Does my wife want a MFM or is it just fantasy?

[uneed_love2]

Originally posted by curious24
thanks for the advice!

i swear it's easy for a woman.. i just have zero luck when it comes with women.. most of the time when i go out to a bar or something it's the nasty guys that get the numbers.. like the ones that are like 5'10" or 5'11" are all built up and muscles out the wazoo.. the shirt that is unbuttoned about 3 buttons.. have the side burns down their face.. and the messed up hair... it's really annoying cause i just don't see how ANYONE could like those kind of guys.. it really dumbfounds me...

This thread had 1776 hits ... I wonder how many single women are amongst them that are looking for a guy... Make sure you have your age and interests in your profile so that they can look at it and maybe send you a message...

Personally I don't care if the guy is all muscles. As a matter of fact, I prefer a positive attitude to muscles, most of the times they turn into fat anyways...

JC and I are almost the same size. Its great because I don't need to step on a ladder to sneak a kiss! I can wear his clothes (a big advantage!), even his shoes! My grandmother was almost a head taller than my grandfather... So you see, its not the looks, its the attitude that counts. Well, looks can help but they are not everything.

If you can't find a woman at a bar, look somewhere else. What do you like? Look for user groups or clubs with your interests. There are bound to be some single women that don't know where the single guys are...

[curious24]

Originally posted by uneed_love2
So you see, its not the looks, its the attitude that counts.

I couldn't agree with you more.. here's my take on things..

1) most important is personality.. must have an awesome personality.. because when you are old and grey and everything has faded away it's all you have left...

2) sex.. i really think a good sex life is very important to a healthy relationship.

3) appearence.. they don't have to be a super model but they need to be active like me and i need to find them attractive..

If you can't find a woman at a bar, look somewhere else. What do you like? Look for user groups or clubs with your interests. There are bound to be some single women that don't know where the single guys are...

oh i don't look at a bar.. i've found that most of those women are just taking people at face value.. and it's so annoying cause i'm not the hottest guy in the bar so they don't give me the time of day..

but i do exactly what you are talking about.. i take informal classes in things that interest my.. like photography.. out door things like kayaking or hiking etc.. i tend to meet a lot of nice people that way.. but few my age.. but you never know who those other people might know...

[bfor3]

Originally posted by SexhoundDog
This is probably a question for the ladies, but anyone please reply if you have some insight. My wife and I seem to find ourselves watching porn movies more and more, and it always leads to good sex. I notice that the ones she seems to like most are the MMF movies, but I don’t know if she just likes the “eye candy”, the fantasy, or would really like to try it. I asked her what she likes best, the total attention or the cocks, and she said it shows two things she really likes, intercourse and sucking cock.
I’m kind of taking it slow and hoping she’ll direct the conversation a bit more, so other than trying to be sure we get some MMF viewing to keep the idea fresh in her mind, I’m not quite sure how to move best on this. About the only other thing I said was that if she ever wanted to do the threeway, I’d have to like the guy too. We both like the movies where the guys act interested in pleasing the woman rather than the “suck it bitch” variety where it appears more degrading than sexy, so I’m hoping she thinks me having to like the guy means I’d be concerned about her satisfaction.
I guess my question is this. Should I press this any more or how would be a good way to get her to bring it up more open? I’m curious as to where enjoying a fantasy ends and perhaps wanting to taste reality takes over. Also, I assume it would make the most sense to let her do the selection? What seemed to work for you??