Penis size affects on swinging? Ladies

[healther]

Ladies,

If you and your partner linked up with a male for an MFM and the "extra" male reveals a very small penis (ie 3 inches) what would you do? what would your reaction be? also, consider the same for a very large penis (ie 12+ inches)?

Healther

[jake47]

my girl would not take a 3 inch dick. she would take a 12 inch at least try

[midnight hour]

Well I for one would not laugh at the smaller one...the second man is there for a variety of reasons... facelick not just the size of his penis...
a very large one..hmm..that I would have to see how it played out. If it hurt I would say so, and go towards other options.
Either way I would not make either man feel like a freak of nature. Since the option is there for fun to be had by all, regardless of the size of anything.

[healther]

Originally Posted by midnight hour

Well I for one would not laugh at the smaller one...the second man is there for a variety of reasons... facelick not just the size of his penis...
a very large one..hmm..that I would have to see how it played out. If it hurt I would say so, and go towards other options.
Either way I would not make either man feel like a freak of nature. Since the option is there for fun to be had by all, regardless of the size of anything.

Kudos to you--everyone should be treated with respect.

[Vespertine]

I'd take the three incher over the twelve any day of the week.

I wouldn't bat an eye at the three-incher. I've known a few men that were smaller in size and they were decent in bed. There's more to sex than penetration.

Twelve inches, on the other hand, would probably cause me to catch my breath at first sight. I've never seen a twelve inch penis. I wouldn't know what to do with something that big. I'm guessing my jaw would be very tired in the morning.

[dave1234]

Sorry, you get a bi-male response. But then I have the job of vetting the dicks.

For my wife bigger is not better. An 8 in guy is going to get told to ease up - I guess getting your cervix knocked by a dick is about as fun as a kick in the balls. We also find that oral sex with an "average" guy is a lot more fun than feeling like you have had your mouth locked open for dental surgery.

[johnlyn4u]

All of our encounters have been with average sized guys. Lyn sampled an enormous cock before we ever got together, but she has always said it was just too intimidating. She said it hurt too much when she tried to fuck it, so she just kind of played, licked, sucked it 'til he came. She never went back for seconds.

She also had a guy with a very small cock when she was single. She sad it was quite a surprise to reach in his pants and find a small cock, but not a big deal.

I'd love to see her suck and fuck a really big cock (10-12 inches), but I think I fantasize about it more than she does. I'm not into guys, but I do think I'd really enjoy watching Lyn play with a big cock. Now that she's a little more experienced, I think she'd kind of get off on it. She's said that she'd be very willing to give it another try.

[eager4more]

Originally Posted by Vespertine

I'd take the three incher over the twelve any day of the week.

I wouldn't bat an eye at the three-incher. I've known a few men that were smaller in size and they were decent in bed. There's more to sex than penetration.

Twelve inches, on the other hand, would probably cause me to catch my breath at first sight. I've never seen a twelve inch penis. I wouldn't know what to do with something that big. I'm guessing my jaw would be very tired in the morning.

Dito to everything. Plus, there's a place for everything and everythign has its place - smaller would be great for anal.

[healther]

So, does it really matter? Personally, a very large one may be a bit overwhelming--a small one, well it's not the size that matters but what he can do with it

[montresor]

Both Ms P and Ms F report that when confronted with a teeny one they've gone ahead and done it anyway. "You've come this far" is the tone of it. Ms P says she is disappointed when finding a small one and will usually suck the guy to completion and send him on his way. One guy she met who was small she liked well enough, however, to meet again and got into regular anal with him.

This, however, is not in a swinging context, where there is usually some sort of erection photo in play. We already know how big the guy's tool is, and make our selections based in part on that. Both ladies like 'em big! Ms F especially, who is craving to try something bigger than the biggest she's already had, which was 9x6.

[txduo2000]

The men that I have been with who have had small penises ... well, let's just say that they didn't really know what to do with them. :rollseyes

In my 20 years of having sex, I have of course, come across a variety of shapes and sizes. I am fortunate to say that I have not had too many instances of small penises. Size DOES matter to me. And the reason for that is because those with smaller ones absolutely could not use them to any real degree of satisfaction. Not in my opinion anyway.

I am, what I have been told, "two-finger-tight" ... so I don't think it's MY problem that I get very little out of a very little penis.

My current husband is a whole 2" larger than my ex-husband, and I really had no complaints with my ex-husband, but definitely prefer my current husband's size as far as total satisfaction is concerned. I have a "limit" on size, and I will not go any smaller than 6" with an average girth. Less than that does nothing for me.

I have passed by men on the personals sites who didn't have a penis size to my preference.

And on a sidenote, a funny story:

We went to a house party one night ... got to talking to this one couple. I was a little inebriated at this point, :rollseyes , so I was a little more enamored of this fella than I should have been (and now that I have met him stone cold sober, I discovered he has the allure of a sweaty sock). While talking, height and penis size came up. He told me he was 6'5" (sooo not true .... my husband is almost 6'3"), and that he was 8" (found out later this was untrue as well ... 4" erect TOPS - my own husband is 8" - I know, I measured myself ). I understand that women like me put undue pressure on men as far as size is concerned, however, I really don't see the point in lying, especially if people are gonna find out the truth anyway.

[HotMoCpl]

Its not about "how much" a guy has to use, but more about "how" he uses what he has. My wife has told me she's had guys with small dicks that have made her scream in bloody delight. Just give the guy a break. After all, he just might have a wicked toung. facelick

[BodyScape02]

Well I for one am angry ...I am so sick of it... by "it" I mean the lying.

The exaggerating penis size by inches ( allot of inches) in order to get into bed with us.

I am very angry at the “tiny” men who when I ask them straight up- “How big are you when erect?”- and inform them I have a preference- “because, I prefer men who are at least 7.5 or 8 inches or more”...( that is what really hits my g-spot... smaller just does nothing for me) LIE their asses off just to get to the "point of no return".

It puts me in a spot were I would have to hurt someone’s feelings , something I have been conditioned not to do... bruise a poor male ego... so they get to fuck with me...
and then I feel like a prostitute- Used and very, very unsatisfied.

I have even wasted my time performing oral on a limp little phallus trying to get it hard to no avail, until I lost all interest even in enjoying play with my Darter… to say I was pissed is an understatement.

So, these lying men with little dicks get over using that ploy. NO MORE... I am justifiably angry because this has happened more than once to us.

It is wrong. As wrong as if someone waited until they were done cumming in or on you to inform you they had an std. It is deceptive and low and I think women should quit being so damn polite about it and stand up for our dignity.

If you know going in ..that is one thing... but lying about it...well then I think you should be open game and get ready to be told off and kicked out of the room.

As for big... I would be delighted to finally meet a man who says he is "huge" and it not be a lie. I would make his millennium just because I was so happy to finally “see” an honest man. Just let me be on top.

A very hissing mad ~CAT

I know this will get a flame response but it is such a passionate topic with me... it is the reason I am about ready to just quit and leave the entire thing.

[iwantmorefun69]

Ok this is going to sound way to grade school but, how is the penis properly measured, I think I am aveage but now I have doubts, please explain how to properly measure
Thanks

[BodyScape02]

for me...base of the erect shaft on the belly button side to the tip... that does not include the balls...

anyone else?