I'd love to swing, but I'm afraid the wife would never go for it (very Catholic). However, recently (within the last year) she has been open to increasingly graphic sexual talk during intercourse if I initiate it. Started out with standard stuff from me like "fuck me", moving on to "does that cock feel good?" and "Rub your clit on me while you take my cock in your cunt" stuff like that.
All of this is a huge step for her (she was a virgin when I married her - the virgin thing is highly overrated).
Last month I added "fuck me like we are having a threesome" and "you are so tight it feels like you have 2 cocks in your pussy, want another cock?" and she said "I want you" and "I want another of you". I didn't press it and we haven't talked about it.
When I blurted out "I'd love to see another woman sucking on these tits" as I was about to cum from her riding me and having her tits swinging in my face, she said "not gonna happen, babe" - I let that die too.
Also, in a strange moment of brutal honesty, I previously shared with her my threesome fantasies (MMF and MFM) and asked her for hers. She was kind of shocked to learn about them, but wasn't upset and didn't sound interested, but not judgemental either. For about the 3rd time asking her for hers in turn, she said she had none.
So, even there is about a 100% chance she will never swing, I was wondering what you thought about this in general. And also, if you could recommend a decent amateur swinger DVD that isn't really crude or demeaning to women and isn't that fake stuff like the "fuck my wife please" tapes. She is very shy and has only seen about 10 minutes of a porno we rented in our hotel room once (and it wasn't a good one from what we saw).
I am an extrememly highly sexually charged guy. She isn't on the same level as far as that is concerned but for her, she has come a long way.