If size doesn't matter...

[sapphire68]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

In my opinion the correct way to state that wouldn't be knows how to use "it".

It would be "knows how to use everything he has". There's a lot more to getting a woman off than just sticking a dick (of any size) in her. If a guy understands that, then it really doesn't matter what size his dick is.

ITA

My husband not only knows what to do with his penis as far as the way he moves, but he also knows what to say to me, when to change positions, how to control the situation in bed (I'm more passive), etc. So it's actually a lot of things that come together at the same time.

[loungelizard]

Originally Posted by walrus0115

Hell, I'll bite on this one until the ladies chime in. I'm a married regular guy who belives he satisfies his wife and other partners quite well. While I am endowed with an average member, good sexual health and knowledge make it very desirable.

First, "how to use it" is an improper term. You're not "using" your penis anymore than the woman uses only her vagina. Herein lies the meat of the matter. For a man to be a truly good lover he has to first understand the female anatomy. Basically we're both the same. Head, shaft, sack. Clitoris, vagina, labia. They all start out the same, a little hormone here, a little hormone there and viola, one-eyed-monster.

Knowing that they are both basically the same organs will help you to have better sex. The head of your penis is a wonderfully sensitive area just like the clitoris. So if it feels good to have that stimulated then vice-versa. While yer at it, the shaft needs a little attention, so on to the vagina.... Oh, but don't forget to play with those balls when giving a blowjob ladies... so remember that labia... Get them all together for a hoedown and you've got yourself an orgasm.

I always try to put myself in the womans shoes during sex. (hehe no comments about that please.) What feels good to me usually feels good for her. What I mean is that if I like it when a girl sucks on the head of my penis and plays with my balls at the same time then she would most likely like it if I sucked on her clitoris and played with her labia at the same time.

Of course I've only dealt with the genitals here and I could write a whole book about breasts. I always look at sex like dancing. You gotta move all the parts, keep a good rythm with your partner and don't stop until the song is over for both of you. And sometimes you just have to grind together until you're sure that your pubic hair has turned to diamond from the pressure.

If there are any men out there that don't fully understand the female anatomy I would highly recommend the Discovery Health Channel. They have some awesome shows about human sexuality and how it evolved. We've even evolved sexually so that it is more likely that pregnancy will occur during simultaneous orgasm.... look it up!

off small knob women want a big snake up their pussy

[prettylady]

I have to say that Dog is great in bed with the act of sex, he knows how to touch and move extremly well. BUT, I have my best orgasims when he is talking to me. The talk is different depending on the kind of sex we are having. Some times it is raw and other times it is tender and loving. He also uses my wants and desires to get me going. We have mentioned marriage recently(not now and likely not for a few years) but a couple of days ago he refered to me as his wife. I had one of those head to toe orgasims that time, I was living the fantasy for awhile.
I was told once that the number one sexual organ on a women is her mind. Perhaps that is the "IT" that people are refering to. Dog can use "it" to get me to heaven very well.
Your friend,
Prettylady