Size matters.. to him...

[RoyAnn]

When I first met Roy we had discussions about both of our sexual histories. He had been with a lot more women than the number of men I had been with. That didn't bother me...I benefited from his experiences and knowledge.

He is average size, about 6". I had told him of an experience I had once with a well endowed man. He enjoyed hearing about it, but later I learned he felt a little inadequate because he wondered if he "measured up." I did enjoy that time I had spent with Bob, but I wasn't in love with him. Our time together was short, but it had awakened within me a realization of my own sexual nature.

With Roy I immediately fell in love with him. He is smart, funny, and so wonderfully tender and caring for me. We have a wonderful wonderful life together. He gives me orgasms so fantastic it zaps me physically and emotionally. My sexuality is important to him, as his is to me. He understands how much he turns me on. To show you how considerate he is, he works hard to give me serveral orgasms before he cums, just because he gets so much pleasure from seeing me cum. The expression that size doesn't matter is so very true to me. My man's penis may not be the largest, but he is completely and truly the greatest and most important thing in my life. I love my child (from another marriage), but love Roy so much because of who he is and how he treats me. In my mind, no one could be a bigger man, lover, friend, or companion. I know that size is important to some people (men and women.) But it shouldn't be.

Ann
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Roy here. I love this woman. She is my life. She is my world. Thank you baby for loving me and letting me love you.

[jcbicouple]

Originally Posted by driveajeepnaked

A bit of background first...

Mr Jeep and I began swinging together about 6 months ago. I had prior experiences with an ex many years ago, so understood starting slow and taking it easy with Mr Jeep. We started with FMF then progressed to soft swap with couples, then a full swap. That has been our only full swap experience so far.

Here comes the issue... Mr Jeep has "issues" with me being with a man that is more "penile-gifted" than he is. Don't get me wrong, his "jeepster" is very fine indeed, average length and on the thicker side. We have had many conversations about this and he feels that if I enjoy a bigger penis "too much" he knows that he can't achieve that feeling with me and will feel inadequate...

I see that many men WANT to see their wives/SO's enjoy a man larger than they are...or at least another male, often in a MFM. Mr Jeep would never consider a MFM, and is most comfortable in a FFM or MFMF as long as the other male is not a "physical challenge" to himself..

Opinions wanted...

Valarie

We would suggest you just ask for size before you consider play with a couple. We prefer not to know until we get there, but you're in a different situation. You need to be able to be comfortable with your playmates, and that will make you more comfortable.
In response to anyone saying that he shouldn't feel this way....Most people can't control how they feel. It doesn't matter if anyone thinks it's silly or whatever: It's real and just like you need to move at the slowest persons pace, you also need to do things that are comfortable for you both. We know women that won't let their husband do anyone they think is prettier than they are (it's actually more common than you'd think in this lifestyle). Frankly, We think there's nothing wrong with it. You still get to play, and you have more fun because everyone is comfortable!