

Chicup · 11-23-2002, 02:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by TheGame
I am 6' 6" tall, and I have a 3 incher. I am a virgin, but I am eager to get back into the dating scene.

Why did a virgin get out of the dating scene?

DragonsLair · 11-23-2002, 06:17 PM

Is that 3" erect or flaccid? Has someone made comments to you about it? If they really care about you, your size shouldn't matter.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

TheGame · 11-28-2002, 06:11 AM

I'll try to answer everyone's comments/questions. It's not a joke. I used to date, with a simple kiss goodnigh, but stopped dating to get more involved with school, making money, and a few other things. But I am ready to get back out there, but I am looking to de-virginize myself. And it's 3' hard. I did show it to someone who snickered when she saw it.

DragonsLair · 11-28-2002, 12:37 PM

I'm sorry someone treated you that way. I think it was uncalled for. There are some women who are obsessed with size. And unfortunately, they will behave like children when they see you and you don't fit their ideal.

I really don't think size matters. Most women don't have orgasms from penetration anyway. Most of us require clitoral stimulation to orgasm. But not all, and I suppose to them size is very important.

But don't beat yourself up over this. In life, we just have to play the hand we're dealt. Someday you will find a woman who will love you exactly as you are. It may be tough to get there. And yes, there will be women who will laugh and make nasty comments. Please don't take them to heart. You are not your penis size.

There are so many ways to satisfy your lover. Have fun finding those ways.

Keep looking for that special woman. She is out there.

Best wishes.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

TheGame · 11-29-2002, 03:26 AM

Thank you for your support

darling · 11-29-2002, 10:26 AM

I know women are obsessed with our looks, but men are obsessed about their penis size or lack of as they see it. My husband is average and constantly makes remarks about how I would like bigger. This is far from the truth. I am more then happy with his and I have orgasms with oral or manual stimulation not with penatration. The couple of times that I've been with men that are well endowed, I get sore quickly and can't go another round.

However, if this still upsets you, you may want to talk to your doctor about options.

OhioCouple · 11-29-2002, 08:26 PM

You have a lot of great qualities going here. You are educated and career oriented. What the others have told you here is very true. For most women the size of a penis is not near as important as how a man presents himself and how he treats her. I feel you need to focus more on your confidence level, and not let your penis size be a factor. There are many women who much prefer a smaller penis as penetration with even a 5" or so can be very painful.

Focus on your confidence as who you are as a person and present yourself in that manner. The rest will fall into place naturally. When you meet that special someone who enjoys your company and loves you as a person, she'll enjoy every aspect of your body as much as you will hers. In fact you will probably make a better lover than many singles out there that promote nothing but their cock and only think with it. For those that may snicker, they may never know what they might have missed. That is their loss, not yours.

Best wishes,

Lori

DragonsLair · 11-29-2002, 09:02 PM

Well said, Lori. I agree with you on TheGame having much going for him. He's been well spoken in his posts.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

TheGame · 12-02-2002, 06:37 AM

Thank you all for your help. I can try forming good oral skills to bring any partner to orgasm. Now I know that it's not all penetration with a large penis, there's alot of areas to cover.

darling · 12-02-2002, 01:28 PM

Besides, anal sex is much better with someone less endowed!! You could advertise as the back half of a D/P!!

sportync · 12-03-2002, 03:31 PM

Darling, you must have been reading my mind! I was thinking that exact thing when I read your post. There are probably a lot of women out there who would love to try de ole' back door, but are hesitant when they actually see what's fixin' to go there. But a small guy could be their collective dream cum true! Anyway, work on your oral skills, and find positions(like her legs together instead of spread) which could provide more friction, and you should'nt have any problems. Like they say, it ain't de meat, it's de motion dat makes dat momma wanna rock! Sportync

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11-17-2002, 01:10 AM	#1 (permalink)
TheGame Registered Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 4 Location: So Cal Status: Single Male	Big Guy - Little Problem I am 6' 6" tall, and I have a 3 incher. I am a virgin, but I am eager to get back into the dating scene. Maybe even become a 3rd with a couple. I have this feeling that once a woman sees it, they''ll just laugh me out of the bedroom. Any advise on how I can approach someone? Or any on anything else would be fine too. Eager to hear any feedback.

11-23-2002, 01:32 PM	#4 (permalink)
ciscosv Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 750 Location: Redford, Michigan Status: Married Couple	All I can say is: You never know untill you find out __________________ M&M Melts in your mouth, not in your hand

11-29-2002, 08:26 PM	#11 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	You have a lot of great qualities going here. You are educated and career oriented. What the others have told you here is very true. For most women the size of a penis is not near as important as how a man presents himself and how he treats her. I feel you need to focus more on your confidence level, and not let your penis size be a factor. There are many women who much prefer a smaller penis as penetration with even a 5" or so can be very painful. Focus on your confidence as who you are as a person and present yourself in that manner. The rest will fall into place naturally. When you meet that special someone who enjoys your company and loves you as a person, she'll enjoy every aspect of your body as much as you will hers. In fact you will probably make a better lover than many singles out there that promote nothing but their cock and only think with it. For those that may snicker, they may never know what they might have missed. That is their loss, not yours. Best wishes, Lori __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.

12-03-2002, 03:31 PM	#15 (permalink)
sportync Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 232 Location: eastern north carolina	Darling, you must have been reading my mind! I was thinking that exact thing when I read your post. There are probably a lot of women out there who would love to try de ole' back door, but are hesitant when they actually see what's fixin' to go there. But a small guy could be their collective dream cum true! Anyway, work on your oral skills, and find positions(like her legs together instead of spread) which could provide more friction, and you should'nt have any problems. Like they say, it ain't de meat, it's de motion dat makes dat momma wanna rock! Sportync __________________ this ain't no dress rehearsal

11-22-2002, 03:52 PM	#2 (permalink)
darling Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 180 Location: Ohio Status: Couple	Me thinks someone is playing in the swinging room and justing trying to get a reaction.

11-22-2002, 07:20 PM	#3 (permalink)
youngish56 Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 68 Location: Florida Status: couple	Big Guy. I'd try the metric system. Just avoid Europeans.

11-23-2002, 06:17 PM	#6 (permalink)
DragonsLair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 1,020 Location: Cleveland, OH Status: Married Couple	Is that 3" erect or flaccid? Has someone made comments to you about it? If they really care about you, your size shouldn't matter. DragonsLair He is T. I am A.

11-28-2002, 06:11 AM	#7 (permalink)
TheGame Registered Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 4 Location: So Cal Status: Single Male	I'll try to answer everyone's comments/questions. It's not a joke. I used to date, with a simple kiss goodnigh, but stopped dating to get more involved with school, making money, and a few other things. But I am ready to get back out there, but I am looking to de-virginize myself. And it's 3' hard. I did show it to someone who snickered when she saw it.

11-28-2002, 12:37 PM	#8 (permalink)
DragonsLair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 1,020 Location: Cleveland, OH Status: Married Couple	I'm sorry someone treated you that way. I think it was uncalled for. There are some women who are obsessed with size. And unfortunately, they will behave like children when they see you and you don't fit their ideal. I really don't think size matters. Most women don't have orgasms from penetration anyway. Most of us require clitoral stimulation to orgasm. But not all, and I suppose to them size is very important. But don't beat yourself up over this. In life, we just have to play the hand we're dealt. Someday you will find a woman who will love you exactly as you are. It may be tough to get there. And yes, there will be women who will laugh and make nasty comments. Please don't take them to heart. You are not your penis size. There are so many ways to satisfy your lover. Have fun finding those ways. Keep looking for that special woman. She is out there. Best wishes. DragonsLair He is T. I am A.

11-29-2002, 03:26 AM	#9 (permalink)
TheGame Registered Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 4 Location: So Cal Status: Single Male	Thank you for your support

11-29-2002, 10:26 AM	#10 (permalink)
darling Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 180 Location: Ohio Status: Couple	I know women are obsessed with our looks, but men are obsessed about their penis size or lack of as they see it. My husband is average and constantly makes remarks about how I would like bigger. This is far from the truth. I am more then happy with his and I have orgasms with oral or manual stimulation not with penatration. The couple of times that I've been with men that are well endowed, I get sore quickly and can't go another round. However, if this still upsets you, you may want to talk to your doctor about options.

11-29-2002, 09:02 PM	#12 (permalink)
DragonsLair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 1,020 Location: Cleveland, OH Status: Married Couple	Well said, Lori. I agree with you on TheGame having much going for him. He's been well spoken in his posts. DragonsLair He is T. I am A.

12-02-2002, 06:37 AM	#13 (permalink)
TheGame Registered Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 4 Location: So Cal Status: Single Male	Thank you all for your help. I can try forming good oral skills to bring any partner to orgasm. Now I know that it's not all penetration with a large penis, there's alot of areas to cover.

12-02-2002, 01:28 PM	#14 (permalink)
darling Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 180 Location: Ohio Status: Couple	Besides, anal sex is much better with someone less endowed!! You could advertise as the back half of a D/P!!

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