Does Penis Size Really Matter to Women?

[akamgaxoxo]

I have searched and searched the archives here...and I have been wondering this for days now....does a man's penis size really matter to women?
For me personally, I do not care, I would prefer a medium to smaller cock size to get the job done...if ya'll know what I mean.
I know us women say that size does matter..to me it would matter if it was 3 inches or something like that! But I personally think it's the MOTION OF THE OCEAN that does it for me!
Also, when you choose a swinging partner, are you concerned about the size of his member? Do you tend to choose "hung" guys?

TTFN!!!

[Miss_Piggy]

There are numerous threads on this very topic.

Click here!!

Personally, I go with the thinking - size matters but it's not everything. Like you say, if it's 3 inches it might be a bit of a challenge. But really, I'm not too upset by a challenege. No I've never been with a 3 inch penis but I could see a guy having enough other assets to make me still interested in him. I'm in this for fun - not to waste time judging one specific part of a person's body. There are a lot of other factors that are of more importance to me (ie - personality, attraction, etc. etc.). Big dicks are appreciated but not necessary in my books.

[sensuality]

Well, I've -female member- been with anywhere from 6 inches on up to about 9 inches or so .The 9 incher...was painful during really deep penetration.I prefer the 6-7 inch myself And, for me, thickness is the key not so much length,however, I don't think any smaller than 5.5 for me

[sensuality]

P.S. And, he's gotta know how to work it

[eroticsensation]

ah......where do you start to measure? from the balls? where? anyone know the accurate method to measure the erect penis?

[mxdtxn774]

Originally Posted by sensuality

P.S. And, he's gotta know how to work it

I remember asking the question from the standpoint of confessed ignorance once. Just how does someone know how to "work it"? What would be a good suggested technique for working it properly? Once again I must feign ignorance in an attempt to gain the real answer to this phrase that I have heard many times over.

[mxdtxn774]

Originally Posted by eroticsensation

ah......where do you start to measure? from the balls? where? anyone know the accurate method to measure the erect penis?

You do not measure from the balls. I would say measure from the side of your penis not from the bottom or top. If you do it from the bottom, then the scrotum can cause a mismeasurement. If you do it from the top as is suggested, then the suspensory ligament that holds your penis up when erect can also cause a mismeasurement. Please note this is not an exact science, as I still can get various measurements depending on just how erect I was.

[stoutgatte]

Commonly accepted norm is from the line where the top of the penis meets the pubic bone to the tip... If it was from the bottom I'd have a MONSTER , but alas...

[sensuality]

I believe how a woman likes a man to "work it"' may be an individual thing,however, to me, working it is just that! facelick Not just pumping up and down like he's plunging the toilet But, actually moving in circular motions, pumping at times...slowly and quickly {alternating...having really great rhythm}Almost like he's dancing In a very sexy,seductive manner!! Think lambada!!Or salsa dancing...yummmmm!!

[akamgaxoxo]

Thanks all for the wonderful replies and links to other threads, as I just could not find them!! Still learning here!
Sensuality- I totally agree with the work it thing, though I do agree it is all on the womans preference. I am like you, a guy cannot just go all gun ho and just plunge away like a toilet, or let it sit in there because he is too excited to perform, or even small movements....personally it has to be an in and out motion with slow and fast movements some hip action in there and teasing. JUST like Dancing can be!! FUN and YUMMY! facelick

[JustAskJulie]

For whatever reason the link miss_piggy provided didn't work for me, so I wanted to go ahead and post some direct links to some other threads on this topic.

Does Size really matter?

If Size doesn't matter?

Does size matter to the guys?

Does size really matter?

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by akamgaxoxo

Also, when you choose a swinging partner, are you concerned about the size of his member? Do you tend to choose "hung" guys?

No concern here. I like variety.
I'm more interested in a man's personality and his charisma than his dick size. I get turned on mentally. Penis size is irrelevant to me. Men don't have to have a large penis to be a good lover. I've known several men that were well endowed that couldn't please me and have had lovers who were size-challenged rock my world.

So, I don't choose "hung" guys. I choose guys that exude the right chemistry.



*plus, Mr. V's hung like Adonis- I'm not lacking at home!

[jim-n-nicole]

I know some women who shy away from larger members. There is only so much length they can take without discomfort. Now width, that rarely is a problem!

Jim.

[EvilMJ]

mmm...I don't think it necessarily has to be a tonsil tickler to be enjoyable, however there was a guy in my past that wasn't so big. I spent the whole time we were having sex trying to determine if he actually had it in

Not so much fun

[leftcoastcouple]

I know I'm gonna catch hell for even asking this, even in a primarily rhetorical way, but as a guy who's slightly below average (but able to please Mrs. Leftcoast just fine, thank you very much), and having waded through several threads on this topic in the last year alone, I can't resist the urge:

Why are guys who are aren't blessed with huge penises stigmatized while women who've never done a Kegel in their lives but sorely in need of them free to point the finger the other way? It seems like a MAJOR double standard.

Small dick, bad; loose pussy, OK. Is that really how it is? Or are we just too politically correct as a society to insult a woman by calling a spade a spade and asking if the only reason she's a size queen is that she's as loose as a worn-out rubber band? Hell, men get ridiculed just for the sake of it, even if they don't complain about "loose" women!

A generalization, yes, but there's plenty of them about guys on the small side, so fair's fair, it seems. Discuss, please. I'm all ears (and the Mrs., petite thing she is who's got "nothing bigger than seven inches" in her list of "wants" in a play partner, is too!).