Penis size affects on swinging? Ladies

[txduo2000]

I agree with your measurement technique, BodyScape. That's how I do it!

And, though I am not fighting pissed off like you are BodyScape, I do detest the liars. It hasn't caused any real problems with us like it seemingly has for you ... we just had the one incident and I just wrote it off to the guy being a total weirdo in every sense. lol I mean, I guess I should have clued in that if he could stand next to my husband, who at 6'2.5 towered over him by at least a good two inches, and say with a straight face that he was 6'5 ... it should have tipped me off that he was exaggerating his penis size as well.

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by BodyScape02

for me...base of the erect shaft on the belly button side to the tip... that does not include the balls...

anyone else?

This is the way MrLM measures his penis. I think it would be better to underestimate and give that number out than to overestimate and disappoint people.

Which brings me to this: I like it when swinger ad sites give you a place to list your penis size. I think it helps people who want a certain length penis in their playmates. Some people refuse to fill that information in on their profiles and I think it would be an advantage to do so.

Also, I'm more comfortable having a fill-in-the-blank place to put that info rather than writing it in my profile, which can sound like I'm bragging rather than simply trying to point out a fact.

I would not be interested in a very large cock, my vagina couldn't handle it. I would much prefer smaller than larger.

LM

[txduo2000]

I wrote our profile, and I did put my husband's penis size in there. A choice he, himself, would probably not make.

I guess I was bragging. lol

What can I say? I am proud of it, and so happy it's mine!

I agree with LM ... I think it is an advantage to somehow communicate that information to those who have an interest in it.

But beware of those like the fella we met ... lol I think he was thinking in terms of centimeters.

[kevin&danielle]

Originally Posted by BodyScape02

for me...base of the erect shaft on the belly button side to the tip... that does not include the balls...

anyone else?

This is the correct method but just an added suggestion for those males with upward curved penises; pull it down so it is parallel to the floor when measuring. This is the universally accepted method (at least in my universe). Penile (that word always cracks me up) measurement is very simple really. The measurement should measure the usable portion of ones member. Starting at the asshole to the tip of the penis, may produces impressive results, but also will piss off the Mrs. BodyScapes of the world, as it should.

Kevin

[txduo2000]

Originally Posted by kevin&danielle

Starting at the asshole to the tip of the penis, may produces impressive results, but also will piss off the Mrs. BodyScapes of the world, as it should.

Kevin

LOL

Sorry, this cracked me up. I really like Mrs. BodyScapes, and am glad she is around to offer her advice. I enjoy her posts ... but I have read at least a couple of her posts today, and she seems to piss off rather easily.

[BodyScape02]

AHAHAHAHAHAHA>>>>

Mr. Bodyscape here… just read my baby's reply and the subsequent responses…

Will anger over men lying about penis size be known as the “Bodyscape Effect?”

[curiousduo30]

Very catchy phrase Mr.Bodyscape! I think we have a winner!

[BodyScape02]

Originally Posted by txduo2000

Sorry, this cracked me up. I really like Mrs. BodyScapes, and am glad she is around to offer her advice. I enjoy her posts ... but I have read at least a couple of her posts today, and she seems to piss off rather easily.

Actually, she only wrote once. I was the one going on about smokers... we should sign our posts I guess...

MR BodyScape... LOL

[txduo2000]

Regardless ... lol ... I like the posts by BodyScapes, whether Mr or Mrs. lol

[Miss_Piggy]

Unless penis size is correlated with tongue strength (which I'm pretty sure it isn't...) it's not worth my trouble worrying about. The truth of the matter is, the penetrative aspect of sex (I think I just coined some new terminology... ) just isn't what it's all about for me. Also, I'm a lot more comfortable going down on a slightly smaller guy. I just don't have a big enough mouth... much to my own dissappointment.

I do enjoy larger men for hand jobs though. It's a little easier to get a good grip.

[johnlyn4u]

I do enjoy larger men for hand jobs though. It's a little easier to get a good grip.[/quote]

I have only had one really big one, but what I really did enjoy about it was playing with it in my hands. I really liked licking, stroking and playing with a big fat cock. (a fond memory) But as far as sucking and fucking something that big, I don't care if I ever get one again.

L

[BodyScape02]

mrs bodyscape here...

Actually it takes allot ( or a little several times in a row...lol) to piss me off. This one just gets me because it has happened soooo often.

Actually the curved saber type of penis is my FAVORITE type. I guess you would also have to measure that one from the base near the balls to the tip and take the median number. Phallus like that tend to be the young straight against the body type and I have never met a man with one who wasn't a really good lover.

In general like Socrates...everything in modernation... too little is too little, too big is too big, somewhere in the middle for all of us is ..JUST RIGHT! I am so happy I know who and how long my JUST RIGHT is.

Still I would love to have the chance to get my mouth around 10 inches... gag me baby, I deal with it... after all it is sooo much fun to lick and nibble and do all kinds of things to the shaft and the balls... it is not all about deep throat. Although I like doing that too.

So were are you mr. Well-hung-third? Drop me a line... give me a chance to see if I like it or love it or can't handle it.

~Cat

[BodyScape02]

Oh dear it seems my plea for a gag me hung man has scared everyone off... my bad...so sorry.

But really ...if your out there... drop us a line

[beaverz]

Originally Posted by BodyScape02
for me...base of the erect shaft on the belly button side to the tip... that does not include the balls...

anyone else?

Warning; Do not use a metal yardstick when using this method. I needed 10 stitches after stabbing myself trying to get the desired length.

The good news is I did get to 10”, but it was embarrassing explaining it to the doctor.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by BodyScape02

for me...base of the erect shaft on the belly button side to the tip... that does not include the balls...

anyone else?

From the base of the spine to the chin...

I doubt you will get flamed for it. People lying to get you in bed - be it about their penis size or their relation to famous people is a fair enough reason to get pissed. Honestly, the fact that you entertained them at all... Well - I am glad that you have put your foot down... It's about time...

Honestly, this has never been a question we've been asked - nor have we asked it. While I completely understand if it is a preference, it isn't for us. We are attracted to personalities - but there have been a few painfully small playmates out there for Mrs Spoomonkey and those are ALWAYS disappointing.

But, I guess that is such a relative thing. She says it is because I have her spoiled - and while that is flattering, I realize that while I may be bigger than some of those guys, I am not exactly "porn worthy" - even with my screwy measuring system. If someone is used to John Holmes, I figure everyone would pale in comparison.

The only time "numbers" came up was AFTER we played with a couple. We really didn't enjoy them, so we slid quickly to club acquaintences. However, sometime later, they contacted us through a website - not knowing it was us. We saw their pictures, read their descriptions and had to laugh at his claim of an "eight inch cock to please you."

Though - to be fair - he may have a short rooster who tells jokes...

Spoomonkey